Quitting Porn; Testosterone Levels Way Too High Now

[Rage]

Hey what's up guys.

So recently I kind of made this choice to quit porn and largely quit masturbating.

Will give some background:

I’ve never been into masturbating much, can’t really get hard from porn would only get like a half boner. And any porn would watch would be super vanilla just a dude and a girl and regular stuff they're doing…and have never seen anything weird in my life (would be super fucking grossed out by that shit).

Never cared much about it but would do it because of how ridiculously high my testosterone levels are.

I would typically fap just once a day and go rest of the day with a still really high testosterone level and sex drive.

If I would miss a day I would be fucking aggressive as fuck, so virile and irritated and lower patience and everything that comes with spiked testosterone levels.

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I had been home a few days last week without any friend with benefit to sleep with and was kind of sick of where I was with still having to fap and watch porn. Really angry with it and wanted to quit.

So I attempted to do that and haven’t fapped Friday Saturday or today!!

My goal is to quit porn fully, and only orgasm myself (if not from sex then from masturbating only) just once a week at end of the week; this is like incentive to have sex and have women like nothing I’ve ever had before.

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First day or two while still getting used to it had trouble doing anything or even sleeping. I could only think of sex. Slept and dreamt of eating out this girl and railing the shit out of her. School starts tomorrow can’t wait to meet new girls.

I’m fucking vicious now, scary what all this extra testosterone can do, but feel like a lion walking around feel like high in my head with all the excess testosterone.

Are there any strategies to help keep me level-headed with all the extra testosterone and make sure I make it to the end of the week?

Most of the others have quit porn too… right? Lol because felt anyone good must have, and that this was severely holding me back.

Giving up porn just seems really essential to get really good at game.

Any ideas or thoughts would be helpful and appreciated.

Cheers,

Gem

 

[pks391]

I went through the same feelings as you.....i used to fap around 2-4 times a day to porn......the most i have been without fapping is about 1 month. The hardest part is thr first two weeks, after that, your urge to touch it will steadily decrease. You will mostly gain control over your urge to wank it after the third week.
Good luck,

 

[Smith]

I’m fucking vicious now, scary what all this extra testosterone can do, but feel like a lion walking around feel like high in my head with all the excess testosterone.

I found myself horny with all that extra testosterone when I don't go out and talk to girls. I quit porn last November and only watched it once since then (I thought I'll treat myself once in a while), and it was a big mistake! I was fighting the urge to watch it again for a few days, but after a week, it dies down. Just keep going out and talking to girls when you're horny, after all that's why you save those energy for One thing I noticed since I quit is that my orgasm is more intense and I can last longer.

 

[ray_zorse]

I think we are talking about 2 different issues here, Gem you should definitely give up porn, giving up masturbation altogether would be a pretty hard thing to do and I'm not 100% sure if it is healthy either, but you should definitely keep an eye on it, the longest I have gone without it since starting seduction would probably be 2-3 weeks but these days I'd probably aim to fap about once a week... this seems to keep things at about the right level. Falling into a depression and returning to fapping 1-2 times a day, as has happened quite a few times, does seem to temporarily dampen the desire to approach, and my ardour when actually with a gf. Had this problem recently. Anyway, one thing to keep in mind is if you don't fap at all you'll eventually have a wet dream and these can be kind of cool hahaha.
Ray

 

[killerman]

Just keep going, doing what you're doing. Because then you'll be able to unleash during sex and fuck like crazy and it'll be amazing. However I've been having a problem recently, and it's not just a recent problem, it's a long term problem. Basically I remember when I lost my virginity 7 years ago, during that time, sex was incredible. I had the most powerful orgasms and the cum rush before ejaculation was amazing. However unfortunately due to loving that rush so much I decided to not just have sex all the time but took up masturbating to porn and did it all the time. As a result, my problem that aroused out of this was that despite always having hard erections, after about 6 months of wanking to porn I wasnt able to even feel that cum rush while wanking let alone about during sex. I would just be hammering these girls and feel nothing. Then last december I decided to give up porn and was able to not masturbate for 2 and a half weeks and then in january banged this girl and it was the first time I was able to cum during sex (and that was only in the position where i pick up her legs, put them around my neck and thrust her as hard as i can.) however up until about a month ago i hadnt wanked to porn for 3 months and STILL couldnt feel that amazing rush I used to feel back in the day, though maybe it was because I hadnt quit the wanking either. So now since thursday ive quite wanking and porn altogether, ive heard that i'll see the results after 4 weeks, but what if after then I still cant experience amazing orgasmic sex? I'll need to try something new but I dont know what. Thoughts?

