So my colleague wanted me to kiss her at office and on the staircase and i like an idiot refused to comply with it thinking we would be caught......she rightfully gets a little pissed at me later in an indirect manner for not doing it,,,,,she herself was nervous when i actually was going in for it....will i ever get a second chance with her????? She has been attracted to me for over 3 months now......I feel like kicking myself for losing the opportunity...I now feel like she thinks i am less of a man......i keep turning her on with sex talk.......but when it came down to this i could not bring out the goods....will she completely lose respect for my masculinity for it????? Will i be one of the 'nice guys'???? Please tell me....i know i am ranting.....is there any chance i could get to kiss her again and will she still think of me as a sexual man????