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Raqimus

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Hola peoples, so jut a quick update. I ran into this girl that I run into every now and then. Met her through a friend roughly two years ago, she liked me and thought i was cute, I stole my boys bitch and we were texting. She told him (hes gay btw) that she felt like that man lol, I was a pussy and didnt move shit forward. Things fell off and i moved on learning from my mistake, we went to same college so i rarely ran into her. I remember she told him she was mistaken and she must of been high to think i was attractive(I was still a bit creepy and bad posture then) I realize now it was just because she couldnt get what she wanted. I'd run into her and shed show interest and wed just move on.... So I ran into her again It's prolly been a year since I've seen her. I'm crossing the street and i see a sexy figure and i notice its her looking much better. I cross and say hellos and i ask her in a confused tone if she lived around there and she turned her head back and spoke in a very seductive tone no, and I said ah, oh well and headed home. I was wondering why i did it and i realized in my head i had rejected this girl. I auto rejected this beutiful girl because i didnt think I deserved her when she had already liked me previously and has shown interest.

This has shown me i still have some problems with my mindest when it comes to hotter women.
 

Raqimus

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Gotta update this more!

Gonna record approaches, basic details tho!
7/9
It was night time and I was walking home from tasty burger (A girl gave me an obvious iou I didnt approach due to me wanting to read the situation, thought some dude was a bf he wasnt oh well), walking my usual way and I was walking toward the street saw a girl across the street walking up the street, liked the way her ass looked so i wanted to approach. Oh it was raining by the way and I crossed the street, got into shouting range and thought she was another girl. Shouted Olivia! she didnt respond, I caught up a bit and i said something and she said sorry to disapoint I'm not olivia. Said whatever good enough and we bantered back and forth and i offered my umbrella. I probably could of made her hold it to, to get some compliance. We flirted maybe only cause i had the umbrella? Got her digits after we crossed the street, before that someone called her and i waited (bitchmode ) till she finished and she gave me number. Asked for a hug as she was leaving and she said I had to work for it... I've been getting this a lot recently. Whatver texted an ice breaker and no response, I'll try for hangout tomorrow.

7/10
The route I take to the gym is a long one, filled with potential pussy. Walking along this long road pass my school to the station then up a hill then down more streets. Either way as I was walking on the right side of the huge ass street I notice a blonde haired girl scantily dressed walking the same direction on the left side of the road. Know what I do? I cross my ass over and go talk to her. I open her with someone like hey your cute but I'm a bit worried your too young for me... how old are you? Turns out she's 19, from germany and isnt here for much longer.... lets try for an instant lay! I find out her plans and derail them, got good compliance with high fives and deep diving. She would follow my lead and comply. So we go get icecream at jp licks which is like 10 minutes away, place is packed so instead of loosing momentum I tell her to follow me to this other place and leave expecting her to follow. On the way there I decide I want to hold her hand, she freaks out at this... I'd went over slut shaming and stuff earlier n she seemed cool. I joke bout her not holding my hand and we get to the store bout 15 minutes later. I lead her to my usual spot, and pull her into my usual spot, we sit, it's peaceful. She sits a step above me on these stairs, I move up one stair. She looks at my eyes to my lips to my eyes, I'm saying okay lets go for it, I wait a second or two and I try but the window is snapped shut. She doesn't go for it and talks about leaving, she did the same thing a bit earlier before we got to the isolated spot but i got her to stay. I try to kiss again later just to burn it down and she freaks like im the plague like she moved fast, it was funny but also disheartening, guess she just wasnt into me? maybe I teased too much... at first there was a bit of eye contact but I think i sent her into auto rejection, shed avoid eye contact but still comply and follow my demands. lesson learned. I go to the gym and continue my day.

After the gym I stop on a little electric box to do my protein stuff and I notice this girl eyeing me. She's a couple of feet away talking to her friend they are bubbled but the bubble opens and after i do my stuff I head over and talk to her. Don't remember how I opened but i got shot down, made a joke about her shooting me down after i stuck my neck out and approached with her friend there. Her friend was laughing throughout this and i said hey at least your friend got a laugh out of it. Her friend was like no I totally respect what you did, i said cool have a good day and walked off.

... a bit further down the road, I see a girl waiting for the bus. She's primed to be approach, I just feel it and I know she will be receptive. I get over there, Hey... you are abolutley gorgeous whats your name, we exchange names and she's warm. She glances away from me nd I say your bus? She says yea... I say guess we'll never get to start our romance, She says yea... still warmly and excitedly. I walk off and continue my day.

I get back into the main area of fenway around my job and talk to some girl, it doesnt go anywhere but she's still warm

I get to my job to buy some protein bars, as i'm walking down the ramp i see one of my newer coworkers sitting on the bench on her phone. Legs are stretched but still crossed body a bit closed. (With this girl She's been playing hot and cold and I assume it's cause i haven't tried moving things forward because shes always so aloof) I walk by and say hey :) and her body opens up and I continue into work to buy my protein bars. I come back out and she's still there so i figure okay time to move things forward. I go sit on the bench and I don't remember what i said I think i joked about how bored she looked or something. Anywho the conversation led to me asking her if she was single and she said yes, her smile was huge, she'd been waiting long enough. I said wait before that your not the type to kiss and tell are you, she says no. She has her eyes locked on her phone but she's playing with her hair and has a stupid big grin on her face. We exchange numbers and i ask her if she's down to grab a cone and she says maybe,I said huh maybe? i tried to see if she was doing nything after work and no go. I said i'd text her and we'd set something up and she said yea in a dismissive way and i called her out on it and she apologized. I told her to hurry up and get back to work. She gets up to leave and heads into work, I just sit there on the bench chilling. Enjoying my protein bar and the weather... there were two girls I could have approached but she was still outside and she'd def see it so I decided against it. She put her number in my phone with the fucked up screen... was fun to watch and she also responded to ice breaker.

I head to marshalls or macys to buy some t shirts and socks, as I'm walking in to the building on the other side of the window walking down the street is this chick who's style impresses me greatly... her figure aint bad either :p. I wan't to approach but i don't want to run outside too much work... guess what tho? she comes inside, I open her as he walks in, I compliment her style and we get into conversation. Mind you as we talk I'm stuffing my face with a protein bar and shake, i'm such a fat ass hahahah. Getting her to wait for me to finish my bites as we talk is a form of compliance which i've been working more to get. We talk a bit about her job and she works as a server, i say we should exchange numbers before i forget. (My phones fucked up again, you can't see half the screen so it's funny watching the girls do so much work to give me their numbers) She mentions that she isnt into anything serious, I say so only casual stuff then and she says yea, i say alright cool, so am I. After exchange i stupidly invite her to come with me upstairs even though she told me she was shoe shopping... said alright guess i'll head off to grab my stuff and i go upstairs. I get my stuff, takes like 10 minutes then i head back down, I see her and as I'm heading to the registers and since i have to walk by her i say something like still here ey? Get a warm smile and some flirty eye contact before she breaks it left, then i continue to the registers, buy my shit then head out.
 

Raqimus

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I've come to understand I'm doing something wrong. Like there are things that I'm missing that I had a year ago that I'm not piecing together. This is a ranting post skip if you want I dont care. I've come to understand I put on a mask a "nice" mask when truth is I don't give a fuck. I'm happier being a dick and sometimes I'm a dick without meaning too, mostly a smart ass... gonna work on being more of a dick and just not holding back.

Looking back at last year and the year before there were a lot of situations where I'd be making out with women and getting pretty damn close to closing but I fuck up end game. It's similar now I've kinda gotten my process down and I'm getting so close to closing but something is not connecting and I know im going to fucking figure it out.

For one I'm approaching a lot of women outside of work but at work I've drastically cut down my approaches now that I've become more "socially aware" maybe my unorthodox ways of approaching led to more results. Maybe i seem unattainable I've only started to realize attainability is an issue.

I know I'm not moving girls as much as I should and I'm trying to keep that at the front of my mind when first approaching and on approaching compared to last month I'm not approaching as many girls, I dove back into porn and have been masturbating too much so when I've been approaching I dont feel it in my balls so i decide not to approach, gonna cut that shit out right now.

When I wasnt masturbating it was fucking awesome, much more results, I'm going back to that. I also did all these little compliance tests that worked for me back in the day, gonna go back to that.

I also think my deep diving could use some work, it flows pretty well, but it's mostly random and not entirely directed.

I have to reread a lot of articles here and begin re applying a lot of the basics. I'm going to re read alllllll of the fucking basics, compliance, moving, deep diving, windows, escalating, etc, etc, etc.

I've been sloppy and I need to do better. :)
 

Raqimus

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Yo Been off the porn and I'm at the point where my horniness has dropped. Soon I will be getting erect as the wind blows.

