Gentlemen,
So I went on a retreat with some friends to the woods. And we spent a lot of time conversing. These are very cool dudes 'naturals' with whom I have intimate relationships with. We shared our thoughts on women, how to get laid more, our 'tricks' and the likes. And lately I've noticed I have quite a handful of women chasing me. This is due to a recent internal shift - but more on that later.
I want to highlight a very important 'behaviour' pattern that I've recently caught myself doing subconsciously. See, where before I was always concerned with "how can I make this girl like me" it'd force me to always be 'gaming' or chasing her. I lead the conversations, the physicality, I'd text her to setup dates, and basically the girl would just stand there while I pulled out every book in the trick. This would generate very little success. But recently, I've internally shifted. My priorities shifted. See for the past 2 years I've been breathing, eating, sleeping, dreaming about pick-up and women. I was continually trying to make myself more attractive, in her eyes, and pulling techniques to try to get women to like me. And if it didn't work, I'd try something else. I was hitting women with a thousand different things and leaving her no space to chase me. And therein lied the answer to an abundance of hot women.
I came to the realization that women cannot be the center of my life. I am now focusing on working out, school, and trying to start a business while in college. Women have kind of taken a backseat to my 'mission'. I'm more centered in my values, what I want out of life and who I am as a person. I project enormous energy towards life because I am really passionate about the things going on in my life. While I actively try to find women to date, the process is a whole lot different.
There's this feeling inside me that's really hard to describe. Chase has never touched on it but it is all over self-development and spiritual forums. It feels like a surge of masculinity. It is most prominent when I squat heavily, when I do something bold and risky, when I compete, and perform other 'manly' tasks. When I hang out with my buddies and we are all being completely authentic and real, the feeling arises out of all of us. It's a feeling of genuinity, warmth, positive energy but also very grounded and assertive. A lot of my friends that get laid a lot and have very good success with women are overwhelmed with this feeling. I can pinpoint it in people now and I think is the secret to getting women.
Women can smell it. And you can't fake it. If you watch this video of Will Smith, you'll see how it pours out of him.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5nVqeVhgQE
You won't know what I'm talking about unless you have experienced it yourself. It is a feeling of complete non-neediness, masculinity, confidence and a sense of 'being'. No tricks, no ego, no nothing. They say you have to meditate to achieve this but with enough hard work you'll get to it. When people say 'that person is cool/chill' they are referring to that feeling. It is a state of coolness. You're completely outside of your head and in your body. You feel good, you feel GREAT. Energized, positive, happy. If you've ever done adderall, cocaine, or molly - that's the same feeling on a more intensified level. The first time you talked to a girl, got off a very scary ride, or did something very bold you probably got the same feeling. You just wanna stretch your arms, lean back, spread your legs and let out a scream. That's pure raw masculinity and women fucking crave this.
When athletes are in the zone, this is that feeling. How you cultivate that feeling, it is a tricky task. When you're very motivated, you get a similar feeling. Learn to self-generate and cultivate this feeling is the key to drawing women to your life. This is why pick-up artists pump their state and do other silly things. To generate this feeling. I generate it through working out, learning, approaching, and do things that resonate with what I see myself as. But you might be a little different than me. Good luck.
So I went on a retreat with some friends to the woods. And we spent a lot of time conversing. These are very cool dudes 'naturals' with whom I have intimate relationships with. We shared our thoughts on women, how to get laid more, our 'tricks' and the likes. And lately I've noticed I have quite a handful of women chasing me. This is due to a recent internal shift - but more on that later.
I want to highlight a very important 'behaviour' pattern that I've recently caught myself doing subconsciously. See, where before I was always concerned with "how can I make this girl like me" it'd force me to always be 'gaming' or chasing her. I lead the conversations, the physicality, I'd text her to setup dates, and basically the girl would just stand there while I pulled out every book in the trick. This would generate very little success. But recently, I've internally shifted. My priorities shifted. See for the past 2 years I've been breathing, eating, sleeping, dreaming about pick-up and women. I was continually trying to make myself more attractive, in her eyes, and pulling techniques to try to get women to like me. And if it didn't work, I'd try something else. I was hitting women with a thousand different things and leaving her no space to chase me. And therein lied the answer to an abundance of hot women.
I came to the realization that women cannot be the center of my life. I am now focusing on working out, school, and trying to start a business while in college. Women have kind of taken a backseat to my 'mission'. I'm more centered in my values, what I want out of life and who I am as a person. I project enormous energy towards life because I am really passionate about the things going on in my life. While I actively try to find women to date, the process is a whole lot different.
There's this feeling inside me that's really hard to describe. Chase has never touched on it but it is all over self-development and spiritual forums. It feels like a surge of masculinity. It is most prominent when I squat heavily, when I do something bold and risky, when I compete, and perform other 'manly' tasks. When I hang out with my buddies and we are all being completely authentic and real, the feeling arises out of all of us. It's a feeling of genuinity, warmth, positive energy but also very grounded and assertive. A lot of my friends that get laid a lot and have very good success with women are overwhelmed with this feeling. I can pinpoint it in people now and I think is the secret to getting women.
Women can smell it. And you can't fake it. If you watch this video of Will Smith, you'll see how it pours out of him.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5nVqeVhgQE
You won't know what I'm talking about unless you have experienced it yourself. It is a feeling of complete non-neediness, masculinity, confidence and a sense of 'being'. No tricks, no ego, no nothing. They say you have to meditate to achieve this but with enough hard work you'll get to it. When people say 'that person is cool/chill' they are referring to that feeling. It is a state of coolness. You're completely outside of your head and in your body. You feel good, you feel GREAT. Energized, positive, happy. If you've ever done adderall, cocaine, or molly - that's the same feeling on a more intensified level. The first time you talked to a girl, got off a very scary ride, or did something very bold you probably got the same feeling. You just wanna stretch your arms, lean back, spread your legs and let out a scream. That's pure raw masculinity and women fucking crave this.
When athletes are in the zone, this is that feeling. How you cultivate that feeling, it is a tricky task. When you're very motivated, you get a similar feeling. Learn to self-generate and cultivate this feeling is the key to drawing women to your life. This is why pick-up artists pump their state and do other silly things. To generate this feeling. I generate it through working out, learning, approaching, and do things that resonate with what I see myself as. But you might be a little different than me. Good luck.
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