Hi everyone,
Before I dig into the questions themselves, a bit of background about myself. I was introduced to this community 3 ~ years ago when I split up with a long term girlfriend of mine (highschool love). I picked up quite a few things quite quickly and I actually started getting decent especially at the social circle stuff and had women chasing after me which was quite funny and ego-flattering. And at that point, I again went into a relationship (slightly against Chase's advice). Long story short, it was very fun in the beginning and I absolutely loved it, but eventually I realised that I missed the experiences that I had gotten in between those 2 relationships(which to be fair were really nothing that spectacular compared to what most of you have done) and things kind of ended 3 weeks ago.
So, now I'm trying to pick myself up again and get back into the 'game'. Started rereading some of the old articles, started working on my fundamentals again and etc.... Went out a few times at night game (Day game is something I really want to do, but haven't grown the balls to yet) had a few good interactions (no lays), a few failures and some LMR situations. The thing is though - I still am at that post-break up stage where its like I have a bi-polar disorder - from super happy to sad (not super sad, but you know what I mean) which really kills my mood at times. I really need to hook up with someone to get my confidence back up.
To speed up things, I've decided that it would be of great benefit to me to do one of these workshops/bootcamps/crashcourses and get back on track ASAP. However, I have no clue which ones are good, which are fake and what's really a good value for money. I'm ready to invest into this both with my time and my cash, but I want to make sure I get my money's worth
I'm currently living in London and my first question really is: can you recommend any upcoming bootcamps/workshops?
Secondly, the other thing I'm kind of struggling with is that most of my friends are now in relationships. I have a few single buddies scattered around Europe, but I'm finding it a bit difficult in London. So my 2nd question is - what would you recommend in terms of finding a 'wingman' or even better a mentor/buddy around here?. I really think this will further expedite my development and I also feel I have a lot to bring from a value perspective in multiple ways.
Thanks in advance for any help!
Before I dig into the questions themselves, a bit of background about myself. I was introduced to this community 3 ~ years ago when I split up with a long term girlfriend of mine (highschool love). I picked up quite a few things quite quickly and I actually started getting decent especially at the social circle stuff and had women chasing after me which was quite funny and ego-flattering. And at that point, I again went into a relationship (slightly against Chase's advice). Long story short, it was very fun in the beginning and I absolutely loved it, but eventually I realised that I missed the experiences that I had gotten in between those 2 relationships(which to be fair were really nothing that spectacular compared to what most of you have done) and things kind of ended 3 weeks ago.
So, now I'm trying to pick myself up again and get back into the 'game'. Started rereading some of the old articles, started working on my fundamentals again and etc.... Went out a few times at night game (Day game is something I really want to do, but haven't grown the balls to yet) had a few good interactions (no lays), a few failures and some LMR situations. The thing is though - I still am at that post-break up stage where its like I have a bi-polar disorder - from super happy to sad (not super sad, but you know what I mean) which really kills my mood at times. I really need to hook up with someone to get my confidence back up.
To speed up things, I've decided that it would be of great benefit to me to do one of these workshops/bootcamps/crashcourses and get back on track ASAP. However, I have no clue which ones are good, which are fake and what's really a good value for money. I'm ready to invest into this both with my time and my cash, but I want to make sure I get my money's worth
I'm currently living in London and my first question really is: can you recommend any upcoming bootcamps/workshops?Secondly, the other thing I'm kind of struggling with is that most of my friends are now in relationships. I have a few single buddies scattered around Europe, but I'm finding it a bit difficult in London. So my 2nd question is - what would you recommend in terms of finding a 'wingman' or even better a mentor/buddy around here?. I really think this will further expedite my development and I also feel I have a lot to bring from a value perspective in multiple ways.
Thanks in advance for any help!
