Hello Everyone,
I would today launch a thread about a style of seduction that is not much talked about in the community. Which the process where the seducer aims is to make the target fall in love first before getting to intimacy.
In the PUA community, the now-common method of laying a girl or even getting a girlfriend is to get to sex as fast as possible by framing oneself as a lover and actively disqualifying oneself as a boyfriend. In this approach, the girl doesn't have to be in love with you or anything like that to go to bed with you. It's actually better that she doesn't value you that much, otherwise she would not go to bed with you that fast and will make you wait.
From there the relationship can end as a Hook-Up or evolve the FWB or a lovely relationship.
However, another style of seduction has been around and for a very long time. In this style, the seducer (men or women) aims to first make the target fall in love with him or her through a long, sublet, and indirect process. And from there get either sex, marriage, or anything else, now that the target is under their spell so to speak. This is actually how girls can make us fall in love with them.
The Video Blow illustrate this style where the Duke The Lauzun make Anne Marise Louise d'Orleans fall in lobe with him without a single fuck
It's a pity to not see this style talked about in the community (or maybe it is and I failed to notice it). I see a lot of potential with it especially when it comes to seducing girls from Social Circle and Workplace. Or if you want a particular girl for marriage but would not be able to go for the fuck first, like if you live in a very conservative society where this may not be possible due to lifestyle or logistics.
My question here is why this style is not talked about in the community? Is it because in the PUA world we have other objectives, aka very fast sex? Is it because the style is actually to time and energy-consuming? Or is it because our world is now too fast-paced for such a long and subtle process? Or it's obsolete? Or this method is actually bullshit and actually doesn't work, it's just a legend. For me, it's way too manipulative and way to mentally consuming I admit.
Let me know your thoughts about all of this
I would today launch a thread about a style of seduction that is not much talked about in the community. Which the process where the seducer aims is to make the target fall in love first before getting to intimacy.
In the PUA community, the now-common method of laying a girl or even getting a girlfriend is to get to sex as fast as possible by framing oneself as a lover and actively disqualifying oneself as a boyfriend. In this approach, the girl doesn't have to be in love with you or anything like that to go to bed with you. It's actually better that she doesn't value you that much, otherwise she would not go to bed with you that fast and will make you wait.
From there the relationship can end as a Hook-Up or evolve the FWB or a lovely relationship.
However, another style of seduction has been around and for a very long time. In this style, the seducer (men or women) aims to first make the target fall in love with him or her through a long, sublet, and indirect process. And from there get either sex, marriage, or anything else, now that the target is under their spell so to speak. This is actually how girls can make us fall in love with them.
"Seduction is a processof penetration: initially penetrating the target's mind, their first point of defense. Once seducers have penetrated the mind, making the target fantasize about them, it is easy to lower resistance and create physical surrender." Robert Greene the Art of Seduction
This is style of very indirect game is presented in Robert Greene's book The Art of Seduction or in more ancient works like Ovid's Art of Love. It's the style employed by seducers of the past like Cleopatra, Casanova or even in works of fiction like Soren Kierkegaard Seducer's Diary.'At all cost, resist the temptation to hurry to the climax of your seduction, or to improvise. You are not being seductive but selfish. Everything in
daily life is hurried and improvised, and you need to offer something different. By taking your time and respecting the seductive process you will not
only break down your victim's resistance, you will make them fall in love.'Robert Greene the Art of Seduction
The Video Blow illustrate this style where the Duke The Lauzun make Anne Marise Louise d'Orleans fall in lobe with him without a single fuck
It's a pity to not see this style talked about in the community (or maybe it is and I failed to notice it). I see a lot of potential with it especially when it comes to seducing girls from Social Circle and Workplace. Or if you want a particular girl for marriage but would not be able to go for the fuck first, like if you live in a very conservative society where this may not be possible due to lifestyle or logistics.
My question here is why this style is not talked about in the community? Is it because in the PUA world we have other objectives, aka very fast sex? Is it because the style is actually to time and energy-consuming? Or is it because our world is now too fast-paced for such a long and subtle process? Or it's obsolete? Or this method is actually bullshit and actually doesn't work, it's just a legend. For me, it's way too manipulative and way to mentally consuming I admit.
Let me know your thoughts about all of this