So I met a girl recently; she reached out to get a hold of me, I contacted her via Face, quickly moved to text.
Was brief and sweet, but I got sick and didn't contact her all week until she texted me Friday, when I was sleeping off the last of my sickness.. I replied way late, no reply back.
Yesterday, sent a recovering text:
'Hello Hair
sorry for the silence; I'm realizing I've been a bit unsociable since we've met, but I have good reasons!';
Got the desired response, explained, asked how her week was. Got a dismissive answer, and asked what I was up to, leading up to inviting me down to the local brewery. She was with a friend there, totally ditched him to go with me to a second location. All signals are go, I push slightly, get all but kissing, but she has a boyfriend. ("Don't tempt me" was stated on the way back to my car)
Unaware she's living with him, we drive to her place, and linger a bit outside; at this point, he comes out to retrieve her, loudly. I drive off, not my deal.
Anyway, she left something in my car, so I meet with her today. She references a night of yelling, says I must have witnessed the beginning, which I did my best not to acknowledge (my thinking is, don't really associate myself with her other relationships, so I have a better chance of circumventing her guard). She acknowledges the games she was playing, saying she has to 'obliterate' the activities or whatever.. blah. I was tired and not on my game so did not very well direct the discussion, just got the information and let her go (she had class, I had work)
Anyway, I'm looking to formulate a text to get attraction and I back in her mind, preferably innocuously.
Was brief and sweet, but I got sick and didn't contact her all week until she texted me Friday, when I was sleeping off the last of my sickness.. I replied way late, no reply back.
Yesterday, sent a recovering text:
'Hello Hair
sorry for the silence; I'm realizing I've been a bit unsociable since we've met, but I have good reasons!';Got the desired response, explained, asked how her week was. Got a dismissive answer, and asked what I was up to, leading up to inviting me down to the local brewery. She was with a friend there, totally ditched him to go with me to a second location. All signals are go, I push slightly, get all but kissing, but she has a boyfriend. ("Don't tempt me" was stated on the way back to my car)
Unaware she's living with him, we drive to her place, and linger a bit outside; at this point, he comes out to retrieve her, loudly. I drive off, not my deal.
Anyway, she left something in my car, so I meet with her today. She references a night of yelling, says I must have witnessed the beginning, which I did my best not to acknowledge (my thinking is, don't really associate myself with her other relationships, so I have a better chance of circumventing her guard). She acknowledges the games she was playing, saying she has to 'obliterate' the activities or whatever.. blah. I was tired and not on my game so did not very well direct the discussion, just got the information and let her go (she had class, I had work)
Anyway, I'm looking to formulate a text to get attraction and I back in her mind, preferably innocuously.
