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Reinstating Social Media

hey_lover

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As part of my new years resolution, I deleted all social media and it was easily the best decision of my life. However, it has proved to be an issue with younger girls who have mentioned that it was suspicious I didn't have social media. I stated my reasons but I feel like with the already precarious nature of cold approach daygame, it's maybe an additional and unnecessary obstacle I am placing in front of success. In the past, I would often prefer Insta exchanges, as I had a decent following and page, and it would make a girl far more comfortable meeting again. You almost want them to be able to stalk you out and find out you are not a danger to her.

Without social media, girls no longer have this option and with it being so ingrained in society, especially younger women, it's understandable that they view it with suspicion. It's almost like saying you don't drink water and it's appearing to be quite jarring for the girls.

So I'm considering re-instating social media but I'm curious what others think?
 

Elliot

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@hey_lover Man I've been pondering this myself and honestly if it's valuable enough to gain social proof through having on online presence, it's worth the shot. The challenge is moderating usage and having the self discipline for social media to become an asset in your life , not a distraction that details your results..

It's up to you but I wanted to offer the opinion..
 

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Start a professional page who generates income. Sporadically post personal photos there.

Win win.
Interesting that is were I am leaning towards, what I don't get everything that could be low value on my social media is there and I still get ping on Instagram and Facebook
 
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