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Mr.Rob

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Hello gentlemen I have a good write up with a few takeaways that I think will prove to be of benefit for you today. This girl was by no means highly attractive and just a very average girl across the board. However I displayed skill in seducing her and was able to give her an amazing experience that she won't soon forget, that of which I do take pride in.

To give you an idea she is shorter (probably 5'5"), of Indian descent with tan skin, cute enough face and short black hair, and wears glasses. She is 18 years old, highly submissive, and also quite impressionable. The main point to note here is that I am MUCH higher value than this girl and thus a valuable asset in her eyes.

The Meet

My wing and I are walking back to our cars from a college bar and see a group of three girls walking towards us. We are walking through a parking lot that is roped off because it was recently repaved (however foot traffic is allowed). You must walk through the roped off parking lot to get to the bar so we know they are going to cross our path. For an opener we use the blocked off parking lot as a fun excuse to put ourselves in a position of authority.

My wing and I: "Excuse me girls but you are trespassing and we're going to have to take you in"

They buy into this frame readily and we approach the two girls we like and continue our role playing banter. We have good fundamentals and they are actively touching and looking up Bamby eyed at us. I look over and my wing is going to town on his girl making out with her instantly which inspires me to step my game up and pull my girl into me and whisper dirty shenanigans into her ear.

She is eating it up but recall that there are 3 of girls which means we have one that is unoccupied and is not at all happy. The friend without a man is getting butthurt so she takes an immediate disliking towards me and attempts to break up the romance between my potential lover and I. I sense she is jealous and give her some attention but it is too late and she continues to try to pull my girl away from me. However, as I mentioned in the introduction, my value in comparison to this group of girls is exponentially high and thus my girl is unwilling to separate from me. She even frames my giving attention to the left out friend as me trying to forge a threesome between the girls (she's taking making things sexual into her own hands now).

I end up getting her number and parting ways as the friend drags both of the girls away from us... my wing who was not as agile to the environmental factors here was unable to get his girls number, however he was satisfied with the validation hit.

I text her and she immediately texts me back commending me on the job well done I did patrolling the parking lot.

The next day we sort out logistics for us to grab a coffee with one another the next evening.

Day 2

Here I am going to meet up with her and I realize my greatest asset to utilize in this social dynamic is that she sees me as an authority figure and I have high value relevant to her.

We are meeting at the Starbucks on campus and I walk into the shop with an air of confidence and control. My movements are slow and deliberate and my vibe is dominant.

I meet her and I physically touch the length of her right arm and she becomes excited by my presence. We exchange pleasantries and I tell her we are going to go over and grab a drink.

I lead her over to the barista counter and order a cup of hot water to make my own tea and the guy at the counter asks "are you sure you don't want anything else?" knowing that I am with a date. I ensure him the water is all I need and step aside for my girl to order her drink. I look back to her and she has this look of shock on her face and appears tongue tied for words and eventually says "I guess.. I'll pay?" and tentatively steps forward. Now I am typically very much against paying to be in a woman's company for even something as trivial as a cup of coffee but I see how high my value is compared to her and quickly make a judgement call to pay for her drink in an effort to make myself more attainable (otherwise she's not even good enough for me to spend a trivial amount of money on her for a coffee).

Her face lights up with a wave of relief and is happy that I made such a decision.

Next I lead her outside and we go sit at a table together.

Here we engage in banter, I spellbind her with my convictions and opinions of the world, and do a bit of deep diving in between for good measure. I do about 60% of the talking which is more or less just me listening to my own ideas, wisdom, and dark jokes and her loving the energy that I am giving off. I notice multiple times she looks down in submission and I realize that she has fully surrendered to my ideals and leadership. After about 45 minutes of conversation I decide to move her closer to my car by telling her that we are going to go on a walk. I lead her by the small of her back down a grassy field that lies adjacent to the Starbucks on our campus. Here I bring the conversation a bit more sexual by asking her about her sexual fantasies in a very ordinary and calm manner as if we were talking about the weather.

