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Hey Guys,
This past weekend started extremely unpleasant but finished pretty fucking awesome. The first 16 hours were awful and the last 16 was fantastic.
The point of this report is not to show my awesome pickup skills, but to show what can happen if you don't give up. I've been taking my time putting together the report beacuse i wanted to write the first part as objectively as possible. I still think these girls are idiots.
Friday
Went to Ocean City, MD to visit a girl I' had a casual relationship with for 5ish months. She is a very cute with nipple rings and a recent breast impants(she actually got them right after we hooked up the first time, lucky me!). We hadn't see each other in 2 months, but we stayed in about once a week very warm contact resulting in nudes
Drove down after work Friday night around 11:30 and visit Kay while she bartended. Had a beer, bought us both a shot and gave her a good tip. After, we head back to her place and I meet her two friends M & L(both in nursing school). We exchange pleasantries etc.etc. and they make a comment about sending out snapchats of making out with each other. We all get along well, the weekend looks promising.
12:30 the 4 of us head to a dive bar and order drinks. Kay pays for mine and I assume shes making up for the shot. We get a table and they get food, I don't so when the check comes later I don't offer any money.
L complains her throat is sore and says she needs to see the doctor bc she thinks she has the flu....while downing a vodka drink. I chuckle and playfully say "maybe you should just stop drinking and have some water." We go back and fourth about it and M chimes in L probably should just stop drinking--- these three were just talking about how they had been drinking all week.
Once back M & L go to sleep. I sit with Kay on the couch and watch Barbershop. She keep repeating how tired she, and escalate she gives me a peck and deflects(she has never done this). I'm tired as well, I had a rough day at work but I drove two hours to have a saucey weekend...I try again in bed, she says she is on her period, which is true but doesn't explain the lack of interest and attraction.
-previously she had told me no one has ever gone down on her like i did, so fall asleep confused.
Saturday morning
Kay and I are getting ready to get breakfast and I invite the other two because why not, the more the merrier. Things begin to slide the 3 of them together is no fun. They are loud and obnoxious, which causes me to get stuck in my head and I stop paying attention to them.
Second bar we meet 2 of their guy friends who are cool and everything goes back to normal. I spend more time talking to them and chat with other people as well. There was a strange interaction with 4 dudes as soon as we walk in. I don't think anything of it at the time but looking back I think one of them was "her new guy".- will address later. Something happens here and all 3 are starting to act disinterested. Kay stops giving me more then 2 words.
Bar three: It's around 4-5 pm and M & L transitioned from warm, to neutral, to openly hostile in 4 hours. We get some food and they are taking shots at me trying to knock my social value. I know what they are doing and just brush the insults off as silly girl comments. Externally I believe i was cool but internally I was like "what the fuck is going on".
I've never been in a situation like this and with my cloths in Kay's room it seems any real defense would make matters worse.
After we eat I pull Kay to the side to talk. She tells me:
1. Shes dating someone and which is why she didn't want to hook up.
2. Her friends don't like me.
3. I was rude.
4. I didn't buy enough drinks for them since I stayed at their place
5. She brought up our first date and basically said I was cheap because I asked her out and didn't buy her drinks
- This has come up repeatedly on the forums.
I wanted to tell her the extent of what i really thought, but my bag was in her room. My response was along the lines of " You should have never invited me up here if you didn't want to hook up, that was the entirety of our relationsip. I came up to see you and you allowed your friends to treat me like shit. I'm grabbing my stuff and leaving."
I have been thinking about what happened for the past 48 hours and I want to do a quick recap before moving on. A couple times before it went to shit Kay mentioned, " you are sooo cultured". I guess that was her way of saying you are too high value?
Maybe i underestimated how much I have chanaged.
Got a uber back to her place and grabbed my stuff. I was so confused, but at least I was out of the situation. Two of my friends were driving up and I stopped to think how I would tell them I was heading home.
Sat in my car for 10 minutes....
Fuck it, got to get back on the horse.
On the up
Called my friends. Filled them in. Told them I would get a hotel room and we would to go to Seacrets(the super mega bayside beach club) and proceed to forget about it all and find some chicks to bring back.
Immediatley my mindset changed and I could feel the exictment rising in me. Feeling like myself again I began chatting up everyone including the hotel receptionist who upgraded us from the cheapest room possible to the second cheapest with a pull out couch for free. Once checked in we picked up some beer and chaser for the rum. I took cold shower to complete the transformation.
