LR Rebound and Layup

[Bboy100]

So this was kind of an interesting date. We met up for drinks at a bar. She's 37 and I'm 22. This is by far the oldest women I've ever been on a date with. I feel like we already knew what this was at the start. Cause lets be honest, almost no 37 year old women wants a boyfriend who's 22. She just wants to fuck.

Unfortuntely, I wasn't making it easy for her LOL. For whatever reason, my anxiety kicked in that day. I was super nervous, timid and kind of well...bland at the start. I made quite a few conversational errors. Luckily, for some reason, this girl was fucking determined. She did pretty much all the heavy lifting in conversation.

She was actually quite the tomboy. Pretty much her entire life was hockey. She both ran tournaments and played. Her idea of a good time was watching the game and drinking beers. She goes out with almost exclusively guys. Cause girls are "too much drama". She was very dominant and assertive. I actually felt pretty weak around her. It was a pretty weird feeling. One I hadn't had on a date in a long time lol.

By the end of the date, we were making out pretty heavily. But she had already planned to meet her friends for trivia (she told me this before the date started, so I knew its not a lie). So I couldn't pull. We had already made plans for "brunch" in a few days. Cause neither of us had time in our schedules for anything else.

This was unacceptable. Going from "heavily making out/clearly wanting to fuck" to "brunch" just seems retarded. Plus, even if we did get brunch, it wouldn't lead anywhere because I had work in a few hours after we were supposed to meet.

Later that night, she was texting me about how she got second place in her Trivia game. My response:
Me: I see the start of a new career here. You'll become a millionaire off winning all the trivia game shows in no time [laughing emoji]
Her: Right?? Lol [laughing emoji] I mean who doesn't love "cash & prizes"
Me: Lol tbh, I had to urbandictionary that. But I like the sound of it [Red devil face emoji] <---"Cash and Prizes" as defined on UD is in reference to genitalia.
Her: Hahaha, I didn't actually mean the UD version when I wrote it, but now that I see it I kind of like that even better [laughing emoji] [closed mouth smile emoji]
Me: Well in that case, I'd be down to come over if you're not too tired
Her: Don't tempt me [closed mouth smile emoji] I am pretty tired and need to go to bed in 30 min, but maybe late tomorrow or sat night [winking emoji]
Me: Ok, works for me. Let me know [Kissing emoji]

[Next Saturday @ 1:45 AM]
Her: Still wanna come over? [Winking emoji]
Me: Sure, jut give me like 15 mins to get ready and ill be omw

The rest was just logistical texts. Went over to her place and smashed. Obviously no resistance.

Still not really sure why this girl was into me given my horrible date. Cause despite her age, she was actually pretty hot. She no doubt had options.

 

[TheEcho]

Great job, Bboy! Just try to run through as many details as you can to piece apart what to not do/what to do. Like the girls from my latest FU and LR, both seemed ready to go from the start; sometimes you just do it for a girl by being who you are. The better you develop your fundamentals (voice, eye contact, touch, movement, walk, facial expressions), the more you'll just "do it" for more women.

Sslay, that tip sounds phenomenal, I definitely am going to start doing that. I have this strange trend of being rather bland/polite with new girls after a FU, I feel this would nix that pretty well. Couple questions though, first, how do you go about this without turning yourself on so much, the temptation to masturbate is smashing down your door? Obviously you want a more secluded place, but I'm worried what may happen if I replay my lays, while I'm home alone. Then, how can you do this without wrecking yourself with the feelings that come with the fact those girls have left your life? (assuming you would rather have had them still be in your life). Thanks man!

Take care, guys!

-Josh

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

 

[Bboy100]

Slay,

And maybe this is your problem? Each day try and dedicate some time into visualizing your past seductions. Really visualize it in detail and remind yourself how good you are with girls.

Yep. This is something I struggle with a lot. I go from periods of feeling like I'm really good with women, to thinking idk wtf I'm doing. I actually already do visualizations & meditation. It also helps to physically write this stuff down on a daily basis. Honestly, I think that as I continue down my path, this will become less and less of a problem. I was a virgin till I was 20. Now I'm about to turn 23. And I didn't start to consistently get laid till I was 21. And I didn't start to feel confident that ik what I'm doing till 4 or 5 months ago. So even if I'm being liberal, "two years" of success might not have been enough to reprogram the previous 20 years of what I at the time perceived as "failure". Ik I read somewhere that self-esteem and self-perception can lag by as long as five years. So even though I objectively might be doing pretty well now, it still might take a while for my internal image to completely catch up.

Hector,

Btw, in honor of your recent article, I should mention that my hands were inseparable from her ass while was making out with her at the end of the first date

 

[readjusting]

BBoy,
Great job on this one. You clearly captured on the opportunity at the bar.

Still not really sure why this girl was into me given my horrible date. Cause despite her age, she was actually pretty hot. She no doubt had options.

My reaction was the same as erpiaosn's. If she was sold right on the start, just be yourself should be enough.

Props on the easy lays, BBoy - you've earned 'em. Many more to come!

CKTC

 

[Big Daddy]

Haha, fun read.

How did you meet/approach her?

 

[Bboy100]

How did you meet/approach her?

I met her via Tinder