Made two approaches today, one at work where i could of followed up, asked if she was single and said she wished. She had strong eye contact and didn't leave. Felt like she wanted me to keep things going but I dont want to persist at work since I don't want to get in trouble.

Second approach was after work on the way home spotted this chick with a bangin body but i felt nothing, i just approached to approached. After my opener she drifted away and created significant space between us on the sidewalk. I knew nothing i said could recover this, no real indicators. I opened just to open, also no nervousness on my part and i felt like i was a bit too polite but i was still sexual.

In the social circle stuff met another new coworker and it was just instant, i know i'm going to fuck her she's warm and the feelings right. Pretty sure we were talking about my boner even though it was disguised as work being hard hahaha. After work i was going to grab her number and I was going to as i was walking by but i knew there would be two other coworkers with big mouths in tow so i decided against it since i dont wanna be seen grabbing a number.

I will get it next time and jus invite her to hangout, i can screen more and then do it.
Taking away i forget that i can move girls, I could of moved her to the side of the building so we wouldnt be seen, that's what i should of done and got the compliance.

I gotta work more on compliance and screening/qualifying.

Edit: ALso another girl in the workplace who is friends with this lesbian who i also want to fuck told the lesbian i was trying to flirt with her. Then i responded to the lesbian, this convo was just between me and the lesbo that she was flirting with me. Her response" Your one smooth muchacho" and then she would keep calling me crazy after i said something else.
 

Raqimus

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Did a few approaches, one was right on the way to work, white chick in one of those onepiece short thingys, was crossing the street along with her and another dude, and I think she wanted the dude to approach. He had good fundamentals and seemed attractive but didn't approach. I decided to in his stead, I talked to her once we got the island, grabbed her number, she was in a rush cuz she was checking out colleges and had a tour. I sent an icebreaker no response, doubt I would really see her again because she was just checking schools and wasn't in the area.

Then there was a chick i approached outside marshalls, i had to grab a white tee to wear to work. She was in line behind me at checkout and gave signals but i didn't want to approach because i didnt want to be late. Rushed to buy my shit and rushed to change, got outside and took my shirt off and changed. She walked out and definetly got a good look. Decided to approach, walked up behind her as she got to the corner and went in from the side. Said something like hey i thought your cute but I'm in a rush, are you single. She said no blah blah but she was warm.

Next was an asian chick at work, not usually attracted to them but she got my dick hard so i wanted to talk to her, when i was leaning towards more sexual she wained a bit but the EC was still so strong. I think that i was too direct, asked if she was single. Maybe i could of done something a bit less strong, ie hahaha i know this is random but you seem cool to talk to, how about we grab an icecream or hangout some time. Just had to be a bit less direct or aggressive, calibration! She seemed interested tho

There was another approach with this chick that seemed warm, shopping for pillows. She had a boyfriend but was still warm about it, she was cool, the vibe was good not much else.

Last chick was a girl i was helping in bedding, the vibe was there from the start. She was playing with her hair and the tone would constantly shift between platonic and sexual. Got in some diving while helping with sheets to figure out a bit a bout her. I feel like i was killing time to pull and thats why she kept asking for help because she wanted me to get the digits, i feel like a lot of girls do this or something. Asked if she needed anymore help, she said no, then asked if she had a second, i went into my opener and said i know its totally random, gettin asked out and i work here etc. Wanted to know if she was down for drinks, she said not tonight. (Never mentioned what day so this was a good thing, could of used chase frame but didn't) I said yea i couldnt do tonight, and she finished my sentence for me "because well your working". I was like yea, well lets exchange numbers and set something up. She had stuff in her hands so i typed the number. Then when it got to the name entry part i said "wait we've never even exchanged names, whats yours? she said xxx i said cool im raqimus. Then she said "i know i read the nametag" I could of used a chaseframe here to but i didnt think of one till after, it would of been perfect. "Wow xxx already checking me out, we totally just met and I'm not that type of guy" said with a playful vibe ofcourse.

My libidos coming back so its pretty good, it made me want to approach. Now onto the social circle side of things.

SOCIAL CIRCLE: WORK

There's another chick at work, lets call her Beutyface, a week ago we locked eyes and said high, she smiled and looked down then we went about our ways, havent seen her till now. Walked behind the counter to do something greeted everyone, and noticed her. I was on the left side of the counter facing the counter and my body was closed off. She gets something to left of me and her body is completely open and facing me. We banter and I shift the tone and end thing with something sexual but quiet enough for the other girls not to hear me... don't even know if she heard me lol. I gotta isolate and grab those digits.!

Another new girl, lets call her redeye has an amazingly fat ass, she's Hispanic and I just want to fucking rail her. We have flirty banter and a bit of compliance going between us. Her body language seems open to experience and she seems like the type that would be down to fuck, I just have to make it happen. Flirting comes easy between us, now to escalate and see if its just flirting or more!
 

Raqimus

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Sup guys, i approached maybe only 2 girls today, the first girl i dont remember but the second I do. Short blonde haired girl from russian and she was very warm and open, polite etc. basically what i see from girls that dig me so we vibing nd talking and she mentions getting a pillow for her male friend, etc etc conversation moves forward and when i ask about why she came to america she says her friends, and she whispered boyfriend. she said it very low so i almost wouldnt hear it. Generally i think I could of fucked this girl later on when i asked if she was single, she said she had a boyfriend and i said I would of asked earlier but its work etc etc. As she was walking away she turned her head back and gave me the biggest fuck me eyes ever... I wanted to tell her to come back and grab her number but since it's work I can't be that aggressive.

Also had a good interaction with an asian girl, pretty sure she was japanese and prolly raised here. Was helping out her and her parents with her stuff and she was also warm and open, along with apologizing alot for wasting my time since she ordered nothing

Ah I remember the first girl now it was on my way in or something i just saw this really good looking short latina, very wide hips. Told her she had the sexiest outfit and her walk was phenomenal or something. She gave me her full attention and etc asked if she was single she said no and we kinda just bid each other adieu.

I don't feel like asking women if their single anymore but I want to know if they are available even if i dont care. True it does limit and does screen women out. Nothing new in social circle but if there was a way for me to do it i'd fuck this chick, lets call her ogre. Not very pretty but big tits and she has a pussy, for social circle gotta maintin some standards tho...
 

Raqimus

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Didn't do any approaches today but I did do one yesterday, After i got out of the gym around 11ish at night saw a cute blonde walking. Hadn't been out of the house or approached all day so i decided what they hey, might as well approach. So I saw her walking towards me and stopped her. She had her back turned towards the wall and was facing me. Should of maneuvered it so my back was against the wall and i was in a power position.

I did my opener but she didnt understand... she didnt speak english very well. Maintained very good eye contact and we started a bit of a convo, i slowed down my words and asked if she was single she said yes and she sounded excited a bit. We kept talking and for some reason i asked if she was single again.... dunno why but i framed it as just making sure you understand me, she said it was weird being approached i said yea, something something. I just brushed it off. She still seemed warm, but her legs crossed as she was standing dunno if it was good or bad, I think her feet were angled towards me but i moved to her side after.

I tried to set up a date or something, instead i tried to grab a number and the way i worded it looking back on it, made it easier for her to say no.

What i should of done was try to use more physicality (worried about coming off as a sexual predator ie a creep) to get some compliance since there was a bit of a language barrier. I could of tried for an instant pull but i wasn't warmed up and it didnt cross my mind. Focusing on getting more compliance early on, whether that be moving or inspecting a piece of jewlery.

When I did little things like inspecting jewlery a while back like a year or two, I would be getting much more dates, and etc. Compliance is my focus!!!
 
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Raqimus

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Made a couple of approaches, left the house got a haircut, went to my campus, then was on my way to the gym. In front of the train station i see the first girl, shes wearing short shorts and she has red hair, very delicious looking legs. I go over and say my opener and she kinda blows it off because shes in a rush, i say whatever and keep moving.

Next im walking down the hill in front of this apartment complex this blonde girl crosses the street, and walks towards me and i open. Don't remember what i said but she was warm and had a boyfriend. I don't remember what else i said but i still tried regardless of the boyfriend, didn't work so i left.

