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{REAL} Conversations With Chase (Part 1): STDs

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Hello People,

Read on.

If you guys like it. I have part 2.

Chase,

You know, I notice a pattern of people with STDs. Unfortunate that one of our guys caught em with finger wound.

1)Open wound
2)Sketchy People
3)Gays

Simply, like you mention:

1)Be non judgemental
2)Don't go crazy places too much or fuck crazy if possible.

And my last one, I add to your ideas
3)Go CELIBATE when open wound

The human body is quite something else. It can do crazy things for you but not too crazy without repecursions if not careful.

Zac,

Yeah, 95% of the time it's one of those cases (open wound, sketchy folks, homosexuals... and homosexuals tend to very often both do sketchy things and have open wounds in their anal/genital areas).

You can eliminate most of your risk factor by a.) sticking to girls you meet via day game / no online, no nightlife, b.) screening women for wild/loose behavior.

And yeah, of course, if you have an open wound, don't shag till it's healed.

Got to screen social circle girls too. Guys tend to trust them more because "she's in my social circle, I'm sure she's safe" or "I've known her forever, she must be clean" which is not how that works. Every girl is in some guy's social circle and has some guy she's known ages... including girls with every disease imaginable. I know two guys who shagged tons of girls from cold approach without problems but caught chlamydia by shagging girls from their social circles or whom they'd known a long time. In both cases, they assumed the girl was safe, raw dogged her, and caught clap.

People will tell themselves whatever disease they have is "not that big a deal" or "s/he won't catch it from me" and will downplay, minimize, or hide it. So you can't really rely on this person telling you.

Just have to look for risk factors.

And you never get to 100% safety. There's always that random sweet girl with two lifetime partners who's never had a one-night stand but whose unfaithful boyfriend gave her herpes. That's always sad for that girl.

But most of the time the folks with this stuff have obvious risk factors you can avoid... if you're careful.

Then again, when it's 3 AM and you're drunk and this hot girl is all over you, it can be pretty darn tempting to go raw on her in the back alley behind the dumpster.

So there's that...

Chase,

Thank you. :)

I forget to share with you. Thing to note, since related to this social circle thing.

One of my biggest REDPILL moments is when a girl whose the nicest girl or likeable girl among our social circle.

And she turn up for one of our events.

Suddenly I am no longer the Zac, the friendly nice guy of the past. Just decent and better than before.

She was making moves on me the entire time there and I was like "I never seen her like that". It makes my guy friend awkward that I have to diffuse the tension.

Funny enough, a week or two, I found out her boyfriend went travel overseas, and just return back.

Quite profound, that the start and then there's others stacking.

So yea...

I love you Chase but I can never see women as before. Because she can be beautiful, greatly educated, whatever (https://www.girlschase.com/content/mans- ... -jadedness)

But i kind of taste how bitter cheese can be when spoilt. If that makes sense. Not judging women, yea.
 
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