Scarcity and Girls

[D_Smooth1900]

So After the new year I decided to stop talking to the girls I had been messing with, in order to open the way for new girls to come I into my life. So far I only have one girl who I've been trying to set things up with. However she's been rather busy and I haven't had much opportunity to approach any other girls due to work and other things.

Although this one girl I tried talking too back in the day just broke up with her boyfriend. Now I'm contemplating whether or not I should reapproach her, I haven't had any communications with her for 9 months to an year, so I know I'll have to come off as a "long time no see," type deal. Also I know I'm suffering from scarcity due to the number of girls I'm talking to (1) so I know my approach might come off as needy.

Any input on what I should do will be greatly appreciated. - Thanks

 

[Exile386]

Hey Dude !

Since you are thinking about re-approaching her after a long time; Usually girls in my experience are warm to your approach mostly if you had managed to make a above average impact on her even at a emotional level ( They do remember YOU . If the answer is yes, then make the move. Otherwise go in anyway you got nothing to lose.

BUT .. for your own sake, even if you can't meet women in real life coz of busyness, meet some girls online ( if its too much work try ChatRoulette & Get your self warmed up! ) Obviously you will fall into 'needy' mentality since you already know scarcity knocks you in the back.

After that you will be able to re-approach her without too much fuss.

Peace!

 

[D_Smooth1900]

Thanks for the reply exile, I'll check out your app