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BACKGROUND:
I went to Las Vegas for a job interview that lasted three days and four nights. Spent part of the time with friends, but also had a few nights entirely on my own and decided that going out in the city would be a good learning opportunity to try out my game and see what happens.
CLUBBING IN LAS VEGAS (APPROACH):
I went clubbing by myself on a Thursday night. Inside the club, it was fairly packed. I befriended these two Britons and we went around talking to women. There were two blond girls standing near the dance floor, and I introduce myself to one. She and her friend are visiting from Denmark and are in Las Vegas for one night, but will be leaving for New York the next day. Lucky for me, I live in NY, so aside from the usual banter and talk, I suggest we meet in New York the next week. We exchange contact info very early, and then I try to get a bit more physical with them by touching them on their lower back as I talk. Eventually we break off, but I run into them 20min later at the bar. This time, after a cigarette and some more banter, I suggest we go dance. We move to the dance floor, but neither of these women are really feeling it. I try to be a little more sensual, but my advances are rejected. That's ok, I think, and I go and find other women to talk to.
On the way home that night, I texted the girl and said it was nice to meet her. We bantered a bit and then left it there. The next day I tried to connect with her, but no response. I said we should meet in New York, see you then, but did not speak to hear again then.
FIRST MEETING:
The following weekend, I get a text message out of the blue that her friend left for Denmark and she thinks we should get together in the week while she is here in New York. I oblige, and suggest Saturday afternoon. This works for us.
Because I was tipsy when I met her in the club, I wasn't sure what she'd look like in person. The first impression was interesting: she's 37 and definitely shows some age, but she also takes excellent care of her body. She's as skinny as a typical 21 year old, 5'4", with blond hair and light blue eyes, and has large boobs. Never the less, I don't show much interest in the way of flirting or hitting on her.
Our interaction is friendly and very relaxed, but soon enough we get coffee, then a beer, and start talking about our lives. She starts to really open up to me about her sexuality, and her last relationship. It turns out that she is bisexual, was in a relationship with a man for five years and broke up recently, and is looking to date women now to change the pace. I don't react to any of this, and keep asking about her sexuality, how and when she discovered it, and what the past was like. How do dating women and men differ? It was a very casual but open conversation, and she seems to enjoy that. I talk about the area I live in, and what it's like to live in the suburbs. We start talking about sex a little bit, and I mention that sex while high is really fun. She is interested in smoking with me, because she thinks that it would be fun to see my area and also get high and chat. I already had plans with someone else that evening, so I suggest that she comes over in three days and also sees my town. After a few hours, we part ways.
SECOND MEETING:
I was working late the day we were supposed to hang out, so I rescheduled for a Wednesday night. She still wanted to come over and see my area, so we meet in the city and take the train together to my town. On the ride, I tell her that the last train back is at 12:46, but she is welcome to stay the night if she wants, so that she can see more of the area in the morning. Everything had already closed in my area when we got there, and after we walked around the town I suggested we go home and smoke.
At home, there is a hint of sexual tension, but I still haven't made any move. We start smoking and watch tv, and we are both on the same couch but at opposite ends. She is facing me a bit, and I'm facing the tv. It's a bit cold in the house so she has a jacket on, but is still relaxed. Out of the blue, I offer a massage after half an hour, and she tells me that she might want one later before leaving. We cook some food, and go back to tv and smoking. This time, I offer a massage and she accepts. I give very good massages, and she clearly likes it a lot, exclaiming "it's very nice." Her back is facing me, but I don't make any moves still. We go back to watching tv.
LATE NIGHT:
Around 12:30, I bring up the fact that the last train will leave in fifteen minutes, but that she can stay overnight if she wants. I ask her what she wants to do. She thinks about it and decides it is better to stay and go back in the morning. I start talking about where she can sleep, and give the option of my room or the guest room.
It's now almost one, the last train has passed and she is definitely staying over. We are both tired and talk about going to sleep. I ask her how she liked the massage, and she replies that it was really good. I ask if she would like another. She then says, with a very straight face, "Are we going to try to have sex tonight?" I think for two seconds and reply "Do you want to have sex? I think that could be fun. What do you think?" She replies "yes, we could try it," and then starts telling me what she wants to do and how she wants it. First, she tells me she is really tired, but is down for it if my room is warm. She also doesn't like it crazy rough, and doesn't like demeaning sex like fingers in mouths, etc. She also doesn't like anal. I oblige, and the ground rules are set. My heart is beating very fast; I've always wanted to have a night with a woman a lot older than myself.
