Room without a couch and chair: how to bring a girl in?

[lux7]

Well, there's a door to bring her in, that would be the most obvious answer to the topic's title .

What I mean though is how do you bring a girl to your place when you don't have yet a strong sexual tension going on.

You say "let's go for a drink" back to my place, then you lead her to your room and... Surprise! A small rom with *a* single chair and the bed taking up 1/3 of the whole space.
Might seem a bit weird when you were expecting to sit for a few minutes with a drink.

I'm new with this situation.
Any idea?

 

[Thedoctor]

Lucifer,

Seems like you have two questions here. One regarding building sexual tension so as to get her to your place, the other about your logistics. Seeing as how there's a lot of good info if you just search the topic of being sexual, I'll answer the latter.

Your situation is perfect! Not having anywhere else to sit besides the bed is ideal, because that's where you want to end up anyway. Just tell her to make herself comfortable and offer her a drink. She came back knowing full well what will end up happening at your place. Taking out a "neutral" area just makes it a "shit or get off the pot" situation. The only reason she'd leave upon seeing your place is if she had no intention of having sex in the first place.

It will only be weird if you make it weird.

-Doc

 

[Ryan]

^what he said

 

[lux7]

Lucifer,

Seems like you have two questions here. One regarding building sexual tension so as to get her to your place, the other about your logistics. Seeing as how there's a lot of good info if you just search the topic of being sexual, I'll answer the latter.

Your situation is perfect! Not having anywhere else to sit besides the bed is ideal, because that's where you want to end up anyway. Just tell her to make herself comfortable and offer her a drink. She came back knowing full well what will end up happening at your place. Taking out a "neutral" area just makes it a "shit or get off the pot" situation. The only reason she'd leave upon seeing your place is if she had no intention of having sex in the first place.

It will only be weird if you make it weird.

-Doc

Yeah, maybe I phrased my first post badly, but I only meant the logistics part, the one you answered.

I used to say to go back home for another drink (or in summer to go back to finish the bottle of wine as it was getting chilly), sit on the couch, actually pouring the drink, "make the move" there, try to heat it up and then move to the bed.
The couch had a small table in front of it, so you could comfortably take the drink offer her hand and rest it on the table, so it seemed to me the perfect situation.

But entering this room, I am afraid, would remove the "plausible deniability" and could feel like too big of a jump from not having kissed yet to the bed.

But yeah, on the other hand it could make things move quicker..