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Reformed spam approacher confession

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Space Monkey
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So I have recently achieved spam approaching masterclass, where I did about 2,000 approaches in one month (only getting 15 dates). Some people might say 15 days a month is not bad, but 2000 approaches is insane, it's so bad in fact, that I have actually burnt the subway station. Can you imagine that?

A subway station that has the bandwidth of more than 100,000 people a day. So anyway after extensively reading Hector Castillo's the game materials, and other authors on this website, I have completely recalibrated my approaches to be slow, tailored to every individual girl, a bit more raw - so it doesn't look like I'm doing this every fucking day. Basically I switched from trying to not lose and move away from rejections as soon as possible to playing for the win. in 2 days I approached maybe 50 girls in total getting 14 numbers. It took me combined 10 hours, yes I still use the same Championship mentality that I used getting 2000 approaches.

I know their dreams, I know if they like their life, I know what they were doing, I got about 5 to 7 Dates set up.

Now I understand what everybody was talking about when they said that 2,000 approaches is insane, I will never go back to that, because I see that when I have the vibe of asking a quick question and running away, I will never go deep enough with the most girls so they open up to the idea of the date with me.

I thought about this all wrong. I thought they only need to see my face to decide whether or not they want to go on a date, where as in reality you can create this attraction with most girls. Even the girls who are married or have boyfriends had much brighter reactions to me, much more warm.

and a lot of them seem very attracted to me actually. The next thing I'm doing is switching out my dates where I followed the same principle - if she doesn't touch me right away, I go home. I will now create that attraction because before that I never even thought of doing it.
 

KJ Francis

Cro-Magnon Man
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I am still impressed and wouldn't consider it a wasted month whatsoever. If anything you probably rooted out every drop of approach anxiety and desensitized yourself to beauty.

You are very lucky to be in such a high volume city with subways available in the winter. I have heard the subway system there is very beautiful too.

If you keep refinining the process incrementally with that kind of input funnel, you are going to go really far!
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

James D

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Sounds like things are shaping up pretty nicely man!

Glad to hear how you ramped up the quality of your approaches to up your consistency.

Man I just approached this super beautiful chick and number closed her.

She was soooooo nice.

I'm pretty sure it's a law of the universe at this point that really beautiful chicks tend to be the nicest gals out there.

Have you encountered that yet?
 

thats_a_penis_disgustang

Space Monkey
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Well I'm in Russia so old girls here would be at least eight for a Westerner. And the girls who are hot here would be at the level of Victoria's Secret top models. And since I limited my amount of approaches by about 5 to 10 times less, I make sure that I only approach the hottest ones. Since my bandwidth did not change from spam approaching if my Approach has to have much more energy sincerity and has to last longer, I need much more time to recover from it. The time that I coincidentally spend on looking for the hottest girls in a huge stream of people. So it's a win-win-win situation
 

KJ Francis

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@Marty aren't you in Moscow too? I think you guys should meet... The gentleman and the rascal.
 

Sidhrnsksijf

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Dude, awesome job!

I think only a couple hundred or a couple thousands guys have ever approached that many girls in their life.

You did THAT, in only one month. 60+ appraoches a day is wild

The NBA has 500 players and the olympics only have 300 gold medals up for grabs.

You accomplished peak human achievment in approach volume

If there was a world record for approaches per month, you'd definitly be in contention.

The best part is, that can never be taken from you. You can always remind yourself, "yeah, I did that, I'm hot shit".

Very inspiring and good luck on your journey TAPD, I look forward to watching it.
 

thats_a_penis_disgustang

Space Monkey
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Thank you so much brother, it does feel very lonely since I'm in Russia and I only read girls chase. I have no way of comparing myself to anybody else I just do this year after year. I think the peak of human achievement is to be able to instant date a girl every time you go out, and then have sex with virtually every girl you date. See if you absolutely don't have to work, and you can dedicate your whole life to this you can practically have sex with four five girls a week. I think that is a peak of human achievements in this area. And before I have a family and children, and a very much want children, I want to achieve that
 

Marty

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@Marty aren't you in Moscow too? I think you guys should meet... The gentleman and the rascal.
Nope, sadly, though I try to go to Russia at least once a year now. I lived there first in the early '00s and again a few years later, but had left by the time I joined the Girls Chase forum.

I'd be very happy to meet up with the gentleman with a colorful forum handle next time I visit! :giggle:
 
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