Interestingly enough, up to this point the most physical thing we had done together was kiss on the cheek to say hello, hug, and massage. We hadn't kissed on the lips, or done anything physical. I think that I definitely could have, and gotten to this point faster if I did, but I also frankly didn't care if sex happened or not.
We went down to my room, and she wanted some time to get ready. I asked her a little more about what she likes and doesn't like, and we talked about our favorite positions. I then went to the bed and got in, and she came completely naked a few minutes later. Finally, we kissed after she was in bed with me.
SEX:
This woman is twelve years older than me (I'm 25, she is 37) and she clearly knows what she's doing. She keeps her body in very good shape, it felt like being with a 21-year old and she had huge boobs. I started by simple kissing and caressing, which she really started to get into when I moved from boobs and body to her pussy. She put her hand over mine to help guide my fingers inside her and move the way she wanted. After ten minutes, she exclaimed "is it okay if i sit on you," and I happily obliged. It was really fun to watch her get on; this was my first time with a woman that much older, and it was nice to watch her match my own rhythm and technique. We did it for an hour and a half in many different positions before both of us were tired and ready for sleep, and she said she had two big orgasms and a couple of little ones in that time. After a while I decided to go rougher and harder even though she told me not to earlier in the night, but she also seemed to enjoy this more. At one point, when i took her from behind, she even told me i should fuck her hard if i wanted. Why, certainly dear! No problem!
The biggest turn on was definitely that she took charge of the sex more than most girls do, and even adjusted herself with my body to get the best angles for her pleasure. I guess experience matters.
THE END:
In the morning she gave me a hand job in the fifteen minutes I had before I had to get ready to go to work. It was nice; there wasn't enough time for round two of sex since we woke up pretty late. We got ready to get out of there. Took a train into the city and parted ways with a small kiss. On the train, she told me that she hasn't been with anyone in five months since ending a five year relationship, and that this experience was "very, very nice" and also different from what she is used to. Most of her experiences have been very passionate from the get go; in our case, we didn't do anything till the very end. Since we exchanged emails, I hope that we will have a second round when either of us is nearby. She definitely plans on visiting the US again.
I was very nonchalant about the whole encounter, and didn't really even care if it happened or not (also why I didn't make a move early on). This is partly because I am seeing someone right now that satisfies me, but this was nevertheless a very cool experience.
What do you guys think?
I went to Las Vegas for a job interview that lasted three days and four nights. Spent part of the time with friends, but also had a few nights entirely on my own and decided that going out in the city would be a good learning opportunity to try out my game and see what happens.
CLUBBING IN LAS VEGAS (APPROACH):
I went clubbing by myself on a Thursday night. Inside the club, it was fairly packed. I befriended these two Britons and we went around talking to women. There were two blond girls standing near the dance floor, and I introduce myself to one. She and her friend are visiting from Denmark and are in Las Vegas for one night, but will be leaving for New York the next day. Lucky for me, I live in NY, so aside from the usual banter and talk, I suggest we meet in New York the next week. We exchange contact info very early, and then I try to get a bit more physical with them by touching them on their lower back as I talk. Eventually we break off, but I run into them 20min later at the bar. This time, after a cigarette and some more banter, I suggest we go dance. We move to the dance floor, but neither of these women are really feeling it. I try to be a little more sensual, but my advances are rejected. That's ok, I think, and I go and find other women to talk to.
On the way home that night, I texted the girl and said it was nice to meet her. We bantered a bit and then left it there. The next day I tried to connect with her, but no response. I said we should meet in New York, see you then, but did not speak to hear again then.
FIRST MEETING:
The following weekend, I get a text message out of the blue that her friend left for Denmark and she thinks we should get together in the week while she is here in New York. I oblige, and suggest Saturday afternoon. This works for us.
Because I was tipsy when I met her in the club, I wasn't sure what she'd look like in person. The first impression was interesting: she's 37 and definitely shows some age, but she also takes excellent care of her body. She's as skinny as a typical 21 year old, 5'4", with blond hair and light blue eyes, and has large boobs. Never the less, I don't show much interest in the way of flirting or hitting on her.
Our interaction is friendly and very relaxed, but soon enough we get coffee, then a beer, and start talking about our lives. She starts to really open up to me about her sexuality, and her last relationship. It turns out that she is bisexual, was in a relationship with a man for five years and broke up recently, and is looking to date women now to change the pace. I don't react to any of this, and keep asking about her sexuality, how and when she discovered it, and what the past was like. How do dating women and men differ? It was a very casual but open conversation, and she seems to enjoy that. I talk about the area I live in, and what it's like to live in the suburbs. We start talking about sex a little bit, and I mention that sex while high is really fun. She is interested in smoking with me, because she thinks that it would be fun to see my area and also get high and chat. I already had plans with someone else that evening, so I suggest that she comes over in three days and also sees my town. After a few hours, we part ways.
