Seduction skills can hurt you... At least too many of them
Ok, so you learn and learn seduction, and once you increase your knowledge substantially then you learn some more.
You go out and try to utilize those skills. You discover that girls are now attracted to you because you are doing things differently. You can approach much easier because you have more confidence. You finally get some dates and you understand girls much better. You do your best while utilizing all these skills but still, you encounter a lot of difficulties. So your logical conclusion is that you need to learn and do even more.
But chances are that you are already doing too much - you are trying to get every detail right, you are trying to be the perfect lover, you are looking for the "right seduction"...
Which might be exactly what is causing the problem. There is no "right seduction", it doesn't exist. She may not be looking exactly for flawless lover that she dreamt about for years, but she just want a simple, regular guy. She could care less if you are shy and don't have much experience. There might be some general advice such as moving fast, touching asap and pushing for closure, have abundance mentality, but each seduction is different. Each girl is little bit different in a sense that some may be ready and open to it during the first date, others are more closed and will require more time. Some may like that you are surrounded by many girls, others may be repulsed by that. How much time you have to get her laid, 1 date? 10 dates? 20 dates? Who really cares and who judges? You can still have lots of fun even without getting laid.
As far as seduction, at some point you will find out that most girls are rather simple. On a scale 0-100, your seduction knowledge might be say 80. But you really need only 10, even less to get the girl to the bed. At 30, you can still get her, but once you reach 50 she is gone. It is just too much. She just want to have some fun, and if she likes you she will make it easy for you. Very easy. No seduction needed.
It is like driving a Ferrari on a busy street where you can go only 40. You are barely touching the pedal, and all these horses under the hood are simply wasted. Although your Ferrari is a great car and can go 200 in a couple of seconds, it is just useless because all you need is just a simple ride...
See, if you hit the pedal and increase the speed, she might get alarmed. She just knows that something is wrong. She may not know what, but she just feels it. You are just trying to get this right and that right, and she might get amused by your seduction skills - but she won't sleep with you if she doesn't like you at first place...
You just can't utilize everything that you know. You can't be "perfect" seducer, meaning that you can't use everything that you know at the right time and right place. You have to make mistakes. Who knows, sometimes you just might want to look like a casual Nice Guy who simply wants to get laid, and doesn't know how to go about it. Other times you just might want to let her drive...
Ok, so you learn and learn seduction, and once you increase your knowledge substantially then you learn some more.
You go out and try to utilize those skills. You discover that girls are now attracted to you because you are doing things differently. You can approach much easier because you have more confidence. You finally get some dates and you understand girls much better. You do your best while utilizing all these skills but still, you encounter a lot of difficulties. So your logical conclusion is that you need to learn and do even more.
But chances are that you are already doing too much - you are trying to get every detail right, you are trying to be the perfect lover, you are looking for the "right seduction"...
Which might be exactly what is causing the problem. There is no "right seduction", it doesn't exist. She may not be looking exactly for flawless lover that she dreamt about for years, but she just want a simple, regular guy. She could care less if you are shy and don't have much experience. There might be some general advice such as moving fast, touching asap and pushing for closure, have abundance mentality, but each seduction is different. Each girl is little bit different in a sense that some may be ready and open to it during the first date, others are more closed and will require more time. Some may like that you are surrounded by many girls, others may be repulsed by that. How much time you have to get her laid, 1 date? 10 dates? 20 dates? Who really cares and who judges? You can still have lots of fun even without getting laid.
As far as seduction, at some point you will find out that most girls are rather simple. On a scale 0-100, your seduction knowledge might be say 80. But you really need only 10, even less to get the girl to the bed. At 30, you can still get her, but once you reach 50 she is gone. It is just too much. She just want to have some fun, and if she likes you she will make it easy for you. Very easy. No seduction needed.
It is like driving a Ferrari on a busy street where you can go only 40. You are barely touching the pedal, and all these horses under the hood are simply wasted. Although your Ferrari is a great car and can go 200 in a couple of seconds, it is just useless because all you need is just a simple ride...
See, if you hit the pedal and increase the speed, she might get alarmed. She just knows that something is wrong. She may not know what, but she just feels it. You are just trying to get this right and that right, and she might get amused by your seduction skills - but she won't sleep with you if she doesn't like you at first place...
You just can't utilize everything that you know. You can't be "perfect" seducer, meaning that you can't use everything that you know at the right time and right place. You have to make mistakes. Who knows, sometimes you just might want to look like a casual Nice Guy who simply wants to get laid, and doesn't know how to go about it. Other times you just might want to let her drive...
