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Raqimus

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Edd--19 said:
Sweet shit! It's awesome the hardwork is paying off, I'll be looking for your LR in the FR section. Keep it up!

Thanks man I appreciate the read and the encouragement, I hope to see the same from you ;)

The 27th made three approaches and got numbers. I've been a lot more direct with my approaches so as a result a I'm a little more forward and it seems less inexperienced. All of the approaches from the 27th were made while i worked. All of these were made off of little sleep as i was too busy fucking in the am lol.

The first one was this kind of tall gorgeous woman. She had a slim dress with stripes on it that revealed the little thong she had in the back... Tasty ;) So doing the natural thing I went over to help her, as i was helping her i noticed she seemed attracted. I don't remember the point i did but i do remember that i had said "I'm curious.... are you single" She said no she wasn't single. However she continued talking to me and seemed even more attracted, she commented on my forwardness and if that was my pickup line, i just said i was curious and if i see a woman i want, I will ask. She then said something about how most guys just pass her their number i laughed. I didn't push for anything here because i didn't care i helped her then went back to doing more work. Later she set herself up to be re approached and i took this as a sign of interest and that i should grab her number. She asked for more help again and i proceeded to amp up the sexuality a bit, i began using an innuendo or two and started deep diving a bit and qualifying. I got compliance by having her come follow me. We go behind one of the desks and i ask if she wants to exchange numbers, she said just as friends, I said ok and she said she was just being honest and that she said she doesn't cheat, I said ok. I was saying ok in a dismissal way with sexy eye contact and a sexual smile on my face. Had her watch out for my boss since she was walking by and i wasn't supposed to be talking to girls etc. Dived her a bit more and got the digits, seems solid, been pretty busy so we'll see.

The second girl was just looking at me like she fucking wanted it while i was helping her and while i was keeled down with the item i just asked if she was single. She said she was so i asked her name and i told her to follow me. She followed me to the desk but then we got interrupted by a customer and she walked away, i was a bit confused. After i helped that customer real quick i told her to come back and she said she'd write the number for me. Then we talked a bit more then we went our separate ways.

The last girl had the fattest ass and i wanted to talk to her so bad, she was with her friend and i bullshitted around a bit before i just said fuck it, I don't care i'm approaching. I already tried to help them but they didn't need help. I got a weird feeling in my chest, not like anxiety i wasn't nervous but i wanted to take action so i did. I went over to where they were and they were separated a bit so i just went over and said that i was curious if she was single, she said she was so we exchanged names and numbers. I talked to her a bit and her friend joined in and i included her and teased her a bit before making my exit. So i dived a bit and i don't know how interested she was i just kept pushing it tho, still got the digits. and my god was her ass, my god so fucking fat.
 

Raqimus

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These are the approaches from today, made about 5 and i was still reeking of pussy and sex so maybe that affected my results? I was curious to test it hahaha. Usually the girl would take a step away when i rocked up to the side of them before i opened.

The first girl i saw as i was crossing the street and she was waiting to cross in the direction i was going, i knew i wanted to approach but i wanted to make it feel spontaneous. I got over to where she was and looked across the street, then looked over as if i noticed her and she gave me an invitation so i asked if she was single. She said no she wasn't and i tried chatting a bit more but she didnt seem interested i let her go.

The next one was a girl as i was on the way to the gym, she was hot and gave an approach invitation, i rocked up and asked if she was single and she said yes she was then scurried off nervously, I found that hilarious, maybe i'm too sexy for my shirt? Too sexy for my clothes? So sexy it huuuurts? hahahaha

After i approached as i neared the gym, she wasn't single but she seemed flattered and i didn't feel like pushing it.

After the gym I approached a girl as we were waiting for the light to change to red so we could cross. I was next to her and i said something so she didn't hear me and she was looking away kind of ignoring me, so i kept waving my hand in front of her face till she acknowledged me. When she did i laughed cause it was funny, i asked if she was single but it was a no. Didn't seem too keen but i pushed a bit more for convo, got a little info about where she went to school and made a joke about us getting a drink and not telling her boyfriend, she laughed but said she wouldn't cheat and i said that it was cool. After we had crossed her pace started to slow down and i took that as her not being interested so i wished her a good day and kept goin.

The last approach was this really hot short girl, she was with her friend and i just opened because she looked and gave the invitation, she was thrown off when i responded. I gave her a head nod and veered a bit towards them asked if she was single and she said she was. We were in the middle of the street and they didn't stop walking, i was walking backwards a bit trying to keep talking but they kept moving further away and seemed unresponsive, I didn't care still wished them a good day and kept it moving. Probably could of had them stop, not good yet with groups of women.
 
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Raqimus

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This is from the 29th. Made two approaches and got one number.

I don't remember the approaches but i do remember getting the number. I need to make the entry the same day or I forget >.>

With the number it was this chick standing by hangers. I'd seen her a lot around the store and she seemed like she wanted it. I was just bullshitting around and i decided to go for it as a what the hey. I go over and just ask if shes single cause i thought she was cute and she was stunned. Perhaps shoulda tried same day idk. She says she is and i move her a bit and i feel like I've already tried to bag her before but her name doesn't sound familiar... i mention this to her and we go through this little thing then i pull her over to the desk and dive a bit to build a bit of comfort and we exchange numbers.

For today I made four approaches and got 1 number.

The first one i tried a girl after i got out of work in front of a store nearby and she wasn't single but she was still pretty warm, it was an approach to warm up but i would of fucked her.

The next girl i saw as i was in the middle of crossing so i smoothly walked back to where i crossed from and walked towards her. I opened her and she stopped for me and i asked if she was single and she was. We talked a bit i said she was cute and i took off my sunglasses and checked her out. We had good EC and she seemed very open. I tried an instant date but she was going to meet her friends so that was a no go. Then i said come i'm tired i'm sitting, I walked a few steps over to take a seat as i grabbed her number and she didn't follow she just stood there. After i sat down and looked at her and waved her over and she said Oh!. She come over and gives me her number. I had already dived a bit before, and we cross the street to the gas station and since she told me where she was going i didn't feel like walking with her so we split up and went our separate ways. Also one of my coworkers saw us and told me to stop flirting said in a very playful fun way, so maybe pre selection boost?

After i got some grub for myself i saw a very thick chick walking by herself, i found her cute so i approached. I asked if she was single, she said yes but was a bit freaked and tried to keep walking. I said wait i just thought you were cute, and she made another weird face and i could tell she wasn't interested so i made it fun for myself. I said something like i think your cute, but your single and not interested it seems, oh well have a good day. This was as she was beginning walking away so I got to end things on my terms.

Next girl was right outside the train station, she looked very good and as she was coming out just asked her if she was single and she said no she wasn't but she seemed very warm as she kept walking. Didn't feel like stopping her.