She goes on to tell me how she thinks it would be hot for a police officer to handcuff her and have his way with her in his police car. I bring this conversation thread up as to let her know this is still a very sexual interaction and to excite her emotions a bit for the transition to my car. I then immediately cut this conversation thread so as to not over excite her in a place where we cannot escalate.

Next I tell her that we're going to go listen to music at my house in a bit and that I will put her in presiding DJ for the night. Then I lead her by the hand to my car and make sure to keep things light and fun during this transition as to up her comfort levels so she doesn't put up resistance.

We get in the car successfully and get back to my house.

Escalation

I take her inside the house and immediately my guy roommate is in our presence which could pose for a somewhat awkward moment of her potentially feeling judged for being at my place. I pull her close to me with her facing me head on and tell my roommate "This girl has taken me hostage and is demanding that she is going to rob us for everything we have. Being the highly submissive man that I am I found no other choice than to allow her to take advantage of us." (this is all said with penetrating eye contact at my girl, without breaking circle, and dominant body language so the sarcasm would be easily understood). They both find this funny and I believe it was a good display of social grace to a potentially awkward moment (exp: do you introduce the ONS girl to your roommate? Do you ignore completely the roommate?).

I then lead the girl into my room where I find some music to put on and she makes herself comfortable by checking out the different ornaments and objects in my room.

Soon enough I get on top of her on my bed and graze my beard across her face. She tries to kiss me but I do not allow it and tease her by kissing her neck. I tell her to bite my neck and she complies only afterwards informing me that we are not going to have sex. I tell her re-assuredly in a matter of fact tone "Yeah I know" as if I planned for us not to have sex but there is an obvious undertone that we both know it's bullshit.

I pull away and lay on my back just as Drexel instructs as to not reward bad behavior by continuing to kiss and grope her. I pull all physical contact away and let her come to me.

We start chatting as usual again and soon enough initiate another bout of passion towards her which she engages in. I go to take off her leggings and she doesn't allow me and asks "are you angry at me?"

I pull away all physical contact once again and icily tell her "I don't feel anything". She tells me that I am a dick and I shrug my shoulders and give an appropriate facial expression to match.

She is attracted to this non reactive attitude and leans in closer to me as I am laying down. I then go in hard by bringing up a super sexual sex story from Nancy Friday's "My Secret Garden" about a 13 year old girl who masturbates in her parents car after getting aroused after seeing a horse with an erect penis. She is turned on by the story and I then inquire upon her sexual fantasies in which she divulges to me readily. She begins to tell me she has fantasies of getting a bad grade in a class and having to seduce her professor in order to get a passing grade.

An important note here on sex talk that Drexel Scott pointed out to me is that you need to get her to talk about herself in a sexual light and not just listen to you talk about sex. Having the girl talk about herself in a sexual manner takes the judgement away (she's telling you bluntly) and it also turns her on because she is imagining whatever sexual shit she fantasizes about. Plus she no time ever in her life discusses this content with another man.

I then ask her who would make the first move in the seduction of her fantasies. She tells me it would have to be her. I tell her to show me how she would do it. She starts touching my chest and gets her face close to mine to kiss me. I lift her off the bed and back her into my desk which I then lay her on. I start aggressively making out with her and start taking her leggings off in which she puts no resistance to. She is now laying on my desk with panties on and I am fingering her as she moans on her back. I take my pants off and she looks at my cock as if I were a surgeon about to operate on her.

I put a condom on real quick and before she has a moment to say anything I insert myself inside of her and she gives a moan of relief and bliss.

Keep it pimpin gentlemen.

-Rob
 

Bete Noire

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Hey Mr.Rob,

Great lay report, learning so much more than I anticipated from these! Particularly the 'Remove all contact' as to not reward the BS LMR ^^ I was wondering though what made you realise you were way more high value than she expected? I think knowing this might help to build confidence chattin' to girls in the future. With the not rewarding the negative progression back at your place, is there a way to ensure that it goes smoothly. If she called you a dick and then just lay there, would you do anything differently to bring it back?

