Out last night.
Positives were that nearly all the girls I opened were legit very hot, young girls. The kind of girls we do this for and who I usually don't open out of intimidation! All at least 3-4 points above me if we're talking about looks. I like nights where I beat approach anxiety
Negatives were that I basically wasn't able to get any attraction lol.
Anyway
First set was on 2 really hot young girls sitting at a table at a cocktail bar. There was a girl dressed as santa claus behind them and I opened the girls with some stupid comment like ''Do you think that's the real santa claus?'. One of the girls laughed and the other one didn't. I introduced myself and said that they looked interesting and wanted to meet them and threw in a false time constraint.
I made a cold read on one of them about how she was in fashion and we bantered about our clothes we had on and stuff. I teased her a few times (think I crammed in the 'oh, you're that kind of girl? Me and you wouldn't get along' lol) and tried to also involve the other one who was being quiet. I guessed both of their star signs first time which made them laugh. We chatted about our night so far and our jobs/ages etc. DHV'd. I teased them when the opportunity came up. I asked who else they were with and then asked the one I liked whether she was single and she told me she was a lesbian and that they were together! I know lots of girls just say this nowadays to get you to go away and so I tend to assume it's bullshit, although last week I saw SO MANY girls kissing where i live that I think it was probably true lol. Could also explain why the 'friend' was so awkward. Having a guy hit on her gf in front of her. I tried to stick in there a bit but it wasn't happening. They weren't contributing to the convo, really. I always try to plow, but at some point when it's so clear they want you to go away you have to throw the towel in I guess lol. I ejected
I opened a super hot young girl who was texting someone. She was seated at a table at a different part of the bar. I opened her with something like ''Are you checking your tinder??''. She smiled. I asked what she was up too and why she was alone and she told me she was with a friend who was at the bar. I done a cold read and told her she looked like a skater girl. She reacted like ''WTF??!!'' lol. I sometimes get this reaction with cold reads and 'assumptions' etc. Sometimes feel like when I apply certain gamey things it makes me look slightly odd?! Obviously not ideal. But it's like a necessary evil, otherwise we are just firing interview questions at girls which is odd in a different way (although they hear this all the time which in a way makes you look more 'normal'?!)
We chatted briefly and I threw in a tease about how we wouldn't get along (todd V line). It went quiet briefly and she asked me what I wanted and why I was speaking to her lol. I told her I just thought she looked kinda cute and I wanted to find out if she was interesting. She said something like ''i'm not interested. Sorry''. I stole a Todd line and something like ''Interested in what, dear? I think we should take it slow''. I tried to low a little longer with some observations etc. She was looking a bit uncomfortable at this point tbh and I think I told her I could always leave her alone if that's what she wanted and she said 'yes, bye' lol. I high fived her and instantly spoke too a girl I know that was near so looked like less of a loser lol
This next set was the only set where there seemed to be some interest, although they were both older, married, and not as hot as the other beautiful girls who previous rejected me. I opened a girl with a comment about her hair. Asked if that was her real colour. We bantered about that for a while. They asked how old I am and we just fell into a convo about what schools we went too, what we do etc etc. My friend entered the set. He opened with something like ''How's he doing?!'' which I wasn't a fan of as it makes it look like i'm definitely hitting on her. However, the targets friend said something like ''Usually she tells guys to go away by this point so he's doing something right!''. lol. It was all basically small talk but in this set I could sense some clear attraction. (maybe she thought I was decent looking whereas the other girls didn't, thus I was never able to get attraction) At this point I found out they were both married though. However, she also began flirting a bit here and we spoke about some sexual topics etc. She told me to come and find her later and gave me her number. I took it but wasn't interested in persuing a married woman who wasn't as hot as I'd like
New bar. Opened a 2 set who were on the outskirts of the dancefloor. Asked why they weren't dancing or something. Was quite direct in this set, but they both shot me down pretty quick and told me I wasn't their type. I tried to stick in there with a few negs and stuff, but they both gave me the 'backturn' and I ejected.
I then saw a friend of mine i've not seen in a while. He's a cage fighter and a fireman. He was with 2 fairly hot girls. He was kissing the Asian one. He introduced me to the fairly hot blonde one and he kind of dhv'd for me. It started off OK.
I went to the bar with the blonde one and we carried on chatting. It's a bit of a blur but she said something quite sexually charged. I can't remember what but it may have been something about her confessing to liking being dominated in bed (or maybe dominitING! i can't remember. I just remember her saying something sexual). SHe asked me how I felt about that. I told her it turned me on using laser eyes and told her i'd have to watch out for her and that's she's trouble and she laughed.
Was looking OK, however, when I sat down again with the cage fighter and the 2 girls, he started making out with them both. A 3-way-kiss like RSD tyler does in his vids lol
At one point the Asian one told the blonde one to kiss me and before I could react she was like ''Ewwww....no way!!'' lol. Made me feel like shit bit I hid it well and laughed. Pretty soon after that the cage fighter kind of told me to leave in a slightly awkward way (I think he was angling for the threesome and didn't want me in the way lol)
Last open was on some gorgeous girl outside the piizza place. I opened her and we chatted a bit. She was super confident and lively and fun. One of those interactions where you think you have 'attraction' but it's more that she's just super friendly and social and talkative. A bit like an American girl lol. I teased her and made some cold reads and tried to get to know her, but after a few mins she basically just walked away as she spotted someone she wanted to speak too. (She was only young and they all seem to know each other!)