The last chick had one of the fattest asses and slimmest waists I'd ever seen, I saw that shit from a mile away. Shes standing by the corner waiting for the light to cross, and I'm walking to said corner. Two dudes with awful fundamentals are also crossing, i notice how they stop like a good distance away so they can check her out and i realize its a bit creepy. Like the strong attraction non verbals but they didn't do anything about it, she also closed off as they got closer. Which was after they crossed to the island. I crossed as well and they crossed the street again and i began to catch up the dudes kept walking straight she crossed to the right. I got over there and opened her. I said hey! And i begun to walk over to her and she gave me her full attention, I asked how old she was. She said 17... I began to wave my hand and shake my head then I said mm mm no! while slowly backing away (Variation taken from Radeng, i found this hilarious and so did she) She began to laugh and said something like no way or omg, I don't remember but she found it funny and so did I. I can find another girl like her with the same body which wouldn't risk my anal virginity.

*EDIT 29th got another number... forgot to add that in, it was from this temp girl that worked overnight. I dived her a bit and said that she was cool, lets exchange numbers. Maintained the convo with strong EC and she seemed attracted gonna slow burn her a bit.
 

Raqimus

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Been sick the past few days so I've been ignoring the boards.
Aug 31st made 1 approach i don't remember it.

Sept 1st made 2 approaches and got 1 number. I don't remember the approaches but I'm pretty sure like 1 was at work and the other outside work.

The number I got from this very short Latina that seemed very nervous. Was helping her get some stuff and asked if she was single she said yes, we exchanged numbers as i was helping her with stuff. I think she auto rejected later on because i was helping someone else and she asked for help and i told her a second... maybe i should prioritize the girls im tryna fuck? Afterwards i helped but there was less eye contact and stuff she seemed a bit cold, maybe there was something else i did too... i'm generally just a flirt so idk. Also don't care, she never responded to ice breaker or subsequent text.

Today the 3rd made 16 approaches and got 6 numbers. I also approached multiple groups so I'm proud of myself for just doing it. It's not as bad as I thought at all, its just how do i handle them both hahahaha.

Well second day of classes and i pussed out on asking out the girl from my first class, I dunno what it is but i get anxiety picking up girls at school... on the street I'm fine, at work I'm fine. Guess i just gotta do it till it no longer hurts :).

Second class i exchange numbers with a girl under the premise of getting notes if we were absent. I recall her saying just for class notes right, and i said yea don't get too excited now. She laughed and said i knew you would say something like that. Got her number and etc, there's other girls i want in the class i think this girl has a bf or something; I don't really care.

After class I try to talk to this girl as i walk up the hill past the train station to grab some grub. I don't remember what she said but i don't think she was single but i kept persisting and i tried to touch her to get her to slow down it was a no go.

After eating I talked to a set of two girls which is fucking awesome with noooo anxiety! I just rocked up and as we were passing i asked the hot indian chick if she was single. She was and so i set about talking to her for a bit. Now I don't know how to play out a set of two directly but i tried involving her friend a bit as she was a little closed up. Most of the focus was on the indian girl tho. We exchanged basic information and she seemed interested, so we exchanged numbers. They were freshman. Got her to enter the number into my phone as a fun game, one thing was their backs were towards the wall whereas mines was towards the street, and there was a bit of distance between us so i took a step and closed it. They didn't move but instead i could of had her take a step towards me or swap places or something.

Next was another set of two! I'm on a fucking roll! Down the hill from the one i had walked up i was waiting to cross the streets at the light when i noticed these two asian chicks eyeing me hard! I pretend to do something and they cross and i open with excuse me. The one next to me responds but i keep looking at her friend and the one that was closer to me just walks off. I ask if shes single and she says yes, incredible signs of interest from her. I dive a bit and tease about why she has a pillow. I ask what shes up to today and she says shes free, and blah blah she says shell text me, so i say your just gonna assume your gonna give me your number. She says yes and we exchange numbers. I tell her to come closer I don't bite and she complies. I;m pretty sure i fucked up at the end. I disqualified myself as a boyfriend and used touch, the timing of the touch was natural but the way i did was bad. I looked at my hand before i touched her and i think i looked at her arm as well! So creepy! hahaha I think that's what ruined it for me, she was laughing about my line and she began walking away maybe i held my hand on hers too long idk... this is why i don't really use touch till i need to. Errr Got her number but never responded.

After that set of two, THERE WAS ANOTHER SET OF TWO. I'm behind them but i move towards the side a bit so they can see me and I believe i touched the one girl closest to me to pre open, then asked if she was single. I was flowing and had good momentum so i said lemme guess you've got a boyfriend too eh to the other girl. She did so i was like ah great two girls with boyfriends just rolling as a pair or something like that, i acted a bit dramatically then left them, laughed a bit then wished them a good one, they didn't say it back, maybe they thought my last dramatic act of frustration was serious?

As i'm almost at my job i change my shirts while walking, taking off my t shirt and putting my work t-shirt on. I walk through these other doors in the main center and hold open the door for the chick behind me. We make strong Ec and she breaks it, i act like i'm deliberating and i just look at her and she looks back, i ask if shes single and she says no but i see shes nervous. She starts smiling and laughing but she breaks to the left and heads into the elevator as i head straight through the next set of doors. Meh,

The next couple of approaches I make while I'm working and I grab a couple of numbers too ;)

Don't remember the order of approaches there, but there's one chick i help and i ask if shes single, she says no but she still gives me strong ec like the last girl i picked up with a boyfriend, perhaps i should of traded names with her then tried a date. I tried the date and stuff before i got her name, i had also dived her a bit before all of this. Oh well, i did persist after just thinking of other possibilities. She re opened me like twice.

Another one was with a chick i had complimented earlier, she kinda re opend me and i led her to frying pans and asked if she was single, she said no she was with her boyfriend. all her friends were nearby and no one heard this, i hadn't noticed her friends, but she did say thank you.

There was also one really hot girl i wanted, I didn't realize her dad gave me us the opportunity to get acquainted by walking off, i should of took it but didn't expect her dad would give us the opportunity. She wanted me, sad I couldn't give her the dick, she was hot and i am just not nervous at all hahaha. Didn't get to approach her so i didn't count her in anything.

one chick with glasses and a fat ass i helped fine something and then i asked if she was single, i asked if she wanted to trade numbers and yea. I led her to my desk and w exchanged names and i dived a bit. Before all this she told me her phone had a freak accident nd just broke this morning but shed get a new one Saturday. At the desk she wrote her number and said to text her. some dude stood by the desk a second and i was just curious who he was so i looked a second or two before going back to her and hes still standing there. She looks up and its her friend she goes o intercept him mad quick and says oh he was just helping us blah blah. then tells me to text her. She seemed like she didn't want to get caught hahaha. Maybe she's hooked up with him or maybe hes on the back burner he didn't seem too pleased but he didn't say shit, i really don't give a fuck ill fuck her in his face, idgaf!

Another girl i got a number from just seemed warm, pretty straightforward, asked if she was single and she was. we exchanged names n numbers as i dove a bit about how she wanted to be a marine biologist. It was all pretty straightforward. She seemed very interested.

