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Ergon

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Hey guys..

So there this girl who was also my partner for a dance project a couple of months. After that we met one evening just for drinks. I invited her home and ... failed escalation. Because of her religion beliefs. She was still excited to see me another day, but silly me canceled and we never agree on another day..

6 months after I receive a text late at night, out of nowhere

Her: Good night
The next day I respond
Me: ?
Me: hi
Later in the evening
Her: sorry, I left my phone at home all day today. I was out dancing to some [x] and reminded me of you sorry for the late text lol

So now I don't really know what to respond. Should I expect something out of this random recontact?
How should i proceed?
Let know what you guys think
 

Seppuku

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This is her, attempting to reconnect to you, very likely because she likes you.

She needs to keep the face, so she can't just say "hey I like you, and want to be in touch with you again". No. So she uses the standard ping text "Hi", from which she expects you to take the leadership.

If you want to be back in touch with her, she just offered you the opportunity.

The approach is now to engage into a casual chat with her, at your initiative.
You: Hey xxx, it's been a long time! How how you been?
Her: blah blah was all good
You: (more casual chat)
...
You: Was great to talk to you. We should probably grab a drink one of these days (you throw the idea in, to test the vibe)
Her: yeah we should!
You: How does Wednesday night sound?
etc...

Seppuku
 

Ergon

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Hehe Thanks Seppuku!

Particularly for this

Seppuku said:
You: Was great to talk to you. We should probably grab a drink one of these days (you throw the idea in, to test the vibe)
Her: yeah we should!
You: How does Wednesday night sound?

Which I used almost verbatim.

We met yesterday for a drinks, we then listened some music at my place, and I escalated, but it seems she's really set in not having sex before marriage.
First escalation six month ago I made a few mistakes so I didn't so much as remove the bra. This time around, just when we were making out, she said "I don't wanna tease you" and left with the pretext of still having plans for later in the night...

She hinted at wanting to meet again for drinks again at mine's, so I'll go for that this weekend. If nothing happens still I'll just cut her out. I think I already fell on her frame so I don''t see anything possible...

anyway, thanks again haha. A lot of help with the texts.
 
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