Then there was another girl i approached near a college, i was jumbling my words and said something like i loved her clothing vibe or something... i was a bit nervous. Got her name and talked to her for a bit, asked if she was single and she was not. After saying that though we still kept walking and talking together, we got into an interesting discussion about relationships when she said she was going to see her partner. I questioned "girlfriend?" She said no "boyfriend", then she clarified she doesn't like calling her boyfriend that label because something about not conforming to gender norms or some shit. I decided to try saying crazy shit and sticking to my guns about what i said. I said i don't agree with her about something and she says that she disagreed about what i was saying and then i said "well guess we'll agree that we disagree" Also pretty sure she was drunk too since that's what she said when i first talked to her.
We kept talking about relationship stuff and she followed my lead to cross the street, we talk a bit more this time about her and her major, what shes doing etc. She was cute and I would have fucked her if she wasn't on her way to go meet her "partner" lol. We cross two more streets, the first on she follows my lead and we still talk and the convo dies off, then the next one i move to the left to cross and she goes towards the right and we just let things end out. She goes on her way I go on mines.

Now I'm farther along past my job heading towards the gym and i spot one girl i really want to approach, and its a good thing i'm warmed up. She has on a very sexy outfit, crop top and these fabric pants that let you see her ass jiggle as she walks. She's farther ahead but i take my time, after walking for like 5 mins i see the opportunity to cross the street and talk to her. I'm still behind her and i call out "Excuse excuse me, yo miss" She turns around and I open with "Yo your outfit is so fucking sexy i had to tell you" I say while checking her out. Shes very warm and open. We trade names then she lets me know shes gonna cross i wait a few seconds and then i cross and she follows. I ask if shes single and she says that she is we talk about school and where she goes and shes investing in the convo as well, asking me questions too, this girl is also pretty giggly hahaha. After crossing the street the convo dies naturally and she re initiates, we talk about what we are up to for the day, i ask when shes free and she says shes pretty busy but will give me her number and let me know. I give her my phone and tell her its a mini game since you can't see half the screen lol, i use this opportunity to touch and examine some of her rings.
Then after the exchange we talk about her major which is physics and we go on about colleges, and we talk about how my old school and i mentioned shed be treated like a unicorn and we laugh about it. She talks about not going to another tech school and how she was worried about the awkward guys an stuff we keep moving the convo forward and she says that not a lot of people would picture her in physics; she is a very pretty girl. I say "you seem like you have a smart mind" and then after she says thank you i let it drop for a bit then say hey at least you can say you know your way around a molecule, while leaning into her ear and saying it with a sexual undertone. She eats it up then we talk about her internship last semester in Switzerland I qualify her by saying that it sounds cool then i asked about other places she's traveled and she gives me a list of places in Europe. I said " please tell me you partied your ass off" She laughs and says of course she did and we have found a winner. Mentions having her birthday over there and i mention her getting white girl wasted and she said hahaha yea still got really wasted. We get to where she has to go which is on the way to where im going and she says this is her stop,I tell her "Wait, one rule,don't try to make me your boyfriend, please just don't". She says "Don't worry" then she pauses a second and says "I'm already way past that" and she crosses in front of me and tells me to text her, pretty good EC while this is going down and throughout our convo.
Gonna try and booty call her :) one of my best approaches; although my writing of it may be bad hahahaha it was much better than it sounds. Went to the gym and got in my workout.

Next girl i approach is after the gym, this was on the bridge in front of my job, dont remember this one. After that I went into my job and grabbed some hangers then left.

On my way to the next store there's blonde in short shorts and a wife beat or something and we walk for a bit, mostly because im in front of her so i slow my pace a bit and let her pass me. Once we hit the corner its perfect angle so i can look like i casually just saw her. I say something like her outfit is incredibly sexy, she says really you think its sexy, not in a rude way but a warm one. I say yea everything but the flip flops they don't match. We talk a bit and we exchange names and shes not single. We eventually get to a point where e go our separate ways and she thanks me because i really made her day. I say its no problem and i keep it pushing.

I go into the store and buy my shit, at the counter i can tell the girls digging me but im not into her, she compliments my haircut, maintains ec. I didn't want to pick her up and lead her on but i wasn't too interested... oh well. I get out of the store and begin walking home. Now there's this little arch way that i have to walk under since the main street has some construction going on where there once was a building, now its a hole. I see a girl walking towards me from a few feet away in the archway. There is a couple behind me who i just gave directions to. I pause under the archway and place my bags on the blocks and get my shit together, the couple passes me and the girl is in approach range. I open her with hey how old are you, you know you look cute, but im worried your too young. She says shes in her 20's why. I said well your cute and was curious if your single. She said she was and then i ask whats your name. She pauses for a few then ends up telling me her name. Says shes on her way to meet a guy, i ask if its casual or serious and she says its casual i say okay cool. She's skeptical and a bit on the fence the entire time. I try to talk my way through it no go, she didn't want to exchange numbers, and i persisted like 3 times to get her to stay and talk to me as she was walking away and she wished me a nice day and kept going.

After that there's a girl on the island waiting to cross the street, shes holding a large laundry basket full of groceries. I want to approach her but i want a better angle, we cross the street and our paces match, then we cross another street and i begin to feel weird i want to approach her but there's a better angle. We get to another crossing and as we were walking up to this point she was on my right but at this crossing shes on my left. I look over and we lock eyes and smile at one another. I just say"Your pretty" she says thanks, and I say something like i know its random hahahaha, whats your name? We exchange names and we cross again. She says that i look familiar and i say oh really, yea you do too... We go back and forth a bit about how we might know each other and then we cross again. Unsure if she was going straight or left i keep my movements ambiguous and am able to change route any time, she goes left. The same way i usually walk. Ask if shes single and says no but we still keep talking. I've noticed i find it easier to get sexual with taken girls more easily its more like hey, what the hell, might as well, ya know? I go into well i guess we'll just keep going our own way never really knowing etc etc etc. This flirty banter goes on a bit and shes giggling, i know she likes me i felt the spark when we locked eyes. She says something about my opener really making her night or something and i say yea its a shame we can't make it better. It went something like that. She giggles, and shes talking about how she thought i was going straight and i said "No xxx I was going this way I'm not changing my path for you", then i said something like I hope your not the one changing your path and stalking me. She found this hilarious and we keep bantering. I should of tried for a number or even an instant lay gonna work on that. We get to the gate of the campus and she lets e go first and i said, you going this way, cause im going this way. She was going the first way and i bid her good night and we went our separate ways.
Could of said something like yea lets head to your dorm and see if the sparks are there or something. Just something to get her to bring me back to hers, and i didn't try to grab her number; should've done that too.

Next girl is further on as I'm walking down the hill to the train station. Learning from previous mistakes i go to walk infront of her and tell her to stop since she gave me an approach invitation. I try to get her to stop but she keeps walking and as she's walking by she says "Sorry I'm gonna be a bitch tonight", I say "Wait it's just one second, hold on". Then she says "Sorry" along with something else, I think that she thought i was trying to sell her something... Oh well

Last girl of the day I had seen before the previous girl. I wanted to talk to her because as i was walking up the hill to go down the hill on the left towards the station, I saw her walking down the hill from the front. I took my time to cross the street, to see when she got down so i could open her but she took to long and i crossed. Saw her come down after i'd already walked a bit but played my looking back at her to look like i was looking back checking on the bus. I wanted her to catch up but i passed two guys and it seems they all knew each other so they stopped and talked. I kept walking and met the girl mentioned in the last paragraph. After that approach i kept walking closer to the station and this girl ends up walking past me. I say something but she is walking fast and has headphones in. I pre open, which isn't something i do often anymore, and its something i must start doing more. She stops and i shoot out my opener about how i like her vibe or something. We exchange names and chat, instead of just standing there i say "Comeon, I'm going the same way" and we begin walking. She wasn't single but i kept talking to her. I complimented her sayin she looked nerdy, she says she guesses she'll take it as a compliment. Then i asked well what are you going for and she was confused. I clarified that "with our clothing we represent something to the world, just showing them who we are, so what are you trying to show?" She ended up telling me she was a writer, and we chat about that for a bit. Then she asks me what I'm going for. I had my gym clothes on so i said "A guy coming from the gym" hahaha. Then I said you should see me outside my gym clothes; she asks outside of the gym clothes who am I. I said a nudist; i was trying to just get sexual and apparently it was a joke that i wasn't trying to make. You know cause outside my clothes i'm naked hahaha. This caused me to amuse myself completely,we kept the nudist thing running a bit and i talked about how funny it would be for me to squat naked in the gym, and i thanked her for that hilarious image of myself. I was showing too much of my weird but i didn't care, it was funny. I ask what shes up to and she says going to see her friend, and asks like where i lived i said xxx. We get to the door and she says something like well here's my stop or something and there was a bit of a pause, maybe she of asked for her number here, i feel like she was expecting it. We go on our separate ways.

So I've noticed with girls that aren't single I don't push for the number, I mean sometimes I do but i feel its not worth it. Going to make sure i ask each time, Also there are opportunities for instant lays, I have to make them happen. Just gonna start saying shit when this comes up and see what happens. A lot of girls ask me where I live, I think it's an invitation to take them home but where i go to talk to girls I live far away. I know public spots to fuck them I just have to screen if they are open to it and move them. Also still working on compliance,compliance,compliance. Main focus, I have to make sure i get it and keep moving forward.