I asked out some chick with blue hair, asked if she was single she wasn't. Didn't feel like persisting cause we were a bit exposed.

Last chick I grabbed a number from i thought she was a lesbian but i said fuck it lets see, turns out shes single and she wasn't. She had very short cropped hair and her outfit was simple but i liked it. Turns out shes only in the U.S till Wednesday visiting her parents since shes been in Jerusalem the past 7 years in school for music. We connected a bit as I dove her. Main point was i persisted past her saying shes only here till Wednesday by seeing if we could set up something before then. At the end of the convo we just held eye contact and she broke downwards and there was a spark. She walked off with a smile. Myself with an erection, seeing her Saturday after my date with another girl.

Asked out another chick that was giving good signs, asked if she was single she said no but why, shrugged my shoulders and said cause i thought you were cute. She got giddy and thanked me.

At work it's mostly been dropping the I know tits random and just asking out of the blue when i feel the vibe is right, perhaps i could make it meld more into the conversation and seem more natural, gonna work on that. All of my other approaches at work followed the same standard. I just ask if they are single, they are I proceed to dive a bit and set up the number swap and try to set a date up, if they are not single usually i just leave it alone unless i really want to fuck them, then i persist jokingly or even if i see there's a possibility i persist.
 

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Made 14 approaches Saturday along with those got two numbers.

Got my first number from my first approach, older woman was in a short dress a bit tall but i felt sexual tension between us. I got her digits and tried asking her out but i was being a bit awkward, like i said yea i just don't want to get in trouble and stuff, etc. Got the number but she seemed cooled off after i saw her again, oh well. She hasnt responded to ice breaker gonna see what i can do still.

Don't remember the amount of approaches at work since they didn't lead to anything.

I remember one approach after work I re approached the girl who said her phone was broken till saturday. Waddya know it was saturday but I had forgotten her face and mistakenly assumed she rejected me and after saying "I remember you I tried to pick you up" I exited. It was stupid of me because she seemed excited to see me, i just didn't remember her. Gonna assume next time things went well. She was on the phone and had a fat ass...

Later on after going home and sleeping for a bit for my dates later, I approached one girl after my first date. She hooked pretty quickly and seemed very interested, very curvy body and had glasses. Yum. I got her number and dove a bit then i could see she was nervous or wanted to leave and i used my hand in the way you would let someone pass as a way to let her go. I thought it was harsh on my part cause i was telling her to leave after exchanging the digits but she still responded to icebreaker relatively fast. Would of responded but I'd just got done fucking my second date hahaha.

Approached a set of two, one of them had given the hair flip but i really wanted the other one, i tried and it was a no go, wasn't single and didn't stop for me. Oh well.

There was another where the chick was single and we talked a bit and as i shook her hand i tried to gently pull her in a bit but she resisted, it was game over afterwards she didn't want to exchange digits.

Tried another chick as i walked around waiting for my second date, and she glanced at me then looked away, and ignored my opener. I played it off like "ouch like ice I'm so heart broken", all done quite dramatically hahaha.

I think i tried another girl but it was a no go, at night people are usually trying to get somewhere so i think I have to amp up my energy a bit when i approach, but i generally didn't feel like it till i got in the swing of things.

The other girls were approached at work, just remembered there was this one sexy chick who was giving me good vibes, her mother left us alone a bit as i helped them and shit. Dove a bit about where she was from and she seemed interested. I almost pussied out since her mom was there but as they were leaving her mom got a bit ways away and i sprung into action. I went over and said hey got a second and she came back, asked if she was single, she said no but the look on her face was pure joy.

There were other girls i tried throughout the day but like i said no goes, and it generally followed the same system... huh guess i got a system in place now lol.
I would consider myself high value :)
 

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Made 7 approaches got 3 numbers. Lately I've only been remembering the approaches where i get the number... the ones i don't get kind of fade out.

Approached a chick at work i got a I'm just doing me, but thank you I'm flattered. I asked if she was single, she looked like she was stunned i was like, boyfriend? girlfriend? hahaha

I asked out another girl but she had a boyfriend and i don't like to persist at my job.

Another girl I was helping with the lights and i just decided to ask her and she wasn't single.

One chick was staring at me before and one of my coworkers called my name then said get it mad loud so i just kept walking and ignored her. Later saw her at a dif part of the store and she needed help so i helped her and stuff and then we did an order. Throughout the entire thing I knew she wanted it so i asked if she was single and she said she was so we exchanged numbers and stuff. Learned a bit about her didn't think shed respond to my icebreaker but she did, hmmmm.

Another chick a bit after helping the previous one, very tiny and looked young asked if she wanted help and from her response knew i should try something but with so many people around i let it go. I ended up going on break almost got to the store then realized i forgot my wallet. Went back in and got it and saw her outside the door. Went over and asked how old she was, 18... good. Then i asked if she was single, then we exchanged numbers and i dove her a bit. Tried to see what she was up to later on in the day but she said sorry she cant. She hasn't respond to ice breaker yet... hmmmm

There was another girl i later approached on my break outside the convenience store, she was single and she looked like she was going to stop but she changed her mind, i tried but it didn't work so i laughed it off and bought my food.

Approached another girl at work, she was with a friend, she was single and i got her number and i talked to her for a bit but could sense she wanted to go so i said, ah sorry didn't mean to stop you and your friend from shopping or something like that. I could of worded that better or said it in a more dominant way. She hasn't responded yet.

I think i tried talking to this one hot chick on the street but she ignored me.

On my way to the gym i saw a chick with a very nice figure. Wen't over and asked if she was single, we both kind of hit the corner of the curb at the same time. She said she was and i complimented her figure and she said she just came from yoga, I was like ya i could tell. We bantered for a second and the mood was good. Asked what she was up to later, it was a no go. I tried getting her to put her number in my phone but she failed hard and asked for my number instead. I don't care because she wasn't free this week anyway, said shed be free the next week. So if she texts me, we'll see.

On my way home from the gym was walking up this long street and this girl gives me invitations so i open and ask if shes single, she said no she has a boyfriend but thank you, i wished her a good night.

There was another girl i talked to as i was walking home after the gym, she wasn't single but she was happy and was flattered.

I feel like pulling the trigger when a woman gives out such invitations is a powerful thing to do as many men wouldn't even try on the street, just an observation because a lot of women have been thanking me... maybe I'm over thinking it lol. Gotta work on getting more compliance, I'm generally in an idgaf mood when it comes to women, its soooo fun. I do care a bit at work >.<
 

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Got two numbers today and also made 6 other approaches.

Approached one chick as i was walking up the hill coming from the train station, I was heading into work and just asked if she was single and she said that she wasn't and closed up pretty naturally, oh well.