 

[DLegend]

I don't know about healthy or not but, it's a time waster and at least for me, it makes me tired.

I signed up in this page were it would record my days and I'm currently at 293 days porn and masturbation free.

Sounds crazy, but after like 2-3 months you control it pretty well.

It's true, you feel so much energy and testosterone. I'm underaged and still processing puberty, so it must be off the charts!

Feels good to not do it though. When you go through and do something not many people can carry out, it makes you feel good

P.S @ray, I usually have wet dreams everyday. I dream about me fucking some random dream slut, I come in my dream, then I'll usually wake up and I'll start discharging... More of a nuisance than anything really
Goodluck, DL

 

[Rage]

Hey thanks for the replies guys

Today's been freaking crazy.

HAHA oh it was funny I was so fucking horny. I tried to fuck the maid. She's like 25 and cute (but she's a maid? haha). They come once a month and she was attracted and liked the view from my room but wouldn't do stuff with me. Or even give me her number, she said she would get in trouble for work. I persisted a bit but not too much because she was working and had to go do the rest of the apartments and prolly really could get in trouble if other maids noticed her gone for too long...

Spoke little english and I just spoke to her in broken spanish; had a boner in my basketball shorts and didn't gave a fuck that it showed.

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What else? My balls have gotten huge and look like gross for how big they are now. They were hurting like fuck midday but that went away. I weight train 4-5 days a week and very obnoxiously loud and heavy like this guy ha https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Vc9aN_kIIU ; and that kind of over spikes my testosterone levels.

Will make it to the end of this week though I believe.

I think we are talking about 2 different issues here, Gem you should definitely give up porn, giving up masturbation altogether would be a pretty hard thing to do and I'm not 100% sure if it is healthy either, but you should definitely keep an eye on it, the longest I have gone without it since starting seduction would probably be 2-3 weeks but these days I'd probably aim to fap about once a week... this seems to keep things at about the right level. Falling into a depression and returning to fapping 1-2 times a day, as has happened quite a few times, does seem to temporarily dampen the desire to approach, and my ardour when actually with a gf. Had this problem recently. Anyway, one thing to keep in mind is if you don't fap at all you'll eventually have a wet dream and these can be kind of cool hahaha.
Ray

Agreed; I wanna quit porn and fap on the 7th day... there was a past nofap thread I remember reading that you test levels heighten up till the 7 day and drop so it's best to go like that week, and then do it after that and start the next week again becauase any extra days after that youre just on a test level decline.

Don't think I could do it that long my balls would just explode or I would kill someone before hand ... feels like that, I have been so aggressive ha.

however up until about a month ago i hadnt wanked to porn for 3 months and STILL couldnt feel that amazing rush I used to feel back in the day, though maybe it was because I hadnt quit the wanking either. So now since thursday ive quite wanking and porn altogether, ive heard that i'll see the results after 4 weeks, but what if after then I still cant experience amazing orgasmic sex? I'll need to try something new but I dont know what. Thoughts?

i'm skeptical of fads and things that lots of guys jump on... and am a bit skeptical of nofap. I think it would be fine to masturbate and not look at porn, just masturbate once ina while or something... 4 weeks is a long freaking time man, try it if you like I suppose and see how it works. Would help if you got laid within that time

I found myself horny with all that extra testosterone when I don't go out and talk to girls. I quit porn last November and only watched it once since then (I thought I'll treat myself once in a while), and it was a big mistake! I was fighting the urge to watch it again for a few days, but after a week, it dies down. Just keep going out and talking to girls when you're horny, after all that's why you save those energy for One thing I noticed since I quit is that my orgasm is more intense and I can last longer.

Interesting notes, will keep both in mind Smith.

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Feel confident and virile and just pretty decent altogehter with how it's going. And feel like I can make it to the end of the week just fine, and possibly get laid before then if my date in 2 days works out. Helps me to keep the mindset that I really truly would just be bored with porn and laugh at it a lot of the time and really dont care about it (and should ut it out of my life like I have video games or excessive junk food or anything or anyone else overly detrimental).

Hope my confidence doesnt wane and that I make it to the end. Thanks for the help guys.

Gem