Right way to physically escalate someone you've already been touching?

[beginner]

Hey pros,

I've been meeting lots of gorgeous women while dancing bachata/kizomba and there's a good deal of physical contact on the dance floor. I can get them isolated later on but I've not had much success with finding the right balance with the amount of touching and sexual framing. I think the issue is the dances are already extremely sexually charged so it feels like there's not much room to further escalate the touching so I tend to focus more on the conversation but this also makes it feel very one dimensional if you get what I mean?

Appreciate inputs!

 

[Arnav]

the way I have done it is, I always try to sit on a couch with my hand across the cpuch behind her, this makes it natural to escalate touch and with the other hand i hold her habd casually abd start rubbing it, woth my fingers, if she doesn't object i bring the hand closer to my mouth and give light kises and keep talking

If she still doesn't object, i go in straight for the kiss after a few moments. The change I nade from earlier was to sit with hand across the neck from the very begining. Instead if later on moving my habd behind her neck which made feel a little nervous/awkard.

 

[James D]

Should not be a problem.

The rise in emotions from the dancing will have crashed down anyway by the time you get her isolated.

Proceed as per normal escalation.

You'll have the added benefit of having been physical already with her.

After having been on dates with girls from my tango class, I'd say that benefit is marginal.