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YO guys,
I met this gorgeous girl at a supermarket, approached her direct and accompanied her shopping without being the needy follower making the shopping quite some fun.
The interaction probably lastet 30min, she didn't want to exchange phone numbers and instead of that took mine. I was fine with it (under time pressure and didn't have time to negotiate my way into her number).
So she wrote me 3 days later. I (think I) played it too aloof, too cool, too gamey, instead of just going for the meet.....overgaming.
I read her second text as a shit-test and didn't want to make myself too attainible (had a similar text recently where I came across as too availible an fucked it up. But I misread this context here where she probably just wanted to seal the deal. THen in the end I suddenly try to close at a low of the interaction, omg....
How do I come back?
here's the text:
Her: Hey, Prince charming...
Me: How can his excellence be of help?
Her: I forgot to buy some washing powder in the supermarket. Can you get it for me?
Me: Haha, that's bold! Prince Charming doesn't do the "delivery boy" so easily! (in my language it's a pun...)
Her: But you made a good job last Saturday!
Me: That was unfair! An old, helpless lady wakes up some....instincts in me (callback humour b/c I cold her old)
Her: "we exchange numbers and then you can see, if I am still so charming if we write" (that'S what i told her when she hesitated to give me her number because she's seeing someone)
Her: Weren't that your words?
Her: Hmmmmm.....
Me: I like it that you text me
Me: So there's one question left
Me: When are you free?
Of course, she went silent after that.
I met this gorgeous girl at a supermarket, approached her direct and accompanied her shopping without being the needy follower making the shopping quite some fun.
The interaction probably lastet 30min, she didn't want to exchange phone numbers and instead of that took mine. I was fine with it (under time pressure and didn't have time to negotiate my way into her number).
So she wrote me 3 days later. I (think I) played it too aloof, too cool, too gamey, instead of just going for the meet.....overgaming.
I read her second text as a shit-test and didn't want to make myself too attainible (had a similar text recently where I came across as too availible an fucked it up. But I misread this context here where she probably just wanted to seal the deal. THen in the end I suddenly try to close at a low of the interaction, omg....
How do I come back?
here's the text:
Her: Hey, Prince charming...
Me: How can his excellence be of help?
Her: I forgot to buy some washing powder in the supermarket. Can you get it for me?
Me: Haha, that's bold! Prince Charming doesn't do the "delivery boy" so easily! (in my language it's a pun...)
Her: But you made a good job last Saturday!
Me: That was unfair! An old, helpless lady wakes up some....instincts in me (callback humour b/c I cold her old)
Her: "we exchange numbers and then you can see, if I am still so charming if we write" (that'S what i told her when she hesitated to give me her number because she's seeing someone)
Her: Weren't that your words?
Her: Hmmmmm.....
Me: I like it that you text me
Me: So there's one question left
Me: When are you free?
Of course, she went silent after that.
