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I was at the park, approaching in the evening.
I opened a girl sitting on a bench reading, with the usual stack: an observation about how parks are relaxing, then deep diving her on the feelings she gets from reading. She was hooked so I locked in and chatted for a bit with her.
We started vibing so I brought out indirect connection speak, which was quite stimulating to her and ramped things up.
Then I qualified her. Screened her on openness, told her I liked women who are open when she said yes. I noticed a brief look of attraction flash across her face when I did this. She liked it.
Things were going pretty good. I decided to speak on some sexual topics. I've been practicing the mirror gambit so I brought that out. Only got to the part about how female sexuality is repressed before I forgot what to say next. She responded very well and got turned on for a bit. This is a common reaction to the beginning half of this gambit, I realize the second half is all about extending this arousal.
Anyways after that I actually crashed and lost control, she started losing attraction for me when I ran through multiple topics way too quickly. She ended up leaving.
I opened a girl sitting on a bench reading, with the usual stack: an observation about how parks are relaxing, then deep diving her on the feelings she gets from reading. She was hooked so I locked in and chatted for a bit with her.
We started vibing so I brought out indirect connection speak, which was quite stimulating to her and ramped things up.
Then I qualified her. Screened her on openness, told her I liked women who are open when she said yes. I noticed a brief look of attraction flash across her face when I did this. She liked it.
Things were going pretty good. I decided to speak on some sexual topics. I've been practicing the mirror gambit so I brought that out. Only got to the part about how female sexuality is repressed before I forgot what to say next. She responded very well and got turned on for a bit. This is a common reaction to the beginning half of this gambit, I realize the second half is all about extending this arousal.
Anyways after that I actually crashed and lost control, she started losing attraction for me when I ran through multiple topics way too quickly. She ended up leaving.
This is how the majority of my reading sets on park benches are currently going. Can easily hook, escalate the vibe, and turn them on. But I'm failing to isolate. Although I didn’t go for isolation in this set, all the following sets since then say no to my isolation attempts. I realize I'm missing some windows and asking at the wrong time as well as phrasing the ask wrong.
Here’s how I’m gonna approach the ask:
1. [OPTIONAL] Heavy stimulator to quickly amp her up if need be: variation of “who you look like.”
2. Light stimulating invite: "Did you know there’s this really interesting place down the street…it’s always AWESOME at this time of the night…lets go there. We’ll get something to drink and you can tell me more about X aspect of yourself."
Here's 3 different times I'll try it out to gain reference points:
1. Shortly after the hook
2. Post hook, after the 1st or 2nd escalation of the vibe
2. When my instincts are telling me to
Homework: Figure out if I should wait to work with sexual arousal till after I isolate
Here’s how I’m gonna approach the ask:
1. [OPTIONAL] Heavy stimulator to quickly amp her up if need be: variation of “who you look like.”
2. Light stimulating invite: "Did you know there’s this really interesting place down the street…it’s always AWESOME at this time of the night…lets go there. We’ll get something to drink and you can tell me more about X aspect of yourself."
Here's 3 different times I'll try it out to gain reference points:
1. Shortly after the hook
2. Post hook, after the 1st or 2nd escalation of the vibe
2. When my instincts are telling me to
Homework: Figure out if I should wait to work with sexual arousal till after I isolate
