Fellas!
I usually don't post here. Sometimes I like to keep private about my "adventures" but this one I felt like I needed to share for many many (yes, thats many twice on purpose) reasons. Up till a few days ago I have hated Tinder. Hated it to death. I never get matches...and if I do, I never get a reply back. That is, until I bought the Tinder System by Colt. I know this partially sounds like a commercial...but it isn't. And saying that makes it sound EVEN more like an advertisement, but trust me here. I was skeptical too. I heard about it a few days ago and I sat on it...watched the video..read some posts...until I said fuck it...I will buy it. So I did. I bought it this past Wednesday. It taught me some simple tips and tricks that I hadn't actually considered. It actually showed me how to use Tinder. I have had over 30 matches since Wednesday and I have only used Tinder for like a couple of hours max...but I am not here to talk about those. I am here to talk about Thursday night's match.
Thursday night (less than 24 hours after I had bought the system) I match with a girl around 8:30 PM. I used one of the openers from the system and she quickly responded. But I didn't except her response and I wasn't sure how to reply. I decided to use some of my personality in there instead and went with my gut feeling. She responded well to it, after like 7 messages (4 from me, 3 from her) I quickly went for the phone number. I got her number and we started talking about the meet up logistics. I said she should come over for a netflix marathon, and suggested a specific show (one she mentioned in her Tinder bio) and she quickly agreed. She even asked for my address but then suddenly stopped...and felt a little bit freaked out. Because what if I was a murderer or something. We go back and forth and we finally decide to meet at a bar. She was already at a bar with a friend of hers and I was a little bit overwhelmed with the situation but again...I said fuck it and went for it.
I get there and her friend is giving me this "mean" look. She said she is there to chaperone. I quickly warm up to her and just react normally, instead of defensively. I completely understand why she is there...she is just looking out for her friend. I talk to both of them, mostly to her friend to kinda win her over, for almost an hour. Her friend then leaves the bar, which I obviously take as a good sign. I tell her we should head back to my place and go on that Netflix marathon we were talking about. She kindly agrees and we head back to my place. Once we got here, I turned on the show and 5 seconds (not even kidding) into it...we start making out and she gets on top of me. The rest..of course...is history. She even came back last night (Friday).
From the moment we matched, to the moment she was back at my place, was only 4 hours. 3 of which were spent trying to determine logistics on how and where to meet.
Felt really good to just pull the triggers and go for it...felt really good to get some Tinder success.
If there is one thing I will suggest to anyone trying Tinder is this: swipe right to everything (filter later) and use Tinder just to set the meet. Don't try to get to know her through messages...that is boring and doesn't build a connection.
Sorry for the lack of ultra-details btw. Just wanted to keep it kinda anonymous. Feel free to ask away though!
Cheers,
Jeet
I usually don't post here. Sometimes I like to keep private about my "adventures" but this one I felt like I needed to share for many many (yes, thats many twice on purpose) reasons. Up till a few days ago I have hated Tinder. Hated it to death. I never get matches...and if I do, I never get a reply back. That is, until I bought the Tinder System by Colt. I know this partially sounds like a commercial...but it isn't. And saying that makes it sound EVEN more like an advertisement, but trust me here. I was skeptical too. I heard about it a few days ago and I sat on it...watched the video..read some posts...until I said fuck it...I will buy it. So I did. I bought it this past Wednesday. It taught me some simple tips and tricks that I hadn't actually considered. It actually showed me how to use Tinder. I have had over 30 matches since Wednesday and I have only used Tinder for like a couple of hours max...but I am not here to talk about those. I am here to talk about Thursday night's match.
Thursday night (less than 24 hours after I had bought the system) I match with a girl around 8:30 PM. I used one of the openers from the system and she quickly responded. But I didn't except her response and I wasn't sure how to reply. I decided to use some of my personality in there instead and went with my gut feeling. She responded well to it, after like 7 messages (4 from me, 3 from her) I quickly went for the phone number. I got her number and we started talking about the meet up logistics. I said she should come over for a netflix marathon, and suggested a specific show (one she mentioned in her Tinder bio) and she quickly agreed. She even asked for my address but then suddenly stopped...and felt a little bit freaked out. Because what if I was a murderer or something. We go back and forth and we finally decide to meet at a bar. She was already at a bar with a friend of hers and I was a little bit overwhelmed with the situation but again...I said fuck it and went for it.
I get there and her friend is giving me this "mean" look. She said she is there to chaperone. I quickly warm up to her and just react normally, instead of defensively. I completely understand why she is there...she is just looking out for her friend. I talk to both of them, mostly to her friend to kinda win her over, for almost an hour. Her friend then leaves the bar, which I obviously take as a good sign. I tell her we should head back to my place and go on that Netflix marathon we were talking about. She kindly agrees and we head back to my place. Once we got here, I turned on the show and 5 seconds (not even kidding) into it...we start making out and she gets on top of me. The rest..of course...is history. She even came back last night (Friday).
From the moment we matched, to the moment she was back at my place, was only 4 hours. 3 of which were spent trying to determine logistics on how and where to meet.
Felt really good to just pull the triggers and go for it...felt really good to get some Tinder success.
If there is one thing I will suggest to anyone trying Tinder is this: swipe right to everything (filter later) and use Tinder just to set the meet. Don't try to get to know her through messages...that is boring and doesn't build a connection.
Sorry for the lack of ultra-details btw. Just wanted to keep it kinda anonymous. Feel free to ask away though!
Cheers,
Jeet
