FR Ran into an old classmate on a movie set

[zeroman2]

Hi beginner here

I'm an aspiring actor. So I do movies and plays on the side outside my day job.

So one night I was calling to be an extra on a film. Walking on set I ran into girl #1 and another pick up artist. Me and girl #1 was vibing a little bit first but it began to died down as the day went on. Then girl #2, and boy she was not shy. she was the type of woman that know what she wants. Now I was vibing with her more than girl #1. But then she said out of the blue that the pickup artist was cute. Soon I started talking to the pickup artist and he came to our table with me, girl #1, and girl #2.

You could just tell that the girls were vibing more with the pickup artist then me. It's like he had more charisma than I do. So anyways not wanting to compete (not that I could at my skill level right now) I decided to walk around the room and try to be more social so I can get my social skills up.

Then I ran into my old classmate which will call girl #3. Prior to meeting that day we only spoken once and we barely even spoken to each other. So we started talking chatting it up and she's giving me hugh signs that you have to be blind not to notice. So I decided to take my time with her (huge mistake I know) then the pickup artist started talking to her as well. But only this time the roles were reversed. She was vibing with me more then him.

Anyway after the film was done shooting. The pickup artist leaves with girl #2 while I leave with girl #3. She gave me a ride to my place. On the way there I deep dive and had fun with her. I thought about asking her to come up to my apartment but my place is dirty and I have no condoms (mainly because I didn't expect to get laid anytime soon). So I asked her what she was doing this week. She said she's going be busy but she'll call me when she gets free time. Then we exchange numbers.

Questions.
1. What should next move be after I text her if she truly is busy this week?
2. Based on my story was there anything I did wrong or anything I should improve on?

 

[BigPapa]

1 . You should send her a message like “ had great time - “ your name “ and then wait 2 weeks till you text her again , and have the best logistics in place for the date

2 . always have good logistics . You never know when you will meet a girl and have to bring her to your place . Also your mantra should be like I will do whatever to meet a cute girl , rather than waiting for things to happen , because when a girl is ready for you and you drop the ball it will be very difficult to get another chance

 

[zeroman2]

Thank you for your advice Bacchus and BigPapa I learn from the next time. Usually I don't give long details unless somebody asks. But I'll try to be more lengthy now on. So here are the details

girl #1: I met her walking to set. It started to rain. She said something on the lines like "you think the entrance is over there" that I've applied "I think so looks like you and me are going to the same place". We started doing small talk and we sat on the table together. Before I had a chance to deep-dive go girl #2 can't join table. And I was chatting with her and girl #1. Soon it was just me and girl #2 carrying a conversation while girl #1 kind of phased out the conversation. Once briefly the two of them left I was talking to the pickup artist. Soon he sat at our table. And unlike me he was able to carry both conversations with the girls. If one girl leaves he can carry the conversation with the other one. Once the pickup artist and girl#2 left briefing I tried to pick up the conversation with girl number one. I said something like "how you holding up" she gave me a very low response "good". While at the same time when girl #1 and the pickup artist was alone together the conversation just flow.

Girl #2: while I was sitting at a table with girl#1 that's when girl #2 showed up. While girl #1 was was a little bit conservative. Girl #2 was open and not shy about. Saying things like "they're not let me wear this dress because they're afraid I might look sexier than the Stars" or while she was lotion her legs "I got to give them something to look at" or something along those lines. While I was doing small talk barely into the conversation she says at the pickup artist look cute. This kind of threw me off a bit but I kept going. Just when I was taught to get deep dive into the conversation she had to briefly leave. That's when I started talking to the pickup artist. And that's when did Join our table talk to the two girls. The pickup artist and the girl #2 had real chemistry after what you told me I wasn't going to fight. (On a side note she did ask me how she looks in that dress and I said she looks good) later I saw those two walking out together.

Girl#3: we go to acting class together before meeting that day we only have one very short conversation. We saw each other and gave each other a hug talked a little bit then went on to back was we was doing. doing a lunch break she saw me eating a sandwich and something like "you like the sandwich" and I said yes not thinking of it. During the same lunch breaksome food with gumballs and she was coughing a little bit. She went out and came back. Me being concerned I went up to see if she was alright. She says something like "I'm okay thank you" then she touched my shoulder. It was at that moment I knew she was interested in me. So while still talking to her I touched her shoulder the conversation was brief. A little while later I saw the pickup artist started talking to her. I was a little agitated because I thought him and girl #2 has something going now he's going to steal possibly a third girl from under me. They were talking but it seems like nothing was going nowhere with them. Then after we got done from filming for brief break she started talking to me again. Saying something like "my feet are killing me you want to switch shoes" this conversation was also brief. Then once filming wrapped we both got in line to collect our checks. Then I told her can I walk out with her in which she said yes but she has to change clothes. She went in the bathroom to change clothes it took a while I thought about leaving but she came out. We started talking some more then we headed to a car she asked how far do I live I said not too far then she said she'll give me a ride. On our way there I deep dive. We talked about our favorite musicians. She asked me to sing a song of my favorite artists and I did. Once she dropped me off at my house I asked her what she was doing this week she said she was going to be busy with work. So I said maybe we should hang out sometimes. Then we exchanged numbers. I text an hour later mentioning my name and thanking them for the ride. She text back like 8-10 minutes later. saying something "no problem it was my pleasure" (I knew I could have been in bed with her that day but like I said before I had no condoms and my house was a mess)

 

[BigPapa]

@zeroman2 women love to talk , next time try to ask questions about her and let her talk about her , and you just say things to keep her talking

if she is an introvert , you can talk about some interesting things at the beginning till she will feel comfortable with you , but after that in theory she should do most of the talk

 

[zeroman2]

@zeroman2 women love to talk , next time try to ask questions about her and let her talk about her , and you just say things to keep her talking

if she is an introvert , you can talk about some interesting things at the beginning till she will feel comfortable with you , but after that in theory she should do most of the talk

If you're talking about girl number 1. Then yes I do need to do better when it comes to conservative or introverted girls. But it's hard sometimes

 

[BigPapa]

You are an aspiring actor , it should not be that tough to have a monologue about something haha .

you can say something like , hopefully this will be my last extra in a movie , bla bla bla