Home time. Slightly frustrating night, although happy that I opened the kind of girls who I'd usually not open and would wait for lower hanging fruit! I love when I overcome AA
Positives were that nearly all the girls I opened were legit very hot, young girls. The kind of girls we do this for and who I usually don't open out of intimidation! All at least 3-4 points above me if we're talking about looks. I like nights where I beat approach anxiety
Negatives were that I basically wasn't able to get any attraction lol.
Anyway
First set was on 2 really hot young girls sitting at a table at a cocktail bar. There was a girl dressed as santa claus behind them and I opened the girls with some stupid comment like ''Do you think that's the real santa claus?'. One of the girls laughed and the other one didn't. I introduced myself and said that they looked interesting and wanted to meet them and threw in a false time constraint.
I made a cold read on one of them about how she was in fashion and we bantered about our clothes we had on and stuff. I teased her a few times (think I crammed in the 'oh, you're that kind of girl? Me and you wouldn't get along' lol) and tried to also involve the other one who was being quiet. I guessed both of their star signs first time which made them laugh. We chatted about our night so far and our jobs/ages etc. DHV'd. I teased them when the opportunity came up. I asked who else they were with and then asked the one I liked whether she was single and she told me she was a lesbian and that they were together! I know lots of girls just say this nowadays to get you to go away and so I tend to assume it's bullshit, although last week I saw SO MANY girls kissing where i live that I think it was probably true lol. Could also explain why the 'friend' was so awkward. Having a guy hit on her gf in front of her. I tried to stick in there a bit but it wasn't happening. They weren't contributing to the convo, really. I always try to plow, but at some point when it's so clear they want you to go away you have to throw the towel in I guess lol. I ejected
I opened a super hot young girl who was texting someone. She was seated at a table at a different part of the bar. I opened her with something like ''Are you checking your tinder??''. She smiled. I asked what she was up too and why she was alone and she told me she was with a friend who was at the bar. I done a cold read and told her she looked like a skater girl. She reacted like ''WTF??!!'' lol. I sometimes get this reaction with cold reads and 'assumptions' etc. Sometimes feel like when I apply certain gamey things it makes me look slightly odd?! Obviously not ideal. But it's like a necessary evil, otherwise we are just firing interview questions at girls which is odd in a different way (although they hear this all the time which in a way makes you look more 'normal'?!)
We chatted briefly and I threw in a tease about how we wouldn't get along (todd V line). It went quiet briefly and she asked me what I wanted and why I was speaking to her lol. I told her I just thought she looked kinda cute and I wanted to find out if she was interesting. She said something like ''i'm not interested. Sorry''. I stole a Todd line and something like ''Interested in what, dear? I think we should take it slow''. I tried to low a little longer with some observations etc. She was looking a bit uncomfortable at this point tbh and I think I told her I could always leave her alone if that's what she wanted and she said 'yes, bye' lol. I high fived her and instantly spoke too a girl I know that was near so looked like less of a loser lol
This next set was the only set where there seemed to be some interest, although they were both older, married, and not as hot as the other beautiful girls who previous rejected me. I opened a girl with a comment about her hair. Asked if that was her real colour. We bantered about that for a while. They asked how old I am and we just fell into a convo about what schools we went too, what we do etc etc. My friend entered the set. He opened with something like ''How's he doing?!'' which I wasn't a fan of as it makes it look like i'm definitely hitting on her. However, the targets friend said something like ''Usually she tells guys to go away by this point so he's doing something right!''. lol. It was all basically small talk but in this set I could sense some clear attraction. (maybe she thought I was decent looking whereas the other girls didn't, thus I was never able to get attraction) At this point I found out they were both married though. However, she also began flirting a bit here and we spoke about some sexual topics etc. She told me to come and find her later and gave me her number. I took it but wasn't interested in persuing a married woman who wasn't as hot as I'd like
New bar. Opened a 2 set who were on the outskirts of the dancefloor. Asked why they weren't dancing or something. Was quite direct in this set, but they both shot me down pretty quick and told me I wasn't their type. I tried to stick in there with a few negs and stuff, but they both gave me the 'backturn' and I ejected.
I then saw a friend of mine i've not seen in a while. He's a cage fighter and a fireman. He was with 2 fairly hot girls. He was kissing the Asian one. He introduced me to the fairly hot blonde one and he kind of dhv'd for me. It started off OK.
I went to the bar with the blonde one and we carried on chatting. It's a bit of a blur but she said something quite sexually charged. I can't remember what but it may have been something about her confessing to liking being dominated in bed (or maybe dominitING! i can't remember. I just remember her saying something sexual). SHe asked me how I felt about that. I told her it turned me on using laser eyes and told her i'd have to watch out for her and that's she's trouble and she laughed.
Was looking OK, however, when I sat down again with the cage fighter and the 2 girls, he started making out with them both. A 3-way-kiss like RSD tyler does in his vids lol
At one point the Asian one told the blonde one to kiss me and before I could react she was like ''Ewwww....no way!!'' lol. Made me feel like shit bit I hid it well and laughed. Pretty soon after that the cage fighter kind of told me to leave in a slightly awkward way (I think he was angling for the threesome and didn't want me in the way lol)
Last open was on some gorgeous girl outside the piizza place. I opened her and we chatted a bit. She was super confident and lively and fun. One of those interactions where you think you have 'attraction' but it's more that she's just super friendly and social and talkative. A bit like an American girl lol. I teased her and made some cold reads and tried to get to know her, but after a few mins she basically just walked away as she spotted someone she wanted to speak too. (She was only young and they all seem to know each other!)
Home time. Slightly frustrating night, although happy that I opened the kind of girls who I'd usually not open and would wait for lower hanging fruit! I love when I overcome AA