Thanks!

- Rob
 

Mr.Rob

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Robster1919 said:
I was wondering though what made you realise you were way more high value than she expected?

I just knew I was cooler than her and she thought the same. I was able to tell this because of the subtleties in the way she invested in me and how hard she was working to impress me.

For example after telling me her beliefs on xyz topic I would then relay my belief (which countered hers) only to have her agree and subscribe to my belief after just holding the opposite opinion.

Also when I met her she was investing into me much more than I was in her. I know I'm hotter, smarter, wiser, and more awesome than her by a longshot. Not being arrogant because I'm not that hot, smart, wise, or cool but in comparison I could tell there was an imbalance between us.

Robster1919 said:
is there a way to ensure that it goes smoothly. If she called you a dick and then just lay there, would you do anything differently to bring it back?

Hopefully it doesn't go "smoothly". If my actions created drama between us and stirred her emotions that would mean it's having an emotional impact on her and she would be revealing that she is more invested than she lets on. If there is a "hot/cold" emotional response you can easily use that to your advantage to ramp up sexual tension and turn her on.

An example would be if she's giving drama you can say "whatever dismissed". She might say "what the fuck you can't dismiss me!". You: "Dismissed". Then maybe she says "why are you such a dick?!". Then pull her into you, pin her against a wall, and give her deep eye contact and say "I'm going to tie you up and spank you if you keep up your petty drama". She'll become turned on and say some more provocative shit in which case you then have a green light to escalate hard.

However on the other hand if she just laid there and was without much emotion that's when things get tricky. I believe the issue here is that there is no sexual tension and she is not viewing you as a sexual threat at that moment in time.

The solution there is to find a way to turn her on and get her lusting for you which can prove to be quite difficult.

Hope that answers your questions.
 

Bete Noire

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Mr. Rob,

You are awesome! This sort of open minded awareness to situations is just so good! When a girl is trying hard to get you to invest and she's trying to impress, then you are definitely higher status - I'll keep a look out for this in future interactions.

The true power the second paragraph shows is so cool. My reaction in that situation would definitely have been way beta. Showing her that you control the emotional pace of the interaction just reeks of high value.

Thanks for the advice ^^
 

007

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Hola Mr.Rob!

Great LR right there :) I loved how u handled the misbehavior and used Drexel's advice on sex listening rather than sex talk :D The story about the 13old masturbating because of a horse penis is some extreme shit though hahahaha


This, Is some smooth seduction lasagna brother.

This was beautiful (IMHO):

"This girl has taken me hostage and is demanding that she is going to rob us for everything we have. Being the highly submissive man that I am I found no other choice than to allow her to take advantage of us." (this is all said with penetrating eye contact at my girl, without breaking circle,and dominant body language so the sarcasm would be easily understood). They both find this funny and I believe it was a good display of social grace to a potentially awkward moment (exp: do you introduce the ONS girl to your roommate? Do you ignore completely the roommate?).

I don't really know about introducing the ONS girl... I guess it depends on many factors like: is she social circle? can you risk it (in terms of time, energy and how secured the fuck You feel is) ? Where on the horny scale and ready for sex she is? and many more probably..

The second dilemma You handled perfectly, I believe.. You did not break the circle and kept a strong eye contact, body language and displayed confidence+dominance+social grace...
ABSOLUTELY beautiful brother!! :D and even without braking circle You did not ignore, You acknowledged him by said something that engaged both of them...in a socially calibrated way as well.
Marvelous!


Keep them coming boss !!

007
 

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Lovely report

I love the structure and detail you use

It's a good read but most importantly I'm actually learning and reaffirming information which is always handy

Thanks
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

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Great reminder of reward during LMR.

I've changed my entire interactions after that reminder a couple of days ago just from reading this. Good shit, thanks Rob.
 
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