It seems quite superficial to me the way a woman's interest in me will rocket if she knows I'm involved with other girls. I often use this against them when I find myself in such a situation and questioned about the other girl(s). Usually it may be from a girl who's just an acquaintant/friend who (I guess)might being trying to re-evaluate where I belong in the hierarchy of sexiness. If I sense that they're going to act in a concerned manner or say something like "oh it's good that you're getting out and meeting girls", then I'm more likely to play dumb, as it's funny to see them get confused!
For example, I was once asked "so who was that girl you were with last night?" and I just replied, "remind me?" She immediately knew I was being difficult and gave up. However, if she has you all alone, she might insist and say "no seriously, who was she?", and then it'll be harder to refuse to answer, as you might only look insecure or embarrassed about it.
I suppose you want them to think that you're refusing to answer for the sake of banter, as opposed actually caring about what the she thinks. A few perfect witty responses can often be enough to stop them dead in their tracks. But in reality, if she asked again I suppose you might have to answer. But my point is, that it can be good to have a repertoire of responses. If some elderly asks you "any girlfriend at the moment John", it might be better to have some sort of a funny response back. In the past I've often looked like the idiot who'd just say "ah... no"
You see, it might be quite an insensitive question for the elderly lady to ask, and no one might have really given that much thought to 'John's' abilities with girls until that very moment, but now that it's been asked, you can sense everyone is thinking "yeah, that guy probably doesn't get much". But if you quickly reply "well elderly lady, since I laid eyes on your rosy cheeks, my heart's never been free", and divert the situation from oneself. I know guys who struggle with girls but who yet are good at these quick responses when singled out about their love-life. I know that it might be inevitable that the other people in the room might eventually ponder over whether John is good with girls, but it at least prolongs the inevitable judgemental thoughts of others, and make John look confident.
Last example to drive to point home. I remember back when I was in high school when I was a virgin and when we were all drunk one night, a girl was curious as to if I'd slept with anyone she knew. I obviously didn't want her to think I was a virgin. She didn't want to be seen to question me about it too much, so after asking me once, she instead she tried to provoke me by saying "John's never slept with a girl". I feared she knew, so I instead just laughed and said "ha ha, I'm not going to fall for that one" and therefore made it look like(I thought) she was using this as a distraction. Because I responded so confidently, she bought it and later on in the night she said "I know you're not a virgin". Funny because I totally was at the time.
So does anyone have any good responses for these sort of situations?
For example, I was once asked "so who was that girl you were with last night?" and I just replied, "remind me?" She immediately knew I was being difficult and gave up. However, if she has you all alone, she might insist and say "no seriously, who was she?", and then it'll be harder to refuse to answer, as you might only look insecure or embarrassed about it.
I suppose you want them to think that you're refusing to answer for the sake of banter, as opposed actually caring about what the she thinks. A few perfect witty responses can often be enough to stop them dead in their tracks. But in reality, if she asked again I suppose you might have to answer. But my point is, that it can be good to have a repertoire of responses. If some elderly asks you "any girlfriend at the moment John", it might be better to have some sort of a funny response back. In the past I've often looked like the idiot who'd just say "ah... no"
You see, it might be quite an insensitive question for the elderly lady to ask, and no one might have really given that much thought to 'John's' abilities with girls until that very moment, but now that it's been asked, you can sense everyone is thinking "yeah, that guy probably doesn't get much". But if you quickly reply "well elderly lady, since I laid eyes on your rosy cheeks, my heart's never been free", and divert the situation from oneself. I know guys who struggle with girls but who yet are good at these quick responses when singled out about their love-life. I know that it might be inevitable that the other people in the room might eventually ponder over whether John is good with girls, but it at least prolongs the inevitable judgemental thoughts of others, and make John look confident.
Last example to drive to point home. I remember back when I was in high school when I was a virgin and when we were all drunk one night, a girl was curious as to if I'd slept with anyone she knew. I obviously didn't want her to think I was a virgin. She didn't want to be seen to question me about it too much, so after asking me once, she instead she tried to provoke me by saying "John's never slept with a girl". I feared she knew, so I instead just laughed and said "ha ha, I'm not going to fall for that one" and therefore made it look like(I thought) she was using this as a distraction. Because I responded so confidently, she bought it and later on in the night she said "I know you're not a virgin". Funny because I totally was at the time.
So does anyone have any good responses for these sort of situations?
