Reputation issues and how can i overcome this?

[SaltyT]

Lot of people including my pals and people i dont know very well tend to give me their comments of how good i look, mostly because my Big physique (Tall and Muscular, not very ripped) while most of the men here are just 5'9-5'10 fts tall i'm 6'2, Guys always tell me i should take advantage of this because i get soooo many looks nowadays (at partys, street, college, etc...)

but hey listen, i study st 2 hrs from my hometown at Latinamerica, here it's so small most f the people know at least who you are (specially if you fcked up somehow the gossips fly like hell)pr they just ask someone who knows i come from a very hard time on high school, when i used to hang out, i was bullyed as hell and all girls from that time remember me as that skinny ugly bullyed guy with no personality and always shy, now i am a tall good looking guy with a good personality, with some ups and downs in life like all of us, studying medicine in my 4th year and coming out of a toxic messed up relationship that screwed my reputation where i study at (had legal issues because i tryed to suicide and my exgf-mother's tryed to put me in jail because she said i was abusing her daughter psicologically, honestly that depressed me horribly more because i was the one being abused lol)

My question is, after all of this how can i overcome my reputation so it won't affect my game, it gets to the point were i want to be with someone new she won't get loaded with all of this shit people is talking about me, i feel like even if i am good looking im not using my whole potential because of this, if i do use it i'm not confident enough to go get a 9,10..just ugly girls, or 7s at most

Thanks for reading, sorry for the worst english you've ever seen lol, i just needed to tell someone outside my bubble this

 

[Chase]

Salty-

Reputation repair is difficult to effect. It's easiest to just change locations.

If I was you, I'd adopt a 'practice' mentality and look at it like this: as soon as I graduate, I am out of here... so anything I do while I'm still here is just practice.

At that point, you can go on dates, practice. Take a girlfriend... it's practice. Deal with reputation issues... all practice. You're in college to practice for holding a job post-graduation, and you can practice dating, sex, and girlfriends right now for when you graduate and go do it for REAL.

That'll take the pressure off somewhat, and plus... it's true. Any girlfriends you have at this stage of your life are just practice.

You may also want to check out Peter's series on social circle game for some inspiration on dealing with the nuances of this:

• Meeting Women via Social Circle: The Pros and Cons
• How to Escalate with Girls in Social Circle
• Killer Reputation Management for Your Social Circle
• Tapping Your Social Circle to Meet Loads More Girls

Chase