All of these posts, are going to be hard to read and big paragraphs, not really making this to be read, just to keep track of what I'm doing, if you like reading em or want to read them. Let me know and I'll make my future posts more reader friendly, this is all just coming off the top of the head!
 

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So today I had to work in the 8am, something i usually don't do and so i went to work running on about 4 hours of sleep. Work is slow but it picks up and i'm just letting myself feel attracted to women for the most part. I make my first approach after I clock out to a customer I was helping before. She was cute and I wanted to fuck, also my standards are low, like waaaay lower than when i initially started and its awesome.

So the first girl I go over to her and i said hey, i know this is random but are you single, your cute. She says no she's not but shes leaning in hard. I wanted to go further but another coworker who i think snitches on me when i hit on girls saw so i shrugged my shoulders and spoke more softly. I acted like a bit of bitch there... things fizzled and i left work.

Next i went to the supermarket to grab something to drink since it was hot out. I walk out of the supermarket and notice this Asian girl in a beautiful dress, we both lock eyes for a few seconds then break. Mind you shes walking along the street and so i come off the curb of the supermarket and move towards her, I open her with "Hey your dress looks so fucking sexy". She seems surprised in a good way and thanks me, her body language was really feminine. We exchange names and i had to pronounce her name twice because it was difficult. I ask if shes single and she says that she is I say ok cool. We she stops walking and i stop too then i start up and she starts walking this happens a bit until i say im going this way too lets go. I thought she was going to stop and shop so maybe that's why she stopped maybe she thought i was going in but i was just curious. We kept walking and i invited her for ice cream or something and she mentions a boyfriend. I said wait what? you single right, then she says yea because her boyfriend is in another state. I say okay cool, don't worry I'm not trying to be your boyfriend. She says okay and we continue talking and i tell her lets exchange numbers she says she cant she has a boyfriend, i go back to diving and qualifying i try again, she says same shit. We cross the street and i try again she says the same thing. I just pull out my phone and we stand close together with my screen open. She tells me her number and i save it in. Then we cross again towards the store shes going to and we talk about her phd and how shes going back to school. We get in front of the store and i tell her ill shoot her a text with my name, and we leave it at that.

I head back to my job because i forgot my umbrella, I go in grab it and head out. I didn't include this girl in my approach stuff for the tourney because I had already approached her before and gotten her number, nothing ever came of it. I also didn't realize that was her until she said her name. I saw her as I was coming out and said "Hey your fucking sexy, whats your name?" She said it was "xxx", and then everything clicked. I said xxx? Have we met before, and she says yea and points to the store and I'm like "oh yea hahaha just goes to show I've talked to you twice." Said something along the lines of we've talked before and nothing came from it. I don't remember the transition but i told her lets exchange numbers again I don''t have yours anymore. We exchange numbers then i go to set things up, I see what shes up to later, shes busy with friends, i try Sunday shes a bit busy still, i then ask what day works best and she says Thursday i say okay we'll text and see what happens then she asks if it works for me and i say maybe and begin walking off,She repeats maybe in a slightly warmly amused tone. Maybe with her my attainability is too high. I didn't disqualify myself as a boyfriend but i did before, should of did it again. Also the entire time our bubble was very close and i used a push and pull with my body language with her and it's something I've been working to include in approaches.

I'll try again and see what works, if nothing I'm moving on, I just want some pussy don't care if she doesn't respond nor do i care if any of these chicks respond. I will get laid.

After this i go to shop for a new bag, a messenger bag and i want one so bad. I'm a little nervous because I've been getting approach invitations from a few girls while in the store and i decide to open one a bit indirect. I ask her which messenger bags does she think will work for me, you know the classic female opinion one. She helps me and i say honestly i thought you were cute, you single? She seems taken flustered and manages to get out "I with boyfriend" In my head I'm dying, her boyfriend works there and i'm pretty sure he saw the entire thing go down but I don't care, he didn't even try to help me with the bags but went to talk to the cute chick near me. She goes back to him and they talk whatever, another dude who works there walks next to me so i ask him about mirrors. Turns out they are pretty close to where the two of them are chatting, he leads me over and i play it like i did nothing wrong. I'm in the mirror checking myself out with the bag and i notice the dude walks a bit behind me and looks at me, this is all in my peripherals and I'm just enjoying myself smiling. Hahahaha, you mad bruh?

The next approach was on my way home after the browsing, I notice a cute short chick walking towards me in gray camo leggins and a tank, that camel toe is exposed. I open her with hey, your fucking sexy, who are you? Don't remember what she said but i think she was flattered a bit but she said something and side stepped me, got her to stay with me although her body wasn't facing me, and mine wasn't facing hers. She was saying something about how she doesn't know me or whatever. I disqualify myself as a boyfriend and she says she doesn't want one, i say cool or something and we exchange name and stuff.We talk about school and what shes doing now and her volunteer work at the zoo. She tells me about how she learns about a particular animal then tells children about it, i thought this was awesome and I gave her the warmest value giving smile as possible to qualify her. We lock eyes during the silence and she looks down. Then we get into relationship stuff and She says she appreciates my honesty but she wants consistency and stuff and looked me up and down and said not like a one night stand. I didn't understand so she explained a bit then i simplified. "So what your saying is you want to be friends before we fuck" She said well yea, i laughed a bit and said so lets hangout. We exchange numbers and she tells me i have some real balls and stuff, i made a sexual joke bout after she said it. I think i tried to go for an instant date earlier on before disqualifying myself but she was going to the gym, she did live nearby tho. We went to part ways and she turned back to me and asked me what my name was. I was genuinely confused and i said something like wait did i not say it or something? and she said she forgot and asked for it. I said i'll text you my name, she rolls her eyes and walks away. Throughout the entire interaction she had rolled her eyes a bit before but ignored it and pulled back a bit when she did, i got close when we did the number exchange and the ec was good. Maybe i tried a bit too hard at the end and should of told her my name since she had given me the number... oh well you live and ya learn.

Next approach was later on as I reached the top of this hill, to go down to the train station. I wanted to open her as i was walking towards her but she made a move to cross, the light changed and she crossed and so did I. We get to the other side and I'm a bit behind her but i open. Hey, your cute and I'm getting into the habit of checking them out in a sexual way while i do so. I ask if shes single and she says no. I say damn that's a shame we could of had real fun. She seems interested i keep pressing forward. We exchange names, i go in front after we had crossed but then she crossed in front of me, her place was right there. I keep the tone sexual and keep making more allusions to it. Shes apologizing i assume because she really wants to and we maintain good ec throughout. Shes warm and not like cold, she gets to her door and i ask if she wants to exchange numbers, and she says sorry i cant etc etc. I should of said something to invite myself to her place and see if she was really bout it bout it lol.

All in all I've learned that approaching very direct sexually is pretty congruent for me. My clothing and vibe are sexual and seem to scream one night stand when i wear the clothes i like. So saying sexual shit to a girl usually comes off well whereas compliment her dress or something does sometimes work but i like going sexual as fuck and just getting it out there that i think shes sexy and want to ram her. Also disqualifying myself as a boyfriend is instrumental cause i don't want to confuse these chicks. Also gotta remember the little compliance tests to get some touching in, gonna pick a piece of jewelry she has and tell her let me examine it and touch it. Gonna keep working on this stuff!

So two numbers, three other approaches, and one reapproach
 

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Hey Raqimus,

Cool journal, I'm liking it. You've got some pretty good stuff going on. The congruence pays dividends; girls know why you are there and you embrace it.

Raqimus said:
Next i went to the supermarket to grab something to drink since it was hot out. I walk out of the supermarket and notice this Asian girl in a beautiful dress, we both lock eyes for a few seconds then break. Mind you shes walking along the street and so i come off the curb of the supermarket and move towards her, I open her with "Hey your dress looks so fucking sexy". She seems surprised in a good way and thanks me, her body language was really feminine. We exchange names and i had to pronounce her name twice because it was difficult. I ask if shes single and she says that she is I say ok cool. We she stops walking and i stop too then i start up and she starts walking this happens a bit until i say im going this way too lets go. I thought she was going to stop and shop so maybe that's why she stopped maybe she thought i was going in but i was just curious. We kept walking and i invited her for ice cream or something and she mentions a boyfriend. I said wait what? you single right, then she says yea because her boyfriend is in another state. I say okay cool, don't worry I'm not trying to be your boyfriend. She says okay and we continue talking and i tell her lets exchange numbers she says she cant she has a boyfriend, i go back to diving and qualifying i try again, she says same shit. We cross the street and i try again she says the same thing. I just pull out my phone and we stand close together with my screen open. She tells me her number and i save it in. Then we cross again towards the store shes going to and we talk about her phd and how shes going back to school. We get in front of the store and i tell her ill shoot her a text with my name, and we leave it at that.

