Daygame
Thursday my wings didn't plan to do daygame in South Beach which was fine honestly. Can't be dependent on having other guys around just to open girls during the daytime. I went to the beach to sunbathe and had my shirt off and swimming shorts on. I practiced using some indirect openers on a few girls at the beach. I asked this spanish worker to watch my belongings while I touched the water,this other argentian girl if I could borrow her sunspray and this white girl about the coconut looking drink she had.
Logistically and emotionally they weren't available one had to go to work,one hinted she didn't really wanna talk and one was leaving later that day. I had the longest conversation with the white girl,but I didn't do much flirting or teasing except once.
I walked around some more and saw some white girl with a fat ass wearing some jean shorts with her cheeks sticking out and I thought holy fuck that ass is beautiful. I jogged after her as she left the beach and I hesistated for a bit thinking it would not go well cuz I was shirt less and she was not in a bikini. Also it became a street approach so I couldn't really open her indirectly. I told myself fuck it and I walked level to her,she looked at me 1st I said hi and said she was cute. She lit up and it hooked pretty well even though I had not expected it. She was a Canadian girl traveling with her friends. Walked and talked as our places happened to be in the same direction. She was going to meet up with her friends and was leaving tommorow. I suggested we meet up to grab drinks and she said it was sweet,but she was going to hang out with her friends tonight. I wasn't sure if that was a passable objection.
I went to the west side of south beach and saw this girl standing by the pier in this boardwalk. She was looking over the water and I opened her situationally by saying "omg you're not gonna jump into the water are you!" in a dramatic fashion and she laughed and was startled by that and said she almost jumped cuz of that lol. I said my bad and she said she was just checking out the fish. She was walking away and I asked if she live around here and she said yup. I didn't continue after that because I sensed rhat she wasn't open to talk and at that point she was awkwardly far away. I left the boardwalk and explored the local part of south beach where families and people going about their daily routine went. I didn't open any girls cuz I was in my head thinking locals aren't down to hookup like tourists girls or as open and probably more likely to be busy. Also I didn't want to keep amassing rejections or girls not hooking because it got to my ego. I found it so ironic that the only girl I decided to open directly responded well when I was trying to not use any direct lines because I wanted to avoid any uncomfortable rejections at the start. I didn't approach any girls at lincoln road because my state wasn't good in the evening and the limiting beliefs got to me so I spent most of the evening back in my room.
I was waiting for my wings to hit me up and do some nightgame in this area where they have a bunch of bars and clubs.
Nightgame
Took a uber to the area they had in mind. First bar didn't have much volume except a 5 or 7 set of girls and none of us had the balls to do that approach. We went to some club where there was a good amount of hot girls,but loud music which made it very difficult to hear and have any kind of conversation. I wasn't even sure how to open in this kind of environment. My impression of this place was that it was more of a social circle environment for friend groups to go and party together not to hook up with strangers. Social frame probably wouldn't have been there to pull a lone girl from her friends unless you're able to win her friends over which is hard to do in this kind of place.
The two guys opened a two set and I decided to just try shit out see what happens. I see some girl standing near a table with her friends and try to motion to show me her tattoo,but she ignored me. There was this kinda big girl I held my hand out she looked at it for a bit and then shook it and I introduced myself. We exchanged a few words,but then she turned her back and started dancing with her friends and her guy friend. One of my wings opened these girls and I decided to try and talk to another girl. I tap her elbow she slowly turns to look at me then looks away. One of the wings urged me to go all in or back out so I try again and we end up talking having a good convo. She's visiting miami with her friends one who's engaged. I ask her if she's engaged too and she smiles and says no,but she says hopefully my bf gets the hint. The wing left the other girl and it's just me just semi dancing with these other girls so I wish the girl well and she does the same. I high five these two girls who's friend was being chatted up by my wing. Talk for a little bit didn't really exchange names. Then these 4 hot ass spanish girls come in and they were like all straight up 9s sexy as fuck exactly my type. I was standing around with my wing nervous to go up to one cuz they were leaned up against the bar. I try to tap one of the girls elbow,but she just looks at me and turns her head. My wing ends up chatting up her friend and at some point he brings me into the conversation by mentioning that i'm from ny as well. The girls also were from there and they were even from the same borough as me which was crazy and I engage with them a bit. I made a joke that they looked like they were from our area and they laughed.
Eventually the girls leave and we decide to walk around the streets for a while going back and forth. One of the guys who has no AA was opening almost any group that passed by,but he was mostly getting blown out from robotically using ineffective openers like complimenting a girl on being adorable and cute which wouldn't have been as bad during the day,but at night not so much. I didn't wanna criticize cuz these guys were nice enough to accompany a stranger like me. It's funny cuz Chase said in
night streetgame outside bars and clubs that direct was the way to go because situational didn't fit the context. But there are probably certain criteria and elements needed to make it work that he didn't specify or go into enough detail. All the other bars had cover charges and we weren't trying to pay them so we got into ubers and left.
I wonder what other experienced nightgamers would've or could've done in a club like that with a loud dj. If you were good at physical dancefloor game the place could've suited you,but if your game was running routines and sexualizing interactions it would've been difficult to do there. Also wonder about approaching girls on the street at night. Nightime was a good experience for me and i'm looking forward to trying it again.