Another friend who I hadn't seen in about 7 months was at Seacrets with his GF and ran into him around 11. The 5 of us popped around the different venues for an hour or so when we hit the disco. The goal was to start finding some girls here but it was just a bunch of dudes looking to grind on girls. After 10-15 minutes in the club we head out to roam.
I go up to get a drink and comment to a dude, "every guy is in the club trying to grind on girls, so i'm gauranteed to find it numerous out here." He laughs and we chat. He is visiting from California and I tell him the short version of the story. His girlfriend thinks this is awesome and decides start picking up girls for me on the premise that I am her brother. She is very attractive and the social proof was enough to get me a couple hits.
Eventually one sticks and her name is Nicole. She is wearing a leapord pattern dress, matching bra, decent tits and has a big ass. She's there with a friend and she off somewhere. They are visiting from New York and staying in a hotel on the strip as well. After 30 mintes I go for the pull.
Me: Hey, lets get out of here and take a walk on the beach.
Her: Yeah! Let me just find Nicole( Yes. Two Nicoles.)
-she calls. no answer.
Her: Nicole isn't answering
Me: I'm sure she is just talking to another guy and she is fine.
Her: Probably, but I won't leave without her.
- at this point Seacrets is closing and we are being funneled out. She still wont leave so we reside to patiently wait for her friend to come out. It's been 30 minutes since I intiated the pull but since she was only with one friend and we were waiting for her there I resided to stick it out.
Eventually the friend comes out with a guy and they both come to the beach with us. I make out and finger her in a lifegaurd chair and pull her back to my hotel. Luckily I had just enough cash left for a cab and my friends were no where to be seen so I had the hotel room to myself.
The next day I was out of sorts. Emotionally I was in shock from a big low followed by a big high. Even now I'm confused. Luckily I was able to slow things down enough to not give up on the weekend.
If you made it this far thanks for reading.
Question:
- Would there be a recovery option in a situation like that without ejecting and without having to deal with a big blow up making it hard to get my stuff?
I thought Kay seemed cool enough beforehand even though she wasn't GF material, but after that I had no idea what would happen.
-brum
This past weekend started extremely unpleasant but finished pretty fucking awesome. The first 16 hours were awful and the last 16 was fantastic.
The point of this report is not to show my awesome pickup skills, but to show what can happen if you don't give up. I've been taking my time putting together the report beacuse i wanted to write the first part as objectively as possible. I still think these girls are idiots.
Friday
Went to Ocean City, MD to visit a girl I' had a casual relationship with for 5ish months. She is a very cute with nipple rings and a recent breast impants(she actually got them right after we hooked up the first time, lucky me!). We hadn't see each other in 2 months, but we stayed in about once a week very warm contact resulting in nudes
Drove down after work Friday night around 11:30 and visit Kay while she bartended. Had a beer, bought us both a shot and gave her a good tip. After, we head back to her place and I meet her two friends M & L(both in nursing school). We exchange pleasantries etc.etc. and they make a comment about sending out snapchats of making out with each other. We all get along well, the weekend looks promising.
12:30 the 4 of us head to a dive bar and order drinks. Kay pays for mine and I assume shes making up for the shot. We get a table and they get food, I don't so when the check comes later I don't offer any money.
L complains her throat is sore and says she needs to see the doctor bc she thinks she has the flu....while downing a vodka drink. I chuckle and playfully say "maybe you should just stop drinking and have some water." We go back and fourth about it and M chimes in L probably should just stop drinking--- these three were just talking about how they had been drinking all week.
Once back M & L go to sleep. I sit with Kay on the couch and watch Barbershop. She keep repeating how tired she, and escalate she gives me a peck and deflects(she has never done this). I'm tired as well, I had a rough day at work but I drove two hours to have a saucey weekend...I try again in bed, she says she is on her period, which is true but doesn't explain the lack of interest and attraction.
-previously she had told me no one has ever gone down on her like i did, so fall asleep confused.
Saturday morning
Kay and I are getting ready to get breakfast and I invite the other two because why not, the more the merrier. Things begin to slide the 3 of them together is no fun. They are loud and obnoxious, which causes me to get stuck in my head and I stop paying attention to them.
