Hey guys,
I love creating sexual tension with girls I go out with, usually through strong eye contact, some light touches and sensual tonality, and I can easily make girls horny this way. However, I'm still inexperienced in escalation and one thing I never really understood is: should I ramp up the sexual tension prior to pulling her home, or only do that once we are isolated, preferably at my place?
If I ramp up the sexual tension before pulling, then she'd already know what we would end up doing when I suggest "doing things" at my place, and may put up resistance (I get this a lot with inexperienced, conservative girls, which makes inviting them home very difficult). I remember Chase wrote about making the girl feels uncertain about where this would end up, and making the invitation a playful one rather than a sexually charged one, though I may have misinterpreted what he actually meant.
On the other hand, if I don't create the sexual tension early on, then she would probably not be horny enough to want to go home with me, and it'd feel weird for us when I suddenly change the tone after arriving at my place.
Would appreciate some advice from anyone experienced in this. Thanks!
I love creating sexual tension with girls I go out with, usually through strong eye contact, some light touches and sensual tonality, and I can easily make girls horny this way. However, I'm still inexperienced in escalation and one thing I never really understood is: should I ramp up the sexual tension prior to pulling her home, or only do that once we are isolated, preferably at my place?
If I ramp up the sexual tension before pulling, then she'd already know what we would end up doing when I suggest "doing things" at my place, and may put up resistance (I get this a lot with inexperienced, conservative girls, which makes inviting them home very difficult). I remember Chase wrote about making the girl feels uncertain about where this would end up, and making the invitation a playful one rather than a sexually charged one, though I may have misinterpreted what he actually meant.
On the other hand, if I don't create the sexual tension early on, then she would probably not be horny enough to want to go home with me, and it'd feel weird for us when I suddenly change the tone after arriving at my place.
Would appreciate some advice from anyone experienced in this. Thanks!