SECOND MEETING:
I was working late the day we were supposed to hang out, so I rescheduled for a Wednesday night. She still wanted to come over and see my area, so we meet in the city and take the train together to my town. On the ride, I tell her that the last train back is at 12:46, but she is welcome to stay the night if she wants, so that she can see more of the area in the morning. Everything had already closed in my area when we got there, and after we walked around the town I suggested we go home and smoke.
At home, there is a hint of sexual tension, but I still haven't made any move. We start smoking and watch tv, and we are both on the same couch but at opposite ends. She is facing me a bit, and I'm facing the tv. It's a bit cold in the house so she has a jacket on, but is still relaxed. Out of the blue, I offer a massage after half an hour, and she tells me that she might want one later before leaving. We cook some food, and go back to tv and smoking. This time, I offer a massage and she accepts. I give very good massages, and she clearly likes it a lot, exclaiming "it's very nice." Her back is facing me, but I don't make any moves still. We go back to watching tv.
LATE NIGHT:
Around 12:30, I bring up the fact that the last train will leave in fifteen minutes, but that she can stay overnight if she wants. I ask her what she wants to do. She thinks about it and decides it is better to stay and go back in the morning. I start talking about where she can sleep, and give the option of my room or the guest room.
It's now almost one, the last train has passed and she is definitely staying over. We are both tired and talk about going to sleep. I ask her how she liked the massage, and she replies that it was really good. I ask if she would like another. She then says, with a very straight face, "Are we going to try to have sex tonight?" I think for two seconds and reply "Do you want to have sex? I think that could be fun. What do you think?" She replies "yes, we could try it," and then starts telling me what she wants to do and how she wants it. First, she tells me she is really tired, but is down for it if my room is warm. She also doesn't like it crazy rough, and doesn't like demeaning sex like fingers in mouths, etc. She also doesn't like anal. I oblige, and the ground rules are set. My heart is beating very fast; I've always wanted to have a night with a woman a lot older than myself.
Interestingly enough, up to this point the most physical thing we had done together was kiss on the cheek to say hello, hug, and massage. We hadn't kissed on the lips, or done anything physical. I think that I definitely could have, and gotten to this point faster if I did, but I also frankly didn't care if sex happened or not.
We went down to my room, and she wanted some time to get ready. I asked her a little more about what she likes and doesn't like, and we talked about our favorite positions. I then went to the bed and got in, and she came completely naked a few minutes later. Finally, we kissed after she was in bed with me.
SEX:
This woman is twelve years older than me (I'm 25, she is 37) and she clearly knows what she's doing. She keeps her body in very good shape, it felt like being with a 21-year old and she had huge boobs. I started by simple kissing and caressing, which she really started to get into when I moved from boobs and body to her pussy. She put her hand over mine to help guide my fingers inside her and move the way she wanted. After ten minutes, she exclaimed "is it okay if i sit on you," and I happily obliged. It was really fun to watch her get on; this was my first time with a woman that much older, and it was nice to watch her match my own rhythm and technique. We did it for an hour and a half in many different positions before both of us were tired and ready for sleep, and she said she had two big orgasms and a couple of little ones in that time. After a while I decided to go rougher and harder even though she told me not to earlier in the night, but she also seemed to enjoy this more. At one point, when i took her from behind, she even told me i should fuck her hard if i wanted. Why, certainly dear! No problem!
The biggest turn on was definitely that she took charge of the sex more than most girls do, and even adjusted herself with my body to get the best angles for her pleasure. I guess experience matters.
THE END:
In the morning she gave me a hand job in the fifteen minutes I had before I had to get ready to go to work. It was nice; there wasn't enough time for round two of sex since we woke up pretty late. We got ready to get out of there. Took a train into the city and parted ways with a small kiss. On the train, she told me that she hasn't been with anyone in five months since ending a five year relationship, and that this experience was "very, very nice" and also different from what she is used to. Most of her experiences have been very passionate from the get go; in our case, we didn't do anything till the very end. Since we exchanged emails, I hope that we will have a second round when either of us is nearby. She definitely plans on visiting the US again.
I was very nonchalant about the whole encounter, and didn't really even care if it happened or not (also why I didn't make a move early on). This is partly because I am seeing someone right now that satisfies me, but this was nevertheless a very cool experience.
What do you guys think?