Not sure what this girl wants with you, I have a feeling she's leading you on a bit. Mixed signals, trying to make you chase her. Either that or something you did during your conversation was a red flag.

Raqimus said:
All in all I've learned that approaching very direct sexually is pretty congruent for me. My clothing and vibe are sexual and seem to scream one night stand when i wear the clothes i like. So saying sexual shit to a girl usually comes off well whereas compliment her dress or something does sometimes work but i like going sexual as fuck and just getting it out there that i think shes sexy and want to ram her. Also disqualifying myself as a boyfriend is instrumental cause i don't want to confuse these chicks. Also gotta remember the little compliance tests to get some touching in, gonna pick a piece of jewelry she has and tell her let me examine it and touch it. Gonna keep working on this stuff!

You seem to know your style pretty well, much better than I know mine, for sure. I'll look out for more from you. I also like the number pull with the camel toe girl; you kept going even though she wasn't completely sure. You led and persisted and got her number... And you're right live and learn.
 

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Edd, thanks for reading! :)

Neither chick responded to ice breakers, so i will try gain in a couple of days then leave em for a month and shoot a hail mary hahaha. Also I've only just begun to figure out my style and its only after 3 months of solid approaching instead of just scattered. Your style will come.

Only did one approach today after work was walking down the hill to the train station. Saw a girl and said hey, and tried to stop her she kept walking, turned to her and said it louder but no go. My vibe was really weak, I was tired and starving and I didn't feel like approaching at all!

In the social circle stuff its still pretty good working on getting compliance all around from the girls nd comanding them and shit. The girl whos number i grabbed a bit ago but never texted is interested to some extent i don't want to move forward because it seems she and another girl talk, like gossip so she cant be trusted i think. Another girl, banginbody also spanish seems interested havent had opportunity to move things forward with yet. Monstertits is pretty warm towards me, we got a little lovehate flirting going. I'd fuck her but i'm not super attracted to her, and id only fuck if she can be discreet and remain unjealous... gota screen for that.
 

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So today made 7 approaches

First one was sloppy, a thick chick i spotted at work, good ec from the start moved her to her destination and should of got digits there but it was too open, so i walked along after standing there a bit. she prolly expected me to get digits but did not. I moved farther down and kind of did a nod to tell her to come this way. Dunno if it worked but i saw her again later on in the area i told her to after i had helped some other people. Went over and helped her again found out a bit about the item, and i went for the open and the pull but i got interrupted by my boss and lost my cool a bit. I had to grab his keys and so i did in a low status way, came back gave them to him and said something like i could really get in trouble for this. Told her she was cute and asked if she wanted to exchange numbers she said she lives in the area, and that she could do it some other time because right now is not good. Said it was cool and exited.

The next approach was during my break, i had to go exchange my headphones at some other store so i went to it. Walked up the stairs from this station to get onto the bridge that would take me to my destination, as I was walking up the stairs spotted a cute blonde chick and decided i was gonna talk to her. I got up the stairs and she was a bit ahead. I said either excuse me or hold up and said "Hey i saw you as i was coming up the stairs and I just had to tell you how sexy you look" said while looking her up and down. She hooked instantly, After she said thank you and we exchanged names she asked if i lived around here. (This was a very big sign and happens quite often, I don't do anything instead i go on with the convo which is why i don't get laid. Going to try an instant pull with something, just gonna try something hahaha) I go no i don't i just work in the area, you? She said the same thing about how she doesn't live here just works here. She works at a daycare and i said something about loving the children and she said hell no with lots of laughter. I tried going for a date but she wasn't single. She said i was so sweet and handsome and if she wasn't in a relationship she totally would. I should of just tried to pull earlier, I jut have to say something in those situations. We went our separate ways cause she had another train to catch.

Next one was after i got my headphones, saw a chick walking across a different bridge as i was heading back to work, and said eh id fuck why not. Opened her with how i saw her and she was sexy, she had a shocked smile but seemed weirded out and didn't say anything and instead went to her phone. I called her out like what you seem like so creeped out i know its random hahaha. she said no in a girly way and i said i take it your not single, she said she was in a relationship, tried to exchange names, no go so i just kept walking.

Later on after work on my way to the gym I approached a milf with the same sexy line, she light up but she wasn't single. Thought she was younger from far away but was a little older still cute tho, didn't feel like pushing it since her body was still facing her direction, could of tried more and got some compliance.

Next was after I got out of the gym, right as i stepped out saw a cute chick with glasses and short shorts. Tried the same thing, I called out to her to stop as i walked out and went up to her and told her she was sexy and we exchanged names. I got a good read because i knew she had a boyfriend, i just knew from her facial expression. She told me i made her night and i said good and wished her a good night and kept it moving.

Farther down the street from the gym, right in front of the gas station saw a blonde who i thought was cute. Pulled out my headphones and told her to hold up just a second. She pulled out her earphones and stopped. I said my opener... but it got weird because she was making these weird faces, turned out she didn't really know English hahahaha. Holy shit it was funny it was good ec but i didn't know what else to do so i pointed at her and made a heart with my hands and she said thank you, i tried some more verbal stuff and she couldn't understand. I didn't know what else to do so i left it, I could have been a little more physical or gotten some compliance or something! never had to work with a language barrier before so it was a new experience!

The last approach was near my job in front of the main entrance to the entire center. Wasn't going to approach until we locked eyes for a bit, before she turned back to her phone. I said that she was sexy, whats her name, we exchanged names. There was a silence and we just stared, it was a little awkward, but she broke her glance to the left real quick. I realized there was something going on, finished up with if she was single, she said no and i wished her a good night. Turns out the group of girls behind me were her friends, interesting situation so i walked away with my head held high as my jam came on and began to whistle.

Once again, I got to work on compliance, and recently as I've upped my fundamentals, posture, walk. Escalation windows come rapidly from street approaches its just a matter of not knowing what to say to bring them to a quiet spot. They usually ask if i live nearby and I am nowhere near my house usually and i just move the conversation forward ignoring the window. Perhaps I should just say no but come with me or something? Would probably be more congruent for me to say not close enough for what you want to do to me... Gonna start just trying out anything and see what works.

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Not too much goin on, had like 5 minutes alone with redeye in the break room, we talk about the heat and then mentions how she came in this morning and it led to her showing me a video of her walking in short shorts and a crop top and i was like so your just trying to get me to imagine your naked body or something like that. She ignored it but she heard it! Also tried an innuendo when she mentioned i should get on it, when she was talking about me and school. I said so you want me to get on it huh? With obvious sexual undertones, should of said afterwards i thought that was the womens job? Either it was too subtle or she ignored it idk. Also she sat directly across from me in the room when there was mad other spots but had her body turned away. So push and pull, she wants the d, could of gotten her digits then but i haven't been able to screen her properly.

Also there was another girl, the one i locked eyes with and just said hi because i couldn't think of anything else, she looked down and smiled and said hi. Gonna nickname her softie, previously beutyface. Well she was at the customer service today, and I haven't introduced myself to her since i really don't see her, working different times and all. So i go up to the desk to get a walkies talkie, I see none in the basket, and everyone else up there is busy. Shes facing away a foot or two away i say hey, got any walkies left? She turns and comes over to me and we walk to the basket to check it, Accidental touch is going on with our arms and unfortunately no walkies. After a second or two of this i say hey we haven't been introduced I'm raqimus who are you? She says i'm softie. We just stare at each other for some time before i break eye contact slowly because i don't want anyone else noticing this. I let out a sigh and she decided to keep things going. I was going to walk away and she asks me how long I've been here. I grab my name badge and show her (recently I got a pin stating how long I've been with the company...) I look at her and say too long, and giggles. I begin to walk away a bit and she asks how i like it and i give her some sexy ec since i'm a few feet away now body facing other direction. I put two fingers under my chin, pretending like im blowing my brains out. I give her a smile as well n she begins to giggle and i walk away.

Pretty face seems interested, there's like this magnetism between us like if i walk by she looks then i'll look, its some unconscious shit. Not much happened except for she said something about something big and i said, quite softly that's what she said. She found it funny and laughed but blurted out omg he didn't say that, then the other girl with her said what, then she said blah blah blah that's what she said. I'd like to fuck her but I dont think she can be discreet, dont think its gonna happen.

The chick i talked bout with my boner before, is still in highschool, don't really feel like trying to hit anymore.

