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Screwed up the kiss

pks391

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So my colleague wanted me to kiss her at office and on the staircase and i like an idiot refused to comply with it thinking we would be caught......she rightfully gets a little pissed at me later in an indirect manner for not doing it,,,,,she herself was nervous when i actually was going in for it....will i ever get a second chance with her????? She has been attracted to me for over 3 months now......I feel like kicking myself for losing the opportunity...I now feel like she thinks i am less of a man......i keep turning her on with sex talk.......but when it came down to this i could not bring out the goods....will she completely lose respect for my masculinity for it????? Will i be one of the 'nice guys'???? Please tell me....i know i am ranting.....is there any chance i could get to kiss her again and will she still think of me as a sexual man????
 
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Sophisticated Gent

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pks391,

Was there any way you were going to have sex in the office? Probably not. She is pissed not because you didn't kiss her. She is pissed because she lost control of the situation. She was leading and you took over. You need to be the alpha and lead the situation. Ask her out on a date. Move her out of the office. Relax and calm down. Be in control.

SGent
 

pks391

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Sophisticated Gent said:
pks391,

Was there any way you were going to have sex in the office? Probably not. She is pissed not because you didn't kiss her. She is pissed because she lost control of the situation. She was leading and you took over. You need to be the alpha and lead the situation. Ask her out on a date. Move her out of the office. Relax and calm down. Be in control.

SGent
Gent,
Thanks for the feedback man, I'll try moving her someplace else next time. I was just unsure whether her respect level for me as a man went down or not after this incident.
 
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