Hey guys.am gonna put this thread here because l cant think of where it should go, kindly change it to a more appropriate place if necessary
l have been trying to head out in the past two weeks but though l have gotten a few numbers, nothing has come out of them. At first l thought that it was just normal game, you win some you loose some, but yesterday something happened that opened my eyes to another possibility.
l had organized to hook up with three different girls. however, at the end of the day, l had met none at all. where normally l would say it wasnt meant to happen, l saw a pattern emerge. I organize a meet, we have say its gonna be such and such a day and such and such a time but then once l get there, l dont push any harder. let me explain. on the third girl. she said she would be free from 4 in the afternoon so normally l thought she would come over, then l started getting nervous about her coming over, then l started hoping she wouldn't. so 4 rolls in , and l know l should check up but l say nothing, just lazing around waiting for time to pass saying to myself "shes supposed to come over" and l just know this is not gonna help me. she told me to go get her from our uni(l live like 15 minutes away by bus) and funny enough the other girl had told me the same thing, but my body just didnt want to push itself
what am trying to say is, l dont push for the lay. l dont know how to get over this huddle, l havent tried to pull anyone in ages, and when l try l give her massive lee way to say no. l have lost lots of chicks because of this and its very frustrating. l would really appreciate any advice.
l have been trying to head out in the past two weeks but though l have gotten a few numbers, nothing has come out of them. At first l thought that it was just normal game, you win some you loose some, but yesterday something happened that opened my eyes to another possibility.
l had organized to hook up with three different girls. however, at the end of the day, l had met none at all. where normally l would say it wasnt meant to happen, l saw a pattern emerge. I organize a meet, we have say its gonna be such and such a day and such and such a time but then once l get there, l dont push any harder. let me explain. on the third girl. she said she would be free from 4 in the afternoon so normally l thought she would come over, then l started getting nervous about her coming over, then l started hoping she wouldn't. so 4 rolls in , and l know l should check up but l say nothing, just lazing around waiting for time to pass saying to myself "shes supposed to come over" and l just know this is not gonna help me. she told me to go get her from our uni(l live like 15 minutes away by bus) and funny enough the other girl had told me the same thing, but my body just didnt want to push itself
what am trying to say is, l dont push for the lay. l dont know how to get over this huddle, l havent tried to pull anyone in ages, and when l try l give her massive lee way to say no. l have lost lots of chicks because of this and its very frustrating. l would really appreciate any advice.