Next girl i saw as i was crossing the street to work and i was just attracted. Went over to talk to her, asked if she was single and she was, she was shocked and open, we traded names and had a bit of banter and i found out where she went to school. The vibe was good so i asked what she was up to later. She said "I'm sorry i'm so tired i cant even fathom talking to a person right now". I mentioned that its cool i'm heading into work and i'm running a bit late. Then she asked if i wanted her number and i said sure you can give it to me. Throughout the entire interaction was good ec, and i just felt attraction. We exchanged numbers then went on our way.

Next girl was as i was working, the signs i thought were there but i believe i had acted a little too slow, so when i pulled the trigger i got a no like it was obvious, the way she said it and i said awww in a joking way and we went about our ways.

Approached another chick right after asked if she was single she gave me full attention but took a step back and i did as well, and she said she was but wasn't looking etc. So i said cool i understand and let her go. I was at another part and as she was going she gave me strong ec then said something which i don't remember. Made me think she wanted it still but i left it alone.

Before grabbing my food saw this Asian chick with a cool hairstyle so i complimented her and she hooked and was happy then asked if she was single then she was like whooaaa outa nowhere dude. We both were laughing and i began to walk away and she said sorry, i wished her a good day. I approached her for the fuck of it perhaps i need to telegraph intent more through body language and tone, i felt like this one was too nice.

After i tried talking to a girl on my lunch break after buying me food. She was ahead of me in line and was showing some indicators i didn't open in the store, i need to start doing that. I opened her after i got my stuff and left and she just walked out. Called out to her and she stopped asked if she was single and she wasn't. She was following my lead and was smiley but i didn't push it.

There was two girls on the isle shopping while i was behind the desk, eyed them a bit and one of them looked like she bit because she came over to "shop" candles, my body was facing my desk only thing facing her was my head. I looked over to her and said hey... Are you single. She began to blush and said yes she was. I said cool lets exchange numbers. Whats your name? We exchange numbers and i help her a bit with candles with a recommendation after she gives me her number i play it off like nothing when her friend comes over, pretty sure she knew tho... We have good ec, and a good bit of banter I try to see wen shes free but its a toss up, as shes leaving and i say ill text her. I shot the icebreaker a little too late, she hasn't responded yet.

Didn't do anymore approaches at work after that, there was one girl whoa not too cute and is a bit thicker, but she gets my dick so hard. I should of approached her, this is the second time I've seen her, she was wearing this sexy as mini skirt this time, she was doing it for me. I want to fuck her, I will fuck her. Going to bag If we ever get the opportunity to meet each other again.

Last approach of the day was after I had gotten off of work, walked through a college campus as a shortcut and saw a girl i wanted to talk to on the other side of the street. Pretended to adjust my sneakers and shit until she made almost over and i began to walk a bit. Noticed her then asked if she was single.Her face lit up however she thought i asked if she was a singer! I corrected her and she said no she wasn't. Still very lit, I checked her out and gave her a half smirk from the left side followed by a tsk, She laughed and i wished her a goodnight. It was a playful move on my part.
 

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Made 8 approaches got two numbers.

The first approach was on my way into school, this woman had the fattest ass and her dress was skin tight and the fabric just gave me a hard on as i was walking behind her. I decided to say fuck it and open even though i decided to try and not pick up girls at school since it's incredibly small. So i open her with hey excuse me, then i ask if shes single. She says I'm a teacher in a kind of bitch voice, i ignored and continued oh what do you teach? She replied Spanish. I let it simmer off for a bit and as we got to the door i said something else and she tried to shush me. I found it fucking hilarious so i started laughing and just shook my head and went to class. Prolly coulda played it better but her attitude didn't affect me because she gave me an invitation.

After classes approached a chick after i had walked down the hill that I had to walk up to get to work. The part i was at was across from some apartments and i saw a thicker girl walking towards me and she gave me an invitation so i opened. Asked if she was single and she wasn't i tried to persist but it was no go, didn't really care and kept it moving.

After this there was too many women for me to approach and i couldn't decide who i wanted to approach hahahaha.

Later on before i got to work i had to buy some shirts, so after buying the shirts as i was walking in front of the movie theaters saw a girl and she gave me an invitation so i opened. Asked if she was single she wasn't but she was still chillin wit me so we had a bit of a convo. She said she loved her boyfriend after i persisted so i left it alone and said it was amazing she had something like that and wished her a good day.

Tried approaching a girl at work, she was very hot and seemed very interested but she was sort of in a relationship, when i inquired further she said it was her boyfriend... so why did she say sort of? I tried to persist there but no go, we hadn't even exchanged names. Perhaps i should of done that and tried to dive and qualify more. Glad I'm not intimidated by a girls beauty they are all just sooo cute :). She came over to where i was working later on and i tried to re open and got her laughing a bit but she still didn't comply so after persisting i left it alone on a good note. Did get her name that time... she later came over again but i could tell she didn't wanna talk so i left her alone pretty sure she was talking to her mom in another language cause before her mom got to her she was nice to me after i asked for help; her mom that is. Then after speaking to her daughter she gave me a bit of a cold shoulder.

Talked to a chick that i was helping with candles, she seemed interested and gave me signs so i approached. She was single and she was studying to be a lawyer and stuff so she mentioned shes really busy etc, and i say cool. No commitment exactly how i like it or something along those lines. She laughs and we exchange numbers, i dove her a bit but she wanted to go but i kept her there then let her leave on my terms. Tried to booty call her later... no response to the booty call even after she responded to ice breaker.

Tried approaching a girl on the street on my break. Asked if she was single and she looked confused i said I think your pretty and was wondering if you were single. She said oh then made a face then just walked off. I shrugged my shoulders laughed and kept moving, funny thing is two other girls walking towards saw that and flipped their hair simultaneously.

Later there was a very hot girl who gave me a large invitation, like she walked down towards where i was and walked back, she needed help actually cause she asked another associate for help but she was busy with someone else. I had put my ladder down and walked over since i was done with helping that same associate and asked what i could help her with after she walked a bit. She needed help with slippers and robes. Got her over to the section and said, out of pure curiosity are you single? She said yea and i tried to exchange numbers but she said she didn't do that shit. I shot a confused look and she said she just got out of a relationship and wasn't looking for one. I said cool me neither, she giggled and said she doesn't do men after that n so i asked if she did women then, she said no. She's just doing her own thing atm, and i tried persisting but it was a no go. She was open and gave me her full body language, She said she'd see me around and i said cool then i waved her off with my hands... i cant describe it but the way i did it I feel like communicated higher value or something idk... she said it and walked away with good ec and my instinct told me i could of fucked her. I always feel like there's more i could of done.

I believe I can fuck anything...

Another girl i was helping, a pretty Asian whose English was okay and not too super, i was helping her with trays and she was very feminine. Like compliant and excited, laughing at all my shit, closing proximity so when i got her over to the computer to try and order more stuff i tried it. She wasn't single and her boyfriend was on her way into the store, she still had her body full on me, like incidental touch or whatever and i feel she was interested but not available, didn't push it and luckily i didn't cause he ended up coming around the corner after id walked away a minute later. Saw them later in the store and gave them a nod and she waved at me excitedly. Pretty sure afterwards she told him, idk tho.

