Responding to "im not sure yet"

[apples]

So this girl i met a bar and was hitting it off great with the other night texted me "I'll be at aubrey's tonight you happen to be going " I responded with "I'm probably going to stay in tonight. We should hang this week though". I really didn't want to have a convo with her but she kept the convo going and then we exchanged a few cocky & funny texts(not really sexy) which she responded well too. When i wanted to stop talking to her and make plans, i just said "What are you're plans Thursday?" which she just said "I'm not sure yet." which seems kind of short to me for a girl that seemed interested. I did already respond because i'm not too worried about this girl at the moment but for future reference, what would you guys say to that?

That just caught me off guard because all her previous text were all flirty then that was just a short 'who knows' like text.

Maybe i'm reading too much into it but i'm not sure.

Thoughts?

***I reposted this from the 'texting' part because it doesn't seem like that part of the board gets much response*** sorry

 

[Ross]

I'm not a texting whiz, as I usually avoid it altogether. I'll only ever text to meet-up, but never to build rapport or have a conversation, as it is multitudes easier to do that in person. This being said, I can relay some tips from Chase to you.

Typically, when a conversation is headed one way, it is difficult to turn it anywhere else. She starts out the conversation with something that tells me that she wants to see you. The issue is, she wants to make it on her accord; so, you react accordingly and decline the invitation. But, suddenly when you follow her lead of dragging you into her world, the power shifts. Suddenly you start thinking about her.. And trying to figure out a way to see her... And then, you decide it'd be great to find out a time and place to meet her!

But, we don't want that to happen. And, if you're her, she suddenly is the one being chased, instead of her chasing you. The power has shifted into her favors, so there is no need for her to mess it up by meeting up with you. She's being coy to cause a chase. You'd be surprised how often that this can work in your favor. Direct at one moment, coy the next... Confuses the hell out of her.

If I had to try and recover this and end up with a date, I'd just do an all out text to figure out a day to meet up. Texting power shifts literally mean squat in comparison with actual conversations if you don't let them carry into there by submitting to her in actual conversation. Just get her to meet up with you, then comes the easy part .