Realizing Your Dream

[Kyuu]

Hey, Kyuu here, and I've got a question for the denizens of GirlsChase.

What are you guys' dreams? I hear a lot that dating and pick up and the like become easier as a side effect of having a dream, something that you strive to achieve above all else.
I'm curious, as I don't really have a dream myself. It may be attributed to me being a young, tender, youthful 18 years of age (not much life experience, I guess?), or maybe it's just something I haven't put enough thought into (even though I have!). Either way, people talk about their dreams, and I think "What do they mean? Like, a career? What you plan on doing after school, or after college?" But the way it's described on here, a dream is....a goal? Something more than a career, but could also be a career, or could just be something you wanted to do. It's rather vague, but I'm floundering and I digress.

So, what are you guys' dreams? When did you realize them? What was your process for realizing this dream? And how has realizing them affected your life? All answers are helpful, and may help others realize their dreams too.


~Kyuu

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Kyuu,

I hear a lot that dating and pick up and the like become easier as a side effect of having a dream, something that you strive to achieve above all else.
I'm curious, as I don't really have a dream myself. It may be attributed to me being a young, tender, youthful 18 years of age (not much life experience, I guess?), or maybe it's just something I haven't put enough thought into (even though I have!). Either way, people talk about their dreams, and I think "What do they mean? Like, a career? What you plan on doing after school, or after college?" But the way it's described on here, a dream is....a goal? Something more than a career, but could also be a career, or could just be something you wanted to do. It's rather vague, but I'm floundering and I digress.

I would think what they mean from here, is that you need to have to know what is that you want, from all this knowledge you have learn from GirlsChase blog.

Maybe you want to do this things in your life?

- Find a new girlfriend
- Find a girl who wears high heels all the time
- Date girls with mini-skirts or short shorts
- Make a lot of girl friends
- Bed two hundred women
- Have more passion in your dating life

By having some of the example set of what is that you want, you naturally work towards the desired outcome, mainly because it becomes a part of you to want to own that desire.

At the moment, I am working on everything from my conversation to my body language. The Getting laid is something that is not in my mind. I'm more concern with getting data points and make things smooth.

What's yours?

Zac

 

[Light]

To know what your own dreams are, you must first realise what your values are in life. We all have a set of hierachy of values (total of 7), and they shift with time. Some awesome knowledge here by Dr John Demartini: https://drdemartini.com/value_determination

If I asked you: "What is the most important thing in your life?"
I would guess that your answer would be like most people: "Family"
I used to think it was Family too, but I was wrong.. this is what we THINK is most important to us.. after all.. it should be right?

It took me a while to realise that the most important thing that was above family to me was "Freedom".
An example: I hated people telling me what to do, and when I should do it, and that includes parents telling me that.
I love Travelling, and writing music.

One of my dream is to eventually travel the world and see every great wonders there is, and have my own music album composed by myself.

But to fulfill these dreams, you must set Goals in your life which you must aim to achieve. And it is exactly the results of these goals, which allows you to feel more successful, satisfied, confident, happy, ambitious, clear on what you want in life... ALL of which are by products / side effects of the quality needed as a man for picking up girls.

Simply put, when you become such a man with a dream, and you are doing whatever you can to achieve your dreams and passion, you automatically attract girls to you!