ALso lezb chick saw her once, gave her the head nod and a smile and she beamed one back at me. I'd still fuck her.

Alot of these girs i'd fuck but i don't feel the fuck, you know what i mean? Also watched porn, fapped three times in a row... Gonna cut that out cause we gettin real busy soon with girls from everywhere in the fucking world... I need my dick hard lol.

Theres also vt, another girl who i've been actively working with, thought it'd be an easy hit, shes a virgin with quite a bit of issues. I think shes crazy, but shes normalized a bit, there is sooooooo much more i can put here gonna add this stuff. She is chasing me hardcore. Already had two hangouts, they involved nothing but talking, frames are established, she wants me to be the one to take her virginity, but she also has a lot of body issues too so it may take time, I'm not to invested or worried if it doesnt happen I'd be okay.
 

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These are the deets for Tuesday Just remembered one was a girl that was thick in a green dress. I was on the isle and she was bent over checking out coffee stuff and her legs looked soo damn good, I had to talk to her. Went over and asked if she needed any help and she began to walk out towards me and the isle and said she did not. I complimented her on her dress, and how it went well with her hair, she was blonde btw.
As she was beginning to walk away i told her to wait a sec, and in between us was a stack of merchandise, i went around the other side and she came to me and i said something about how i had to know if she was single. She said she was single and she seemed warm then she said but I'm leaving for Milwaukee for school. The convo kind of fizzled out because i didn't totally push the interaction and it was a good thing I didn't because one of my managers walked by a couple of seconds after we both moved away from each other lol.

The only other approach that day was after I'd gotten out of work and was heading home, saw a chick just chilling by this entry way to the garage and opened her just because I would of fucked her and to keep myself warm. So i walk by a bit and when i get a little past her i look and act like i just noticed her and i launch into my opener. I say something like she is gorgeous as i check her out and wanted to know if she was single. She said she wasn't and that her boyfriend was on the way to pick her up but hes late. I said damn that's a shame, give him hell tho! and we wished each other a good night.

Wednesday made 9 approaches and two re approaches and i approached even though i wasn't feeling it just to keep the habit up. I didn't go fully sexual because like i said wasn't completely feeling it instead tried the cute stuff along with sexy non verbals. IE strong eye contact, checking them out, and working on proximity.

The first one on the way to the gym, I had a hard time getting started so i just worked on warming up a bit. Keeping a smile on my face and looking at women and whatnot. I ended up doing my first approach near a college campus. A woman was walking in front of one of the schools libraries and I was on the other side of the street, a bit further behind. She crossed and was now on my street, she got to the corner to cross and i opened her as we were crossing. Told her she had a pretty face and we exchanged names, turns out I'd already tried talking to her. I remembered her face vaguely and we just transitioned into convo. We were talking and i was like wait so were you single or no? She said she was single but was seeing someone casually. I was like ah ok then we went into about what she wanted out of that relationship. I was positioning myself as a second lover and she said one is enough two would be too much to handle. I made a joke about that and we basically made sex talk like hypothetical if i was your lover situation. I remember asking if she was satisfied and she said he doesn't live in Boston so she doesn't get it as often as she wants then i said well what if you had someone in Boston. That's when she said that one guy was already enough. We continued making conversation I'm imploring quite a bit of chase frames, although i could of used more touch/compliance. The tone shifted and as we were walking talking about where she was going and shit she asked me if i lived in the area. I said i'm around, i should of used the line I've been wanting to use but i forgot! At this time i had a huge erection and we were talking and walking and shit just imploring chase frames on her, nothing major. I ended up grabbing her number and walked a bit more with her before i split and went in my job to grab a drink. She accused me of following her because i accused her of following me earlier which is when i was like xxx was going here in a playfully sexual way.

The next one was a bit after that, i had crossed the bridge in front of my job and came to the intersection to cross and continue my way to the gym. As i was walking to the intersection noticed a chick in glasses crossing my way but was held up by cars, so when i got to the point where i had to cross she was coming towards me. I tried to open her but she waved me off in disinterest, I yelled out ouch! Would of kept trying but didn't feel like it.

After her i opened another chick with colossal titties as i neared the gym. There was another girl behind her too that i wanted to talk to but i picked the girl in front, she was cute, had big ass titties, but was so awkward i cringed lol. As we were walking towards one another i noticed her glancing and playing with her hair. As we got closer i said "Hey got a sec" and she said yea. I got behind her a bit and faced the street and spoke to her over my shoulder as she also faced the street. I said she was pretty as i checked her out, we exchanged names and she seemed really nervous like twitchy nervous. She tried to walk off after we exchanged names but i'm like nahh bitch im the one who decides when we done here. I asked if she was single she said no and hopefully well see each other around campus, didn't come out smoothly tho on her end. I didn't care to press it because of how awkward everything came from her, I found myself laughing about it as i walked.

After the gym I approached some chick that looked great, mostly said she was pretty and asked if she was single, she said she wasn't but i got a smile out of her, she was warm and today i just didn't press it.

Then as i was heading into work to refill my water as i was walking down the ramp i noticed a chick coming off the bridge. There was a railing between us so i stood on the stone and leaned on the railing and called out to her. Said something like hey your sexy or gorgeous or something and asked if she was single, she said she wasn't and i told her to have a good day. I could of tried calling her over to get more compliance, i got to get used to asking more of other people.

Later on as i was walking past the same library where i stopped the first chick, i saw this gorgeous chick and stopped her. I said hey got a sec, you were fucking sexy, and i had to see if you were single. Funny thing was she was on the phone so she told whoever it was to hold on and when i saw her i was like nah i can't approach her but then i mentally said fuck that and did it anyway i was proud of that.

next was another chick on the phone and is topped her and tried the same shit didn't work.

Then i had re opened this chick I've already re opened before hahahahahaha. It was hilarious she was like we've done this before I remember you, I had already forgotten who she was lol. I was all up in the proximity and she seemed really warm I didn't try for her number again tho because I think on the first re open I did and nothing came from it. Either i have her number in my phone and she didn't respond or i never got her number, pretty sure i got it at one point tho. After we bantered a bit i just walked away, could of said something like yea wow third time we've met and we still haven't fucked. That would of been funny hahahaha.

So that's 6 approaches right there and 2 re approaches, I don't remember the other three approaches but I'm pretty sure they followed the same pattern of, hey you are cute then something something you single? then them saying no and me just saying exiting graciously. Gotta stop fapping!

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Now when i stopped at work to grab my drink softie was there and she rang me out. She asked what my numbers were and i wanted to use a chase frame but there was another girl around so i decided against it. She says so oh your raqimus and she pronounces it wrong so i correct her. Then i say oh so you girls were talking about me huh? She tries to talk some shit but i didn't even recognize it. Then she says oh we were talking about anime and of people in the store i like it so does xxx and you also came up. I'm like uh huh sure. Then we talk about anime for a bit and i joke about how shes watched free, and she said yea she has but didn't take the bait, this entire time shes like humping the fucking counter and our ec was very strong. I'm going to fuck her we just haven't worked the same shift so I've had no time to grab a number and set something up. Hopefully the next few days an opportunity will show. After she rang me out said that we'll have to talk more about this later, kinda setting the seed for a number grab and a conversation.

So one happened at the gym, its not much but its me actually talking at the gym, as i was exiting i went to the water fountain to refill my water and there was another girl waiting to refill hers as well. Both were occupied one short one tall, after the people leave she takes the short one and leaves me the tall one. I say "Thanks i appreciate you taking the small one" She says "Yea i know I'm shorter so i might as well take the short one" Then i say "Yea too tall, doing me a favor" or something like that and she doesn't reengage and there is an awkward silence as we fill our bottles, but when she finishes refilling she wishes me a good one.
 

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Only made three approaches today, from fapping i've determined it takes about 2-4 days for me to recover my libido but I know it can go higher too since, i sometimes find myself using porn.... When i was sticking to my imagination the libido was insane.

So first approach was at work with a kind of nerdy looking girl, I thought she was cute and she seemed interested and very warm annnnd she has a pussy, the last reason is mostly why. So i saw her and helped her get her shit like led her to the stuff she wanted but it was out on the isle and instead of approaching i just kinda pussied out. So a few minutes later i ended up seeing her again also in the middle of an isle and just went for it. Asked if she needed help she said no then i just asked if she was single. She asked why and i said because i think your cute. She said thanks!! and I just ended up walking away hahaha.

