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Relationship expectations

Aramis

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Hi all,

I have just read Chase's article on relationship expectations:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/...some-impulsiveness-and-set-some-these-instead

Unfortunately this is one I had never read before, and Chase's description of what not to do matches everything I have done so far with a girl I have been seeing for over a month. I have travelled a long distance to see her twice, I have met all her friends and we have had some long phone and text conversations. It has certainly felt like a honeymoon period. She has complained about ex-boyfriends not showing enough interest, and in my ignorance I have tried to be an exception.

Is it possible to affect a regression and have another chance one month in? Only today I have not responded to her messages, and only returned her call this evening after waiting a few hours. I imagine I need to be subtle and move slowly in investing less? I fear it may be too late and I am already fighting against the good feelings I have overprovided in the first month.

Thank you to anyone for any advice they have.
 
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