Don't remember the last approach nothing came out of.

I do remember on my way out of the gym i noticed this sexy asian girl across the street. Could feel her looking at me and i wanted to approach. she'd gotten almost all the way over to my side when i started crossing, I caught her looking at me through the corner of her eyes and we held eye contact so naturally i started walking backwards and began to smile a bit. I said hey and she stopped and i asked if she was single and she said yea. She began giving me major signs so i decided to try some new things. I asked where she was heading, she said on her way home. I said oh already inviting me over hmm. she said noo she wasn't and she was giggling about it. We chatted a bit about where she was from and i got a boner, i tried to bring it up but i think i did it clumsily, i tried using drexels line. What came out was wow, you are so sexy... i mean you are giving me a huge erection, and she said thanks, i said totally take it as a compliment. Didn't come out that smooth in person and pretty sure there were subtle nuances i fucked up on too. I still got her number and tried to set things up by asking when she was free, she said Friday, i said okay how does 8 sound. She asked like are you asking me on a date in a good way. I said a date, a long walk something like that. We chat a second more its mostly bantering and sexual vibe going. I say, I mean the way your looking at me right now is like you want to fuck me like you want to tear my clothes off etc. Not those exact words but i let her know i know she wanted to fuck me. She backed off a bit like took a step back but she always came back and we still held good ec. Maybe i went overboard but hey always supposed to do some new shit! Oh yea also complimented her tat saying it was fucking sweet or something. Should of had her come over and show it to me more. I lost my erection after i tried the erection line also :(
 

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Made 7 approaches today and got three numbers.

First approach was at school, was coming out of the stairwell and i walked through a doorway. Noticed her and looked at her for a couple of seconds then turned away, she noticed me as well. I noticed there was an invitation but there were too many people around... plus i had to take a major piss. I threw my head back as she was walking away to tell her to come back then i went into the bathroom. After the bathroom i came out and she was down the hall walking at a slow pace. I caught her as she walked into the other stairwell and she was going up the stairs. I said hey excuse me and she was very open, i asked if she was single and she came down a few steps to talk to me. She didn't understand at first so i said, your single right, no boyfriend girlfriend, she wasn't single cause she had a boyfriend and i said aww in a playful way could of continued but didn't care, i just left and wished her a good day.

Next approach was a girl as i was walking down the hill in front of these apartments. She had a stunning dress on and her figure was sexy. I saw her looking at me so i said hey, and she stopped and we started talking. Asked if she was single cause her figure looked fucking amazing in that dress. She said even though i don't have any shoes on? I said huh, looked down and she was barefoot and i was like oh, didn't even notice hahaha. She wasn't single but she chatted with me a bit and did seem interested. Said our goodbyes and she said she will see me around or something. As we were leaving each other and gotten a bit away i asked about the shoes, and apparently they broke earlier. She tuned around completely to give me that bit of info then we went on our way.

Was walking near a college and noticed a girl eyeing me. I said hey, excuse me and she ignored it, i thought it was cause i said it too late. I turned around and walked a bit to catch up to her and asked if she was single as we were walking. She widened the distance and seemed freaked out so i backed out, didn't seem worth it.

The next one was a bit further it was a women in a dress suit. I asked if she was single, she stopped for me and said no she wasn't and i told her about how her dress was so sexy and showed off her figure very well she began to laugh and walked off. I think she told me to have a good day, dunno. That dress highlighted her figure soooo well.

Next girl i approached was near the corner of my job, i saw her and she noticed me as well and glanced at me and i just had to open. I asked if she was single and she was, we exchanged names and the vibe was on. We exchanged more info about where she went to school, what she was majoring in, etc. We set up a date for tomorrow, and i got her number. She also responded to my icebreaker so all that's left is to make something happen tomorrow. The vibe was pretty sexual I managed to slip in some innuendos too she seemed jarred for a split second and or i think she either ignored or didn't get, we shall see.

Afterwards as i neared work noticed a very sexy girl and i got in between work and going to approach her and i stood around like a fuck tard for a good minute, i thought it was hilarious cause i was hoping people viewed my dilemma. Decided to say fuck work and go approach her. I had to run a bit which isn't something i normally do but it is fun once in a while. I caught up to her but she wasn't single and i told her to stop for me and she didn't, said she had to go do something or whatever and i just left. it was fun tho!

Then i walked back to work and walked in, found it I wasn't working and decided to fill my water and leave. When i first walked into the store noticed a hot girl but didn't approach since its too open. After getting my water i tilted my head to the side cause i wanted her to go outside. She did and then i went outside and as we got to the curb opened from the side and asked if she was single. She wasn't, her face showed a smile, but her body language was closed off. I think i tried to persist a second but no go, i wished her a good day then went about my day.

A couple seconds after that i had turned the corner to the other stores and noticed a woman eyeing the shit out of me, so i just said hey. She stopped and she was feisty, we exchanged names, and she was single. She asked for my age, i told her to guess, she said she doesn't do guessing games then asked again. I said to guess hahaha, she said no she doesn't guess, i told her to take one guess then i'll let her know. She guessed 22, i said close 23. Then i said i'm not gonna ask you for your age cause that'd be rude ya know. This was said as she was putting her number into my phone. After that she was on her way and she said text me as she was a couple feet away, and she said it out loud. Perhaps i should of said something but i didn't feel the need to. She hasn't responded to ice breaker yet.

After her i was heading back home and there was a girl i wanted to approach but decided not to, she ended up seeing her friend, who i did approach. Either way they caught up and split up. Her friend was walking the way i was walking and she was holding two coffees. As we got closer to a different school, i said one of those coffees for your boyfriend? She giggled and said no, I said got a boyfriend and she said no. We started talking. We exchanged names and i ask if shes heading to x school and she says yea i go there. We talk a bit more and i go for the date and she says she has to admit that shes seeing someone. I say kay cool is casual or serious or what. She says she doesn't know i said okay lets just exchange numbers then no pressure. She says to take her number down i said chill out i was already doing that don't gotta tell me i know you have your hands full. She giggles a bit and we exchange numbers. We walk through the gate and go our separate ways.

I think i approached another girl, dont remember where or when it happened but i marked down another. Didn't workout tho.
 

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Today I only had four hours of sleep coming off of five hours the previous day and being up from 9am to 3am hahaha. So i was a bit tired, I made 11 approaches and got two numbers. I did push interactions and generally lead things in a dominant way with getting girls to stop. I felt a little off today when socializing initially and i felt like a bit of a creep, my social skills regress along with my mental heat when i get less than 5 hours of sleep. It wasn't bad but i understood that i could handle and deal with it i just had to make changes. Really can't remember all the approaches... fuck

First approach was at work, the chick was hot and I'm numb to approaching hot women and gorgeous women. Now its a matter of adapting to the situation and approaching with social savvy. So saw her she didn't need help and she was in the middle of the isle across from this stack of items. I was on the other side and just walked over to the stack and kind of made myself comfortable and took up space and looked at her and just asked if she was single. At first her eyes were just scanning mines like bouncing back and forth then she became flustered and said that no she wasn't. But she thanked me and was really flattered, she sounded genuine and was warm. I just left after i said damn, i was curious.