The second approach was with a chick that a coworker handed off to me, she bounced on her toes as she saw me in kind of a feminine way and she was just warm and our proximity was really close, like she took the extra step to stand really close to me, and she was just really open. I tried helping her with an item didn't work but she would bounce straight to me with full attention man I wanted to fuck her in the middle of the store. Eventually i came back downstairs with the item she wanted and it wasn't what she wanted so as we were ending things i was leaning on the item with my chin and said you are incredibly fucking gorgeous while checking her out, we exchanged names and i asked if she was single. She said no she wasn't but that i was also very handsome. Could of definitely pushed it but since i was at work I did not.

There were other women i should of approached on my break but i was talking to this coworker who is old, felt it'd be rude to break off, should of just said excuse then did my thing but he is the type to talk so i don't want him gossiping.

Last approach was on the way home, pretty sure she was Indian, she was showing quite a bit of skin with the short shorts nd her top and i was walking behind her and called out to her and she spun around immediately, i wasn't expecting it so i chuckled and moved to the side of her and opened with how sexy she was. Tried to exchange names but she said she was good... it was a dismissal. I still tried she said the compliment was appreciated but shes good. Maybe it means there's someone already fucking her like me in her life or i just wasn't sexy enough or didn't come correct idk. Maybe it was the chuckle after she spun hmmmm.

Gonna keep working! Gotta get that compliance just the little things, I'm going to remember!!!!!!!
 

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So today was 5 approaches and i got one number. I remember asking one girl if she was single at work and she wasn't or something I was incredibly drained today so i don't remember all the approaches or the deets.

Pretty sure i opened two girls at work, dont remember tho.

On my break i opened a married woman and she was warm and we exited gracefully.

Actually I remember another one where i opened the girl and she brushed me off and kept walking very coldly.

After the gym i remember approaching a girl just chilling by herself with her headphones on. She was warm and she was single but she was fucking someone else casually too, found this out in the first minute hahahah. I pushed to grab a drink or something sometime and it was a no go. Maybe i should just push for instasex, but how would i do that without coming off as a creeper or weirdo? Hmmm actually I've done this maybe ill get a lil more direct. its a mix of sexual playfulness!

The last approach of the day was where i got the girls number, I saw her walking the same way as me as i got out of work and i opened her with she looked cute or something while checking her out. She walked in front of me a bit but i persisted... we were on a sliver of land so i just walked behind her and kept talking. She gave me a look which prompted me to ask if was weird, and she said something about meeting new people and i said yea blah blah blah. I don't remember word for word but i do remember i had her hold my juice for me as we walked while i got my phone out to grab her number, we had set up a date so i had to get them digits. I also had her comply to stop with me as i saved her name, also told her she shouldn't try to make her boyfriend, i also screened and qualified. I think i did pretty well, we can only see if she responds.

i froze twice today, one was with a group of three i didn't approach and another was a set of two. Each with girls i really wanted to talk to, i regretted not saying anything.

In social circle not much, i stayed away from people because i was so tired and when I'm tired i don't function well and i get angry really easily especially when combined with hunger. Flirted a bit with all the women at work, they are all warm to me, talked with lezb a bit and she always seems to comment about how i get all the women and i play it off nonchalant. Also another girl came back, lets call her chipmunk. I tried getting with chipmunk, I got her number and tried to set things up but she wont let things move forward, pretty sure she is looking for a provider and I am not that so she has gone into auto rejection. Had some good time with softie but no real alone time to grab her number. Flirted with redeye a bit and she seems way more sexually experienced then me but I'm not letting her know that. She complies with my directions we'll see what happens. Also talking to a girl that is a crazy virgin and i'm pretty sure i can tell why. She is soooo fucking needy like, i get pissed off and its annoying. maybe ill end things dunno how well that will go, i don't want her clinging after i fuck her. Pretty face still seems interested, i have her number but it would be weird to text her out of the blue, ill sow seeds for that.

Also i fapped today, damn.
 

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Today just goes to show how much pickup is a game of asymmetric returns. Made 3 approaches and also got 6 numbers 1 of the numbers from social circle.

First approach of the day was before i crossed the street to work, saw a girl in short shorts and she looked sexy, so as she got over i told her to hold up. Ended up talking to her for like 3 minutes and grabbed her number, i also disqualified myself as a boyfriend too. She was very warm and we were pretty close, i also had gotten a boner while talking to her, gonna call attention to it the next time it happens and see how things play out. Seemed like we coulda done something instantly but we both had to work. I Feel like my vibe is more effective for instant lays, just a feeling.

I remember asking a girl if she was single while i was working and she said no but there's tons of girls out there, in a very warm tone. After helping and trying to pick her up she was warm for a bit but grew very cold as i saw her around the store. At the end she was just cold.

I also approached another chick out work later on in the day but i pussied out after asking if she was single because she wondered why. I said because she was cute then she said thank you or something and i begun to get nervous someone might see, I should of tried closing it out because she was single but i just left it there cause she seemed weirded out.

While i was at customer service saw a chick in yoga pants doing and exchange, her ass looked so tight and yummy. I couldn't approach so i said whatever, i end up going on break. I buy a shirt somewhere else then head to grab some food and waddya know, shes in line waiting for food and i'm right behind her. She orders her stuff and pays, i order my stuff and begin to head to the exit. She's near the doors and i contemplate approaching, i decide to throw caution to the wind and go for it. I said "Hey i saw you earlier while i was at work and I wanted to know if you were single. She exclaims excitedly, Wait am I really being asked out in chipotle? While leaning into my heavily; shes in her seat and i'm a bit bent over using my arm to hold myself on to the seat next to her. It sounds bitchy i know but it wasn't, i just looked at her for a few seconds then said yea. We exchange names and banter a bit, i go for the digit and she does me one better and gives me her business card, we banter a bit more then i exit.

Before her there was another girl that I helped previously and wanted to ask out because she was so warm and seemed very interested, I'm pretty sure i made a note about her in one of my previous posts in the journal. I didn't isolate before but this time i did by trying to help her find a decorative plant. Knew we didn't have it so i showed similar stuff and luckily the room was empty, so i asked if she was single. This was after the work interaction finished. She repeated the question like she was shocked. I stepped forward and closed the space, we were very close and she began blushing and i was like yea, your cute, i just have to know, I'm curious. She said she was single, we exchanged names and i asked her out. I moved her to the desk and got a piece of paper so she could write her number. Didn't have a pen so i had her check her bag for one, plus one for compliance :) , also had her write her name since i didn't know how to spell it and I'm glad i did. When i asked when she was free she said not until Tuesday when her parents leave, score it! She seems very keen, also shes from either Italy or Spain.

I don't remember when i made the other approach that didn't pan out, it was either on the street or in the store, don't remember.

After work I approached a girl walking along the street. As i was walking by her i noticed her looking at me and she smiled, i walked a bit then called out to her but she had headphones on. She didn't hear me so i had to turn around and walk a bit to catch up to her. I opened her and she seemed shocked and i created a bit of distance and then we talked. Asked if she was single and she said yes. We exchanged names and the vibe was sexual, when we shook hands i automatically felt it, and i pulled her in a bit and caressed her hand as i pulled away. At that moment when i was pulling her in i thought i could of kissed her. I should of but i thought it would be useless to do so, just gonna try it to learn from it next time. We bantered a bit bout the wine she was drinking and i was calling her drunk etc. Had her enter her number into my phone and joked about it being a sobriety test. I tried setting stuff up for right then and there but i didn't push it as i should have. At the end of the interaction dunno what made me do it but i said I would have kissed you. Then she said that would have been too much as she was walking off, and then i said another line and went my way.

Last street approach was this chick in a miniskirt n low cut top, she looked like she wanted to get fucked. This was as i almost reached the street around the projects, so i had to project i wasn't a project nigga quick, cause around my house if i try to approach a girl like this i would get ignored cause my hoods dangerous... I caught up to her and called out to her, She didn't respond. I moved a bit and caught up to her side and said hey, she said hi and looked back forward and kept walking. I said something like I'm not trying to sell you anything, I'm not a rapist or whatever, I also said something else but then i ended it i wanted to know if you were single your cute. Don't know what she said tot he answer but i just kept the ball rolling. Exchanged names and went into deep diving and screening/qualifying hard. Asked what school she was going to and i made a cold read about her grade. I was wrong she was a senior so i said something like yea you seem like you've been around for a while, you got the whole I'm in boston I know what I'm doing vibe. Don't care if she did. Then i asked about what she was doing with the major and just sharing ideas with her about it. I asked again if she was single because i didn't hear the first time, she said she was. Asked what she was up to cause the way she was dressed looks like shes ready to go out and party, she said she was goin out to hangout with friends and throw a few brews back. Don't know what i said but she was dying afterwards. Mind you we are walking down a long ass street and we finally get to the intersection and i'm talking to her and she makes eye movements glancing to the street and I don't pick up on this. Maybe because i was tired, i was wondering what it meant but i didn't glance, later i realized this was her telling me the street was safe to cross, thought she was going to the right before we crossed so i grabbed her number on the corner before we crossed the street. She gets a little more bitchy after we cross, i was also the one that led her across the street without fear of getting hit because the light turned green before we made it halfway, and dude in car let us walk across. I asked her schedule when we got across but she seemed like she really had to get going, OH after the number exchange before we crossed i forgot her name and asked her to spell it when i was putting it in and it was one of the simplest names and she called me lazy, i gave her some nonverbal that was like yea so what, I think. Well yea after we crossed and i tried getting the availability she gave me the whole, i work two jobs i'm always busy blah blah blah. and i said id text her my number blah blah blah. Went about our separate ways.

