Seat logistics on dates

[Cam87]

One of the main struggles I have is getting into shitty logistics that make it difficult to touch the girl, without it being awkward. I think this has a big impact on escalating, creating a sexual vibe and getting future dates.

This usually comes about when you are sitting down at a table across from one another.

What strategies or locations do you guys find work best to facilitate touch?

I've had the most luck sitting at a bar. Tables are usually the worst, unless you can get a curved booth, but still don't seem ideal.

 

[Just_Dave]

Primer:
It is strange, for some reason girls have told me they like sitting across from me at tables so that they could look me in the eyes and see my face and such.

Fixers: Simple methods
Touching a girl throughout the date by
Examining her nails
Whispering a secret in her ear
Playing with her hair

Being Bold:
You can tell a girl "Hey sit there"
You can sit next to them anyway
You're the man, so you have to lead the interaction mate

Still Across from You:
Grab her hand, use the nail method
Play footsies

Questions, comments, or concerns?!

Just Dave

 

[Marty]

Cam:

I was utterly puzzled by this for a long time, until I realized that the importance of intense, constant eye-contact that Just Dave mentioned, at this point in the proceedings, takes precedence over physical touch.

Once a strong male-female emotional connection is established, the next step is taking it sexual. This requires you to preemptively move the girl at the first sign of an escalation window to a position where you can get hold of her body in some way. My preferred method is walking, though sitting on a park bench after leaving the venue would do just as well.

This exact technique of starting off with dreamy eye-contact in the venue and then quickly moving the girl outside to get physical is illustrated in my FR+s on FitChick and SexySculptress; browse through the reports of more experienced members also for a smoother illustration.

-Marty