Approached another girl at work and it didn't work out.

I approached a girl at the hospital as i was turning in my mothers form. She was eyeing me before we got on the elevator and i didn't approach after we got off cause there were other people there. We got in line and she got in first; i began to get anxiety and i was just trying to figure out how to approach. I got out of the line before she finished and walked a bit into the other hall guessing she had to go into internal medicine. I pretended to look for the bathrooms. Found em and as she walked by i just said something like you were cute but i was a little nervous and then asked if she was single. She was and we talked a bit and exchanged numbers. I made he mistake of going back into the line for the receptionist instead of going to the bathroom, and there prolly was a bit more nuances as well. Also when i had to go to internal medicine to drop off the paper i glanced twice instead i should of used my peripherals and just walked out a there, she gave me the wrong number or typed it in wrong.

I remember approaching another girl on my way to the gym and the sexual tension was there and i was a bit on from a coupe other approaches before her. She said she was a chemistry major and then i said oh do you sense the chemistry between us and she initiated the touch, rewarded her and asked for her number while standing quite close next to her. Made another innuendo or something and she touched me again, she responded to the ice breaker and imma see wassup!

There was one girl when i was walking home from the gym I was in my own zone just singing to the music looking up at the sky not looking at the crowd passing me. My eye gets drawn to the crowd and I see this cute girl I say excuse me, it was incredibly grounded and she stopped and gave me her full attention. I walked a bit over and asked if she was single, she giggled no and just began walking away i found it funny and went back to the music.

An approach right after the gym involved this blonde girl i opened her as she was a few feet ahead of me she seemed cool but wasn't single, after that i began to feel really creepy; maybe it was the way i ended it or because i stunk because of my gym shorts, after changing out of them and having a short meal the anxiety went away.

There was another girl before that a bit as i was crossing an intersection, she was dressed quite sexily so i just decided to open as we crossed. She said she was single but wouldn't stop because she said she was in a hurry, perhaps i could of ran along with her... she seemed pretty warm and open, good ec in our passing. She hurried across the street and i kept it going, still in a relatively good mood.

Opened a girl before i got to the gym i said excuse me and she got shocked. To play it off i started laughing because her reaction was legit hilarious and she was like it was a little jarring to hear excuse me(deep voice simulated) she wasn't single but we both kept laughing a bout it and bantered a bit. This gave me some insight into my approaches and this means i have to start pre opening more. I don't pre open at all really its like ill let them see me but now i'll make them see me.

Now there were other approaches but i don't remember them, they prolly followed the same are you single, no. then exit.
 

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Made four approaches and got one number, also re approached another girl and got her number hahahaha.

So first approach was a girl i helped with bake ware. She just seemed open and i had a feeling i should go for it. I asked if she was single and she was and even before this we bantered a bit and made some small talk. Decided to connect more and had her follow me to the desk, i was a bit awkward but i think it worked in my favor of applying social pressure, it was like silence at the right times. For instance she said she was pretty busy and didn't know when she was free so i just said so..... and i couldn't think of anything else so i let it die for a few. Then she responded with when she was free during the week etc. Good vibes as she was leavin and she responded to ice breaker.

Tried one chick, it was just random and i thought she was eyeing me before, she wasn't single but was giggly, they usually get giggly after i ask em out... hmmmm

Asked out another chick i helped with an order. There was sexual tension and i had her follow me in order to isolate her so i could pose the question. She followed me to get the orders and after i handed them off she said yes she was single in a delighted voice but said she might be too young for me. Mind you she was a college freshman so how the fuck old did she think i was hahahhaha. I decided not to persist since it was so open on the isle.

After work i approached a group of two and that was where i re approached that one chick from the beginning of the summer, her friend was cute too but the same girl i had approached before gave me te invitations. She recognized me before i recognized her, and i realized who she was at the very end. She said you look familiar you asked for my number before or something.... I didn't really remember so i said prolly i dunno. I didn't like how she said i asked for her number. no bitch you gave me that shit hmph :mad:

Last girl i approached was near my house. She was smiling at me and so i said hey and she came right over she was very close but i felt no tension, i just asked if she was single and she shook her head no, i let it pause and said well those are some groovy fucking glasses then i began to walk away. They were like yellow and purple jungle cheetah looking glasses, fucking groovy hahaha. She told me where they were from as we were walking away from each other
 

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Today made 4 approaches and got one number. Didn't feel like approaching because I'd been fucking all night then again in the morning before work lol. I was pretty dead and just didn't feel like it but i still pushed myself to approach.

The first 2 was a group of two that I'd just helped at the register, one of them was being really responsive but i didn't pull trigger since there was a coworker nearby. I was actually going on break and caught up with them and i opened one of them because i was curious if she was single. She was and we began to chat but i was just being awkward as fuck hahahaha, like cringe worthy, she said she doesn't give her number out to randoms etc and i was like okay cool *shoulder shrug* then went to go grab some food. My mood always seems to get more boosted after a rejection, I thrive off that shit.

Then there was another group of two that i was helping in the store a bit, both girls seemed a bit interested and when i got out of work since we were closing the second girl who i wasn't as interested in gave me a large smile as i walked towards them, we were outside so i opened her, she wasn't single. Her friend said something about someone and i just shrugged and walked off, i should of just asked the other girl if she was but i didn't. My dad said when he was younger and when he'd talk to groups of girls if one girl would reject he'd just go to the next and it didn't matter if it were 6 girls, cause one of them will want to talk to you.

Last approach I got a number. Crossing the street near this campus i see a shorter girl who's ass looks nice in her yoga pants. She crosses and goes right and waits for the light, i cross and go left. I slow down a bit and realize i'm not doing so i decide to do. I move very slowly and i walk back a bit, the light almost turns for her to walk but i get up next to her and i pre open. I grab her attention by lightly tapping her forearm with a finger to get her looking at me, then i asked if she was single. Her face looked a little confused so i said, i thought you were cute and just wanted to know. After i said that she light up and gave a girly response.
 

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So my post didn't get posted, made 10 approaches got 3 numbers. Don't feel like going over every approach just gonna go for numbers.

First number was in front of a gas station, short haired chick with nice body thought she was lesbian and she was giving many invitations so i just went for it. he was very open and warm. We vibed and chatted a bit and there was banter too. Found out where she went to school and dived a bit on her major. She seemed interested as well and asked where i went. We exchanged numbers and i tried to make it more solidified by chatting a bit more after i got her number. Then we went our separate ways. She complied when i first asked her to stop and she asked my name again at the end of the interaction, maybe thats a good sign?