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I was flirting with redeye quite a bit, she had leggins on and that ass was popping, mostly was flirting with everyone a bit, chipmunk warmed a bit but went back to being cold immediately after she found out i was mixed with cape verdian. It was like immediate interest after redeye told her asking me if i was followed by disinterest after telling her yes i was. Getting really flirty with Lezb like she was squinting while walking up to me and got in really close, i told her she aint gonna do shit, and she spun away while laughing and kept walking. Also found out lezb doesn't do relationships which is my type of girl. Don't know how i'm gonna try and talk to her since i'm also trying to talk to her friend pretty face, they are bffs. lezb also initiates touch with me but its like friendly touch, we'll see. Also got softies number today. Before this happened we were flirting a lot and on one occasion i was just hanging in one of the side isles very visible and not busy, she ignores me and goes to talk to my boy in same dept as me to assist a customer. As shes walking back to the front i say to her wow that's fucked up i'm standing right here and you ignore me. She says well i don't like you and this entire time i had a smile on my face, I was watching her walk away after with the same smile on and she turns around and says she was just kidding and that she liked me but... then she did some nonverbal i interpreted as but i don't know if you like me or even i don't know if there's something between us. I'm still just silently looking at her in the eyes with a sexy smile. She realizes what she said both verbally and non verbally says some other words then says yea i'm just gonna go. It was cute hahaha, so anyway later on I was in the break room laying on the couch for my second break and she walks in and chuckles at the sight of me. I joke for a second then i tell her to come over to where i was, she says to give her a sec. She gets her shit and she does. I pass her my phone and tell her that shes cool and she says yea she likes to think so. So she enters her number and name and after a couple secs a bit annoyed she passes me back my phone and says she couldn't figure out how to save it cause a text popped up so i'm gonna have to save it. The text was the response from one of my icebreaker texts so i'm guessing that's good preselection. So i got the digits and now i just gotta move things forward!

This time of year is super busy, mad girls from everywhere around the world and its the time where i improve the fastest in the shortest amount of time, i love it hahahaha. Just gonna keep improving and working on getting compliance, screening/qualifying and touching. Mostly the compliance and touch tho, forgot what else i wanted to say too >.<
 

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Did four approaches, today and wasnt really in the mood because i was so tired. There was also one girl i really wantd to approach but didnt because things became fucking weird and i felt weird.

So the first approach was after helping this chick out just said i was curious if she was single. She was nervous talking to me as i was helping her but she eased up after i asked, she was more vibrant and was happy that i asked. Said it was still a compliment even though she wasn't single.

Next chick was the same situation I don't really remember the approach but it followed the same pattern as the first one.

Then there was another one later on in the night and i approached her just to see what would happen, she became more warm after the approach but she was not single, kept seeing her and she was warm but not interested i could tell.

The last approach was on my way home, was walking and this chick game me an approach invitation with a large smile and eye contact, i tried to approach and she took out one headphone but wouldn't stop for me. I tried to get her to stop but i wasn't about that running after her life.

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Flirting with all the girls still had this chick junglefever on top of me in the break room. I was laying on the futon couch and she asked if she could have a seat, i said sure and didn't move and she asked if she could have a bit of the corner. So she sat on the couch but since i was still laying her legs and most of her ass was on me, she wanted to feed me cupcakes. Don't remember how it ended up there but she said "Fuck you and your cock" so i said, you want to fuck me and my cock? I'm not as interested in fucking her because i want other women, we have a love hate relationship going on, she thinks i'm dirty etc etc. Didn't really talk to softie but tossed an innuendo at her and i don't think she got it because we were both pretty tired and i had to keep the tone in check cause there were other employees around. Redeye seems keen, shes highly flirty and also complies to my wishes.


Also really wanted to approach this indian chick, fat ass and nice titties, her body type was my type! She gave me a lot of approach invitations but i was already 10 hours into my shift on 4 hours of sleep and plus the caffeine i took fucked with my head. I was helping out another customer, and old guy and his daughter and it just became weird because i couldn't process, didn't know if they got me over there to approach her or they were keeping me from the approach. I just began to really analyze the situation and felt really bad anxiety, i wanted to approach her because she wanted me. If i see her i must.
 

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Another day with little to no sleep, ended up doing 7 approaches and getting one number.

Don't remember the starting approaches they were okay but i know i approached maybe one on the way to the gym and 3 or so on the way from the gym to home.
On my way back to work to refill my water pretty sure i approached some chick but she wasn't feeling it. Also received approach invitations when i walked back in but didn't go for them.

After exiting work i saw this gorgeous chick i had to approach, she had on sunglasses and a tank with shorts, it wasn't sexy but i thought she was. Just walked out of work and rocked up to her and asked if she was single, because she looked so incredibly sexy in her outfit. She was a bit confused like really this outfit? She checked herself out and i did the same and said yea and she brightened up. She wasn't single and i tried to push past it; didn't work but i put a smile on her face and wished her a goodnight.

I remember the number approach, was walking down the hill towards the station and I had stopped to wipe my nose. There were quite a few people coming up the hill and the women were checking me out. I would of approached but didn't until the end when i saw this girl, stunning little black outfit on and she had glanced hard for a second before i opened her as i walked towards her. I said hey, one second. She walked past me a bit but i held my ground and she walked back towards me and i asked her if she was single. She said that she was but shes too old for me, she says shes thirty and asks my age, I say that i'm old enough and in this situation age doesn't matter, it isn't even a factor. I dive her a bit on what shes doing in the city where shes from its relatively fast like 3 minutes or so and i go for the number. She says she can give me her email and i say that's weird. I move her closer to the wall, like two steps over but its still a move! We talk a bit more and she pulls out her phone to give me her number since she doesn't know it by heart. I setup for the date she says Saturday is good and next week is too, i say ill text her and we'll play it by ear. As we walk away from each other i tell her please don't try to make me your boyfriend. She gives this smile and wags her finger like no no no, and i find it hilarious and start laughing, and she does it again and we just go about our separate ways. Also got a boner during the interaction forgot to point it out to her.

After this saw a girl running towards me as i was walking, held up my finger to stop her and she rejected it non verbally with one of her hands even though she'd given me n invitation as she was running earlier, i wasn't in the mood to really try, probably should of moved a bit in front of her.

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Pretty busy day only really saw softie, i asked when she was free to hangout and she said that she doesn't know when shes free, i repeat it back to her then she says, yea but i don't do anything outside of work. She was basically telling me she was free anytime. My game was a bit off because i've been so tired. Ended up seeing her in the break room and asking if she was free Friday, and she was free after 5 she said and i said ok cool without setting anything up -_-. Got lots of compliance, she got up to give me my shirt which was on her chair and she also got up to give me a hug cause i asked if she needed one jokingly, i was still sitting i probably should of got up to do it... after i said she could also just take a seat and talk about the first thing that pops up and she said no. Well we will see.
 

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So these are my approaches from 8/25 did 6 of them nd ended up laying one of them the same day, i'll write up the lay report soon.

I don't remember the exact order of approaches but i believe the first one was a girl who i was helping find a deodorizer for her brothers stinky feet. I kept playfully teasing her saying it was her who had the stinky feet and her brothers a cover up hahaha. I brought her to both room for deodorizers and the vibe seemed very good after showing her the last item i just asked if she was single and she said no.. but she was very flattered and she walked away with a smile.

One of the approaches i ended up fucking later that day and i'll write more about it.

I really don't remember any of the other approaches i did hahaha, fucking this chick kinda took the cake. I didn't get any numbers from any of the other girls they weren't single or interested...

Then on 8/26 only made 1 approach because i was still fucking tired i approached a hot chick smoking a cigarette, she was on the phone and i went over, i asked if she was single and she thought i was asking her for a cigarette and tried to give me one and i refused and she made a nonverbal like no fuck off. I could of persisted but i found that hilarious and had to run to the gym before they closed.
 

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Sweet shit! It's awesome the hardwork is paying off, I'll be looking for your LR in the FR section. Keep it up!
 
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