Scheduling dates and meeting up weeks from now

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I have been netting good success on dating apps but sometimes I match with girls who are traveling for a couple weeks, back home with family, and not returning to the city until a couple weeks or at times even a month. Ever since lockdowns hit this became more of a thing.

Some of these girls are sexy too. I have connected with some on social media too since they ask for that. My friend says that the issue is if you do not schedule a date within the week then they lose interest or just forget about you.

Anyone had experience with something like this?

 

[aliparpar]

Hey @Post Was Right
Normally with girls who are not available to come out on a date until next week or so, you want to put them on 'maintenance mode' and not actively think about them. You can hint to seeing each other once she's back - ask her to ping you. Call them here and there to see how they're doing and maintain rapport but don't try to schedule anything until you know they're in your city/available that week - they will normally tell you if they're interested.

I've also seen guys increase the buying temperature so much that the girl changes her plans and comes out for the date instead. This is a big compliance if she does that for you.

I would focus my attention more on day game during Covid instead.

Here is my process to find places to meet girls for daygame during Covid:

Best places to Daygame

Hey @darknesspua thanks fo your advice!! Don't worry, I'm a "fresa" myself but these last 6 years I have picking up girls from the Chapultepec and downtown areas and I am just tired of them. I want some of that sexy, classy high end girls that I know I deserve. I'm ready for it!!

www.skilledseducer.com

However if you want to use online dating as a backup option for meeting girls, I've distilled my process in this post here.

Online & Apps - Online dating what to say after pause in conversation

Usually on online dating, if I get a match and they are messaging back and forth positively I get their number pretty fast then move the interaction onto What's app. From there I'll message back and forth a bit more to get to know them and hopefully there will be some text banter and shit tests...

www.skilledseducer.com

 

[Skjöldr]

When you get her number and you can't see her within a week, it's usually dead. Usually, not always. I laid a chick who went off for a week and then came back. Over 2 weeks from number to fuck. Hit her up halfway through her trip asking her how's it going and when she'll be back ok alright and then hit her up around the time she gets back asking when she's free to meet up. Optional is to give her some of your social media so she can follow you

 

[Skjöldr]

Here is what you DON'T do: Schedule a date now.

Don't schedule more than 5 days out in advance. Absolutely maximum, and usually venturing into flake territory, is 7 days. Schedule with her around the time she gets back.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I am meeting most of these women through dating apps and not in cold approach though, if that makes any difference. Some I still DM back and forth with.

 

[Rakkum]

I am meeting most of these women through dating apps and not in cold approach though, if that makes any difference. Some I still DM back and forth with.

This makes things a bit trickier but still doable. As of now you are just a face that texts, its easy for her to forget you. That's just how it is.

That's one of the reasons why it's a good idea to get their WhatsApp so that you could send a voice message at the right time - it will help you stand out and your voice conveys a lot of important information for her. Another benefit of getting their WhatsApp is the investment - you are getting their phone number (which imo is slightly more investment on their part than IG or something similar).

As to setting dates 5+ days ahead in time... Usually not a super good idea but if you can sense that she is legit super busy and really eager to meet up with you (e.g. suggesting a time) then go for it. I'd do something like this:

Her: Sorry, I have friends coming over from X this weekend and I have exams next week :/ How about Thursday next week?
You: Okay, I see, no worries! I think Thursday next week will be fine, let's just confirm on Wednesday to be sure.