Second number was a chick who just got out of a relationship. I said cool its only casual here or something like that. We exchanged names and a bit of info but she was in a rush to the pharmacy i had her come and give me her number tried a little more chatting but she had to go. Tried to set up a meet up before she left and she said she dunno when. I gave her a smirk with EC and she held the EC then left.

Last girl was a short girl, I saw her but she was walking sooo fast. I caught up with her in front of the train station and decided to approach. Said i saw you and thought you were cute but you walk too fast! She apologized and we exchanged names and a bit of info. She was single and we exchanged numbers dunno if i tried the date, don't remember. She forgot my name and asked at the end i told her my name and said she lost some points, held EC with a smirk so she knew i was joking and she went off to her cafeteria.
 

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Only made 1 approach and it was the girl from my class. Ended up giving her my number and didn't end up taking hers which was my mistake, I'll outline the approach below.

So today I wore some of my more fashionable clothes. After class I had walked down the hall a bit before realizing I needed to go the other way. As I was walking back towards the direction of my class I see her and we lock eyes. She smiles and breaks her eye contact down. I wait a second because i had smiled myself back at her. I decide to approach, so after she turns the corner and makes it into the stairwell I soon follow. I open her with hey, what did you think of his class?

We chat about the class after we officially exchange names and we talk a bit more. I feel like i'm beating around the bush so i just ask if shes single and she says yes she but she informs me shes not looking for anything serious. I say cool I've never been in anything serious. After that we exchange numbers she gives me her phone instead of me getting her number. We talk a bit more and she says something about relationships then i say something else then she says i thought you'd never been a relationship? I said eh there were quite a bit of casual things some may have been heading towards something more etc. Should of just said i'd observed friends relationships or whatever. We got to the bottom of the stairs and its still good ec and proximity. We talk a bit more and she mentions she goes to my old school and i say really i used to go there, some odd years ago. She said yea, you look really familiar... We talk a bit more and then we split up, I go to the cafeteria and she leaves.

I don't care if she sends me anything or not, just happy that I jumped once i saw the situation.
 

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Made 4 approaches and got two numbers. Been trying not to just randomly approach and only go for it when i get an invitation. Or improving upon my ability to read the invitations.

The first number I got was from a girl from class, she was a cute short Brazilian girl. I had gotten her name last class and just decided to sit next to her this class. Gonna sit next to her once more and play aloof then gonna change seats again. So I just did little pings like jokes etc. Got her laughing used non verbals. I tried to set things up as a oh lets go study together and she was like Oh I'm just so busy this week etc etc. I'n my head i'm like okay time to move on cause i had a feeling she wasn't feeling me. I kept persisting and got her number still sent the text and no response. Not expecting anything from her. Using this right now to get used to talking to women at school!

After class i walked to the gym, saw a girl dressed rather skimpy she had on short shorts, just asked if she was single and she wasn't. I didn't really care that was just to help get the momentum going and it looked like she wanted some dick, meh guess not from me hahaha.

Saw this really cute girl, kinda albino looking and was just overwhelmed with the desire to go talk to her. I said hey got a sec and she hooked in, she was warm and i asked if she was single, she wasn't and took a step back. I said i was soo curious i had to know with sexual undertones, I gotta go back to making things sexual hahaha. After that kinda just let it fizzle and went on my way.

Got the number from this chick outside of the library of a different school. Talked to her for a few minutes and she had to go study so we couldn't go on an instant date. I had her hold my protein shake while I got my phone from my bag, the way she held it showed she was annoyed it was pretty funny hahahaha. I originally asked her to open it while i grab my phone but she didn't and just held it there... it was quite funny. Grabbed her number after exchanging names and a bit of info and then we separated, I could also tell she wanted to end the interaction early.

Another girl i approached was as I was walking from my school after going to one of the offices. I saw her as she was coming and and said hey as she got closer to me and then said got a sec? She said yea sure wattsup. I said I just have to know if your single, I'm so curious... She wasn't single and i just shrugged and kept it moving. Meh idk I gotta get to using a sexual vibe more!

Last girl I approached was around where i live, I walked past this other train station close to home. I saw her and she looked at me and I looked back and held it. Without skipping a beat I said hey, she said hi. I asked if she was single, She said that she had a boyfriend but was still very attracted as we held EC and she stood a bit longer wanting me to go further. I said shame and continued walking. Here i actually used my sexy vibe, it's something i forgot and need to keep going.
 

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Made a couple approaches got a number or two but nothing came out. Focusing on improving my approaches and going back to read some articles its been about 3 months since i've sat down and just read some. Hopefully reading will provide more insights. Like before i was getting numbers and dates I think i may have gotten a reputation around one of the schools cause i talk to a lot o girls in that area.... I gotta change up my opener and how i transition my conversation. I have a lot to work on and i want to work more on my walk, I got some work to do!!!!
 

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Made four approaches today.

First approach was as i was heading to work, saw a girl looking down thought she could have her day brightened up a bit. So after she walked by me i said hey, excuse me. She turned around and said yes. I said your so very pretty it came out jumbled so i acted it out a bit so it was funny then proceeded to say that she was pretty and i was curious if she was single. She wasn't and it seems like whenever i ask girls if they are single now they grow cold. Gonna stop using it. She wasn't single and i didn't grab her number but i left her with a smile.

Next girl was one from work, she seemed really open and interested. I had already decided I wouldn't approach today and i made the decision earlier to stop asking if they are single. So when the opportunity was there i let it pass but i later regretted it and ended up trying to talk to her when i saw her in a different room. She was still warm, i asked if she was single and she was but she said she wasn't looking for anything cause she just got outa a three year relationship. I didn't push further cause i felt like it was a polite rejection and one of my bosses was walking near by, although her body language was a bit open.

