resistance from girls in bed turns me off. only me?

[razir110]

Hey guys!
I am wondering, am I the only one in this lol.. Like when I take a girl home and we start kissing and the escalation has to go on, well most of them start to put barriers, so sort of resistance. "dont touch me here, dont do this dont do that bla bla" So when I am on this for lets say one hour, I totally lose interest, I mean I of course I do want to have sex with her, but the fire seems to be gone. Like when there is too much of this "nice girl" stuff it turns me off. I am I the only one here?
I guess ladies do that to show the y are not sluts or something, but don't u think it sort of plays against them? What are your experiences about this?

 

[Thedoctor]

ivk,

Women give last-minute resistance for a variety of reasons. Two of the more common ones are:

To convey that they are not "easy" or "slutty"as you mentioned
To "test" you to see if you are able to overcome their resistance. Whether this is conscious or subconscious, they're basically trying to see if you possess the dominant qualities they seek out in a mate.

My first few experiences with this sucked, cause I immediately stopped everything and it never went everywhere. I'd be confused and annoyed because it seemed these girls wanted to have sex, but then were starting to act like they didn't. We, as guys, are told growing up that no means no, and if you hear no, you stop because you don't want to rape a girl. But, this isn't what's happening. She just doesn't want to be perceived as a slut and she wants to ensure you're the right choice by seeing how you react to it.

In my experience, if you're pursuing girls that are less conservative and more sexual, you won't encounter this much. And if it does turn you off, then I'd recommend pursuing these types. Otherwise, you can just look at it like another game you need to master in the world of seduction.

Here's a few great articles to expand on this topic:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-g ... -her-yours
https://www.girlschase.com/content/resis ... nt-flavors
https://www.girlschase.com/content/last- ... beating-it

Hope it helps,
-John