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Returning eye contact.

Suave

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Okay, so here it goes.
I were at the movie theater today and I saw this girl, yeah, she was in the 'okay-good' zone. Had it not been for my family, I would have talked to her (since this is India) but approach anxiety is not really a problem anymore.

It's something that's been around for a long time but I am posting just now.
I don't know when to return eye contact!
ThIs girl looked in my direction multiple times only for me to be a pussy and not look her back in the eye! I just like, stole glances!

Looking back I realised that I didn't want to come too strong, what if she was just looking in my direction and my looking at her constatly gives her the creeps?

I don't know if I am being ridiculous, but yeah... This mindset has been hindering with my results at school as well!
 

Whizzy

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When you catch her staring at you, give her a friendly smile and a wink. I bet she blushes and giggles a bit ;)
 

Suave

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Whizzy said:
When you catch her staring at you, give her a friendly smile and a wink. I bet she blushes and giggles a bit ;)

Thanks for the input. Duly noted. Will try that.

What if the girl's shy? The wink won't create problems right?
 
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Whizzy

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I've found that the more shy she is, the more obvious her reaction will be. For instance she will blush more if she is more shy generally, especially if she likes you. I wouldn't worry about creating problems because its such a small thing that displays so much confidence on your end.
 

Suave

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Whizzy said:
I've found that the more shy she is, the more obvious her reaction will be. For instance she will blush more if she is more shy generally, especially if she likes you. I wouldn't worry about creating problems because its such a small thing that displays so much confidence on your end.

Haha, awesome! I'm so trying this today.

Thanks mate! :)
 
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