The last approach was a group of two, i saw them as my job as closing and they were the last customers. I Noticed this girl and I wanted to approach her because i just liked the look of her and i knew i had to do something. Since i was leaving i waited a bit, they got a good distance and i casually strolled out following the same path as them which was pretty much the same way i was going. They were both walking and as they got to the corner to cross which was a bit of a distance away. I caught up to them and she had glanced over once i got there. I looked back as we were crossing and opened as we walk. I said something like i had to tell you your fucking gorgeous I mean I wanted to when i saw you but i was t and you know blah blah. She said she couldn't understand because i was talking too fast. It was a normal pace but she is foreign. I introduce myself and she does the same. She asks if i'm a student and i say yes. Her friend is involved too because i asked where she was from and her friend was like shes not from here etc. Her friend was warm too not bitchy. So they make me guess, i guess Germany which is wrong, I engage her friend and tell her to just tell me; then she asks the girl i want if she should tell me then they tell me she is from Russia! We banter a bit i state my intentions like i want to grab a coffee or something with you. She asks if i'm a student, I say yes, she asks where then I tell them to guess. They go with this game and get it wrong about 6 times i tell them you don't know it hahaha. The Russian girl makes a joke about not liking me cause im not a Harvard student. I said something and she didn't think i realized i knew she was joking and she was kidding. I said i knew and said shes a gold digger. She made a face and said no and i started laughing. We get to the next next street we had crossed two streets while talking. I tell them I'm going left and i guess they are going right they said yea we are. We post up around the corner and talk. I try to set stuff up but she doesn't have a phone. We banter about her not having a phone and shes all like my friends haven't reminded me! I open my phone to get her name and she clicks my wordpad which is where i keep my records for the snatch tourney. She sees my stuff briefly before i go like no this isn't what we want. I open an ie and she enters her name. During this time i talk to her friend a bit, I got her friends name and where shes from and their majors too. The girl i want says something about her being a nerd after she says her major and i say something to the effect of nah you cant beat me. She seems confused so i say i have a star wars poster in my bedroom. She says she has a star wars tee shirt and i check her out. I say i have a star wars magnet. She says she has a star wars dress. I bring out the finisher and say I have star wars boxers. Her friend is dying throughout this interaction. We talk a bit more and i bid them a good day. Now i fuck up and don't enter her name in so its not saved in my searches. I decide to go back and get it again. I had to jog across the street and shout a bit. I tell her it didn't save and she says what are you a crazy man blah blah. I give her my phone and she says she can just add her from my phone so extra investment on her part. We are kinda in the middle of the street and her friend calls out to us about a car. I move her by gently placing my hand on her arm and guiding her back a bit. She's fiddling with the phone and some people she know passes and i just remain aloof, she still has my phone and hasn't moved but did recognize her friends. Now whenever we make eye contact she cant hold it for more than two seconds before she glances down and she was making really feminine non verbals. I left after getting her name entered. Gonna add her tomorrow also i forgot to say that i told them i don't have a facebook or don't use it or something like that. We shall see.
 

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Made two approaches got one number.

First approach was in a train station packed with people. After not taking action when i decided to approach i began to get nervous and a little anxious. Only reason i approached this girl was because she gave proximity and then she opened up and glanced back at me. Perhaps i waited a bit too long, maybe i did. I moved forward so i was side by side with her then i taped her. I dont think i preopened correctly. I said something like your cute, you single? She didn't hear me and leaned in then i repeated it much more confidently. She said no she wasn't but was visibly excited. I persisted a bit and we exchanged names. I made a little bit more small talk as i could see she wanted to put her headphones in. Then i kinda just stopped talking and stood there. Eventually the train came but it was too packed so i just chilled then found some seats further down.

Second approach was at the same place as the first prolly a few minutes later, saw a girl sitting by her lonesome on the far end and there was space on the bench. I went over since i didn't feel like standing and chilled there. A train came and she got up for a second then sat back down. After a couple of seconds i said what not your train? She couldn't hear me cause well the train was going by. I said it again when the train had left. She had gotten up and came over to me to hear what i said. I said something else then said she was cute. Then we exchanged names. She was visibly nervous and still standing so i told her to sit. It took her a second to sit but when she did she created some distance and she was shaking, prolly nervous. I said hahaha you don't have to be so nervous i'm not a rapist or something. She said i know i know its just this feels weird. This was after i asked for her number. She didn't want to exchange it and i said huh how does it feel weird blah blah. Perhaps i got too logical, she began giving me less for responses so i began to get more aloof eventually i just stopped talking to her. I made a comment when the train came again and she responded, it was more of just trying stuff and seeing what happened. Eventually after a couple of trains mines came and she got up after me, i said something about exchanging numbers but she was a no go, so i just kinda left it.

Last approach i got a number and i didn't ask if she was single! I had just gotten out of the gym and i see this chick walking and my god her titties were jiggly i fucking loved it. I walk a bit and she comes up on my right side and i open her. I said something like hey your cute, whats your name. We exchange names and i say what are you up to. Shes heading to the cvs a few stores down. I say to meet your boyfriend? She says no. I say cool, then i make a bit of fluff talk asking her major and her grade. Shes a bit skeptical and is walking faster then me and i bring out i know i know its random, etc. I was just going off maybe a bit too entertainer/high energy. She began to slow down and walk at my pace. We get near the cvs and i say I'm not going inside the cvs and she stops and turns around. We create a bubble and we exchange numbers. I try to get a date she says she doesn't know. So I said so how about a Tuesday, a Wednesday , Friday, i basically listed everyday cause i found it funny hahahaha. She said lets settle on Saturday, I'm free then. I say cool what time, she says she doesn't know and i give her this reaction that makes her giggle. perhaps im rewarding bad behavior. I turn and walk away after without persisting with the time and she says it was nice meeting me, I don't know if i said likewise or not.
 

Raqimus

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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made a couple of approaches, i've begun to pick up on when a girl isn't available. There was one girl on the street that I could of persisted more with but i had no phone or pen. I could of worked around it but i was lazy, I will try harder. I can open a girl when i feel like it gotta get the sexual aspect of it down. I just want sex so thats what i gotta do and im getting used to telling people what to do etc, to get compliance.
 

Raqimus

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hey, haven't had a computer so I haven't been posting. Haven't done much approaching because I'm at a point where I feel like i need to stop for a bit because my approaches are shit. I approach ask if they are single etc. I need to change that and I'm cutting out the are you single.

Also been feeling like a bitch too, Three hot girls gave invitations i took none of them. It's funny too i'm dressed shitty, like super shitty and i get invitations maybe my fundamentals are good. I have to figure out how to approach and lead the conversation the way I want it to, while also conveying that sexual element without asking if they are single.

Gonna list em out.
First was as I was walking down the stairs at the subway station. We both notice each other, she notices me as i walk down, her as she comes up the stairs from getting off the train. She stares as her lips part. An invitation yes, and I just don't feel like it.

The next I'm not sure was an invitation but I'm gonna assume. I was walking down the street and two lovely ladies having fun, I get a hair flip from a stunning girl with a very nice figure and face, and her friends chasing her same thing. I don't approach because I was unsure if they were younger. Can't really tell these days but I could of asked and I didn't. They ended up walking onto one of the campuses nearby so I guess they were college students.

The last was as I was coming out of my old school. I was walking out of the campus and i spot a blonde chick across the way, past the green pasture and shes walking on the street with a friend in the same direction I'm going. As soon as I first spot her a hair flip. I'm walking out and i get to the street and shes just crossing the street in front of me and my god her ass was amazing. Leggings that could barely contain it and an ass so round topped of with a thong. Another hair flip and I just cross with them too. So they are crossed and waiting to cross again, I'm a few feet away also waiting to cross again. I look over and she does one of those things where she pretends too look around but shes checking you out. She does so with her lips parted and then does a hair flip. I should of approached but I didn't she had an amazing figure.

So looking aback I've been really lazy and masturbating since my last fuckbuddy dropped from the race. I'm slowly regaining that hunger and lust to approach I just need to act on it smartly. In a way that was unlike how I did before. I still remember this one approach I did, the best I'd ever done, nothing came from it. But, I need to put that level of effort into each approach, and I can't half ass it. Just a reminder to myself. Still don't have my computer back yet so I'll still try to post some stuff!
 
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