Second bar we meet 2 of their guy friends who are cool and everything goes back to normal. I spend more time talking to them and chat with other people as well. There was a strange interaction with 4 dudes as soon as we walk in. I don't think anything of it at the time but looking back I think one of them was "her new guy".- will address later. Something happens here and all 3 are starting to act disinterested. Kay stops giving me more then 2 words.
Bar three: It's around 4-5 pm and M & L transitioned from warm, to neutral, to openly hostile in 4 hours. We get some food and they are taking shots at me trying to knock my social value. I know what they are doing and just brush the insults off as silly girl comments. Externally I believe i was cool but internally I was like "what the fuck is going on".
I've never been in a situation like this and with my cloths in Kay's room it seems any real defense would make matters worse.
After we eat I pull Kay to the side to talk. She tells me:
1. Shes dating someone and which is why she didn't want to hook up.
2. Her friends don't like me.
3. I was rude.
4. I didn't buy enough drinks for them since I stayed at their place
5. She brought up our first date and basically said I was cheap because I asked her out and didn't buy her drinks
- This has come up repeatedly on the forums.
I wanted to tell her the extent of what i really thought, but my bag was in her room. My response was along the lines of " You should have never invited me up here if you didn't want to hook up, that was the entirety of our relationsip. I came up to see you and you allowed your friends to treat me like shit. I'm grabbing my stuff and leaving."
I have been thinking about what happened for the past 48 hours and I want to do a quick recap before moving on. A couple times before it went to shit Kay mentioned, " you are sooo cultured". I guess that was her way of saying you are too high value?
Maybe i underestimated how much I have chanaged.
Got a uber back to her place and grabbed my stuff. I was so confused, but at least I was out of the situation. Two of my friends were driving up and I stopped to think how I would tell them I was heading home.
Sat in my car for 10 minutes....
Fuck it, got to get back on the horse.
On the up
Called my friends. Filled them in. Told them I would get a hotel room and we would to go to Seacrets(the super mega bayside beach club) and proceed to forget about it all and find some chicks to bring back.
Immediatley my mindset changed and I could feel the exictment rising in me. Feeling like myself again I began chatting up everyone including the hotel receptionist who upgraded us from the cheapest room possible to the second cheapest with a pull out couch for free. Once checked in we picked up some beer and chaser for the rum. I took cold shower to complete the transformation.
Another friend who I hadn't seen in about 7 months was at Seacrets with his GF and ran into him around 11. The 5 of us popped around the different venues for an hour or so when we hit the disco. The goal was to start finding some girls here but it was just a bunch of dudes looking to grind on girls. After 10-15 minutes in the club we head out to roam.
I go up to get a drink and comment to a dude, "every guy is in the club trying to grind on girls, so i'm gauranteed to find it numerous out here." He laughs and we chat. He is visiting from California and I tell him the short version of the story. His girlfriend thinks this is awesome and decides start picking up girls for me on the premise that I am her brother. She is very attractive and the social proof was enough to get me a couple hits.
Eventually one sticks and her name is Nicole. She is wearing a leapord pattern dress, matching bra, decent tits and has a big ass. She's there with a friend and she off somewhere. They are visiting from New York and staying in a hotel on the strip as well. After 30 mintes I go for the pull.
Me: Hey, lets get out of here and take a walk on the beach.
Her: Yeah! Let me just find Nicole( Yes. Two Nicoles.)
-she calls. no answer.
Her: Nicole isn't answering
Me: I'm sure she is just talking to another guy and she is fine.
Her: Probably, but I won't leave without her.
- at this point Seacrets is closing and we are being funneled out. She still wont leave so we reside to patiently wait for her friend to come out. It's been 30 minutes since I intiated the pull but since she was only with one friend and we were waiting for her there I resided to stick it out.
Eventually the friend comes out with a guy and they both come to the beach with us. I make out and finger her in a lifegaurd chair and pull her back to my hotel. Luckily I had just enough cash left for a cab and my friends were no where to be seen so I had the hotel room to myself.
The next day I was out of sorts. Emotionally I was in shock from a big low followed by a big high. Even now I'm confused. Luckily I was able to slow things down enough to not give up on the weekend.
If you made it this far thanks for reading.
Question:
- Would there be a recovery option in a situation like that without ejecting and without having to deal with a big blow up making it hard to get my stuff?
I thought Kay seemed cool enough beforehand even though she wasn't GF material, but after that I had no idea what would happen.
-brum
