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Hello guys, first post ever on here so please bear with me. Here's my scenario:
Currently a senior a high school and also a football player. At the moment I've been working on my fundamentals(walk, talk, etc..), and I have to say it's been working. I've been receiving many approach invites and been catching many looking at me(of course they quickly avert their eyes when i catch them). There is no school uniform, so I do try to dress as well as possible but still casual-ish.
My question is..in a class setting how would one go approach a girl that's all the way across the class, without putting in too much effort of course. I can't imagine simply going up and walking to her to say hi(well it could work but i'm trying to be discreet).
And for the girls that I DO sit next to, does the term "moving fast" still apply to them? Since I am going to be sitting next to them for the rest of the year basically. Should I just chill and take my time with them. For example, what I've been doing is having small talk/flirt with them one day and deep dive/flirt another day.
And as for cold approaching, how should I go about doing that with indirect approach? I've been avoiding direct approach because while my high school may be large, it is still only a high school and girls love to gossip, so I'm trying to not get a reputation of being a "hoe" this early into the school year.
Also for the approach invitations I've been receiving the girls been either in a group or walking past me to class, so how can I approach them indirectly. To be honest, I've seen countless indirect approach examples for one on one situations but not really in group situations where the girl is with her friends.
For those of you wondering how I am in class, I crack jokes from time to time(but in a very low effort way..more like sarcastic remarks), I may answer questions if needed, I like to participate in class to be honest(trying to avoid the dumb jock stereotype).
I have many more questions, but this post is already all over the place and I'll try to cut it short here.
Thank you
Currently a senior a high school and also a football player. At the moment I've been working on my fundamentals(walk, talk, etc..), and I have to say it's been working. I've been receiving many approach invites and been catching many looking at me(of course they quickly avert their eyes when i catch them). There is no school uniform, so I do try to dress as well as possible but still casual-ish.
My question is..in a class setting how would one go approach a girl that's all the way across the class, without putting in too much effort of course. I can't imagine simply going up and walking to her to say hi(well it could work but i'm trying to be discreet).
And for the girls that I DO sit next to, does the term "moving fast" still apply to them? Since I am going to be sitting next to them for the rest of the year basically. Should I just chill and take my time with them. For example, what I've been doing is having small talk/flirt with them one day and deep dive/flirt another day.
And as for cold approaching, how should I go about doing that with indirect approach? I've been avoiding direct approach because while my high school may be large, it is still only a high school and girls love to gossip, so I'm trying to not get a reputation of being a "hoe" this early into the school year.
Also for the approach invitations I've been receiving the girls been either in a group or walking past me to class, so how can I approach them indirectly. To be honest, I've seen countless indirect approach examples for one on one situations but not really in group situations where the girl is with her friends.
For those of you wondering how I am in class, I crack jokes from time to time(but in a very low effort way..more like sarcastic remarks), I may answer questions if needed, I like to participate in class to be honest(trying to avoid the dumb jock stereotype).
I have many more questions, but this post is already all over the place and I'll try to cut it short here.
Thank you