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Space Monkey
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Hello guys, first post ever on here so please bear with me. Here's my scenario:

Currently a senior a high school and also a football player. At the moment I've been working on my fundamentals(walk, talk, etc..), and I have to say it's been working. I've been receiving many approach invites and been catching many looking at me(of course they quickly avert their eyes when i catch them). There is no school uniform, so I do try to dress as well as possible but still casual-ish.

My question is..in a class setting how would one go approach a girl that's all the way across the class, without putting in too much effort of course. I can't imagine simply going up and walking to her to say hi(well it could work but i'm trying to be discreet).

And for the girls that I DO sit next to, does the term "moving fast" still apply to them? Since I am going to be sitting next to them for the rest of the year basically. Should I just chill and take my time with them. For example, what I've been doing is having small talk/flirt with them one day and deep dive/flirt another day.

And as for cold approaching, how should I go about doing that with indirect approach? I've been avoiding direct approach because while my high school may be large, it is still only a high school and girls love to gossip, so I'm trying to not get a reputation of being a "hoe" this early into the school year.

Also for the approach invitations I've been receiving the girls been either in a group or walking past me to class, so how can I approach them indirectly. To be honest, I've seen countless indirect approach examples for one on one situations but not really in group situations where the girl is with her friends.

For those of you wondering how I am in class, I crack jokes from time to time(but in a very low effort way..more like sarcastic remarks), I may answer questions if needed, I like to participate in class to be honest(trying to avoid the dumb jock stereotype).

I have many more questions, but this post is already all over the place and I'll try to cut it short here.

Thank you
 
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Cro-Magnon Man
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Before or after class.
Engage the girl across the room before you take your seats. Tell her you would like to talk to her at lunch or between classes.

"hey, catch you after class?"

She will be thinking about it all through class. What's he gonna say to me?, what am I gonna say to him?, What could he want? She will be pretty nervous by the time it comes after class. It is up to YOU to put her at ease. Walk with her to her next class and just have a conversation. Before you get where she is going or your class ...whatever.... say "let me get your number in case I have questions about that History assignment"

Because it is social circle, you do have to be more indirect and conversational. It is not going to throw you in the Friendzone. Because you are a high value male. A student athlete with a varsity letter who is smart, funny and can have any girl he wants. So treat them all like your little sisters, and bring the ones that rise to the top into your First String. If some girl is giving you resistance you can always let her know "if she wants to make the A-Team she can always try out" in a joking tone...but it's got to be in the right mood sand setting... Example from this Thread..

A word of warning...Don't go P&Ding a bunch of girls unless you want a social backlash. Leave them better than you found them. you can tell girls you don't want to be exclusive with anyone YET because after this year...Who knows....BUT you want to leave that door open for the future when it will really mean something.

And don't Kiss and Tell.. She might , but you don't. Let these girls know their reputation is safe with you.
 

theblackpanther

Space Monkey
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I appreciate it guys. I'll be learning more about social game and i'll definitely use that line you said :"hey, catch you after class?". Sometimes I forget how freaking awesome I actually am and put these girls on a pedestal..when they should be doing that for me.

Thank you
 
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