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So yes, finally, I did it. After moaning, complaining and bitching about how I haven't been laid in a month and only been on 2 dates in the last month, and after years of thinking blondes are harder than brunettes, latinas, black girls etc, I banged a hot blonde. However this is probably due to my mentality that has shifted, as I realise they're no different to all these other girls. What's more, it was probably the smoothest seduction I've ever done, with the exception of the 2 flakes beforehand. No LMR whatsoever. But once on the date, it was pretty easy. No last minute resistance, no bullshit.
So I met her in town in early evening the day before new years eve. I wasn't dressed great seeing how my classy stylish clothes are a blazer and shirt I wear in the summer/spring and indoors. Dressed in that stupid michelin man black coat, I wasn't dressed great (i know, i still need to up my dress style for this winter, will get a nice coat and scarf tomorrow) but still I approached, as approach is better than no approach. So I see her walking towards me, looking sexy with high heels and very stylish furry coat and stopped her with my intent saying "excuse me, hey, you have the sexiest style I've seen on a girl in a long time, nice coat, body" something like that, i cant remember. She took to it well and we started talking. I find out she dances and does the tango, salsa. I say that's really sexy. Then get her number after a couple minutes conversation saying we should meet up for a drink sometime. She agrees then we go on with our days. I then send her the initial text a few hours later. She replies in the early hours of new years day saying it was good to meet me. We exchange some rapport over text but stops replying one text before I was going to ask her to meet up. I leave it and wait for her to get back to me, which she does 2 days later saying her phone broke over new years. Could have been true, could have been bullshit. Who knows, who cares. Anyway I then ask her if she wants to meet up but she says she cant at the moment because she's busy with work or something, can't remember what the situation was.
Anyway, I send her a text like a few days later telling her I was off to spain (which was true, but made it also seem like I had an exciting life) and that it would be good to meet her or something, cant remember the exact details, but she did bite and responded saying how it was cool I was going to spain and that she was on holiday until the 18th so we could meet before then. I said i'm not free before I go away but we can meet when i come back and then she can tell me all about her new job. I come back and she agrees to meet up. On the day of the date, i sent her a text saying:
Me: We still on for 7 tonight?
No reply. I think it's off. So don't bother getting ready. Then she texts me 6 minutes to 7 saying:
Girl: Hey I'm so sorry I forgot! I've been in Bristol training the past few days I'm just heading back to Cardiff now x
To which I replied saying something like it's cool, don't worry about it, these things happen
Girl: I'm exhausted it's been quite full on!
To which I replied something like "well good the weekend's arrived so you can have your marathon lie in"
Girl: Can't wait to chill out for a few days! Have you got much planned this weekend?
To which I replied something like "yeah going to write some music, going out tomorrow night, and sunday who knows"
Girl: Sounds awesome! Is that just something you enjoy doing or?
To which i replied that I really loved doing it but it's also something I'm aiming to do professionally and also a new business i'm working on
Girl: That's awesome!
Didn't bother rescheduling there because as Chase said in one of his articles, it's better to leave it to later so they have a chance to relax instead of stressing about the next meet so instead I texted her 2 days after the flake on the sunday. In the text I said something like "hey! hope you've had a great weekend and had a good rest after an exhausting week! fancy meeting up sometime this week? Then she texted me back saying
Girl: Hey! I've had a great weekend thanks, it's been good to relax! That sounds great, I finish work at 5pm all week so anytime is great
We arrange the time place. Then she flakes a second time saying:
Girl: I'm gonna have to be a pain in the ass and ask if we can do tomorrow instead? I'm a nightmare i'm so sorry!
Once again, I say it's ok and i totally understand. Remember, girls dont want a guy who gets angry or reactive as it's a sign of insecurity.I said I couldnt do tomorrow (trying to not come across as too available is always a good thing) but proposed thursday or friday. She says thursday is good and that she can meet me at 6. Then on the day of the date she tries to push it back to 7. I say it's fine as a) you must make it easy for the girl to accept b) it's convenient for me anyway and it gives me more time to do more of what i want.
So we meet up, she apologises for flaking and I shrug it off as no big deal. We arrive at the bar and there are no couches, only chairs, so we sit opposite each other. We chat and talk about a variety of things. I make sure to deep dive and relate to her as much as i can. She says she wants to move down to Cardiff bay. I say that's cool, good opportunity to sunbathe in the summer in her bikini. Trying to be sexual here, getting sexual in conversations is one of my weaknesses due to lack of imagination but i'm working on it. We have one drink then head to the next bar as I know there are ALWAYS couches there so i can get physical very quickly. On the way there we talk about how cold it is at the minute and i respond by saying it'll be better during the summer, the less layers to wear the better with a smirk and change of tone of voice (another of my attempts to get sexual but i think she got the point. We get to the venue, i make her pay for the next round and we get on the couches. I start doing kino on her, touching her shoulders then working down to her thighs, caressing her thigs, then talk about her hair, i ask if she's a natural blond while i caress and stroke her hair. Then i ask about her earings and whether there's a story behind it. She says no. then she says how "her last bus is at 11pm"
This was it, escalation window. It was a massive 2 hours away so a clear invitation to fuck. She says she wants to go to the toilet so goes to find a toilet in the bar. Comes back and tells me they're out of order. I say how about we go to my place and we can chill there for next 2 hours and she can also use the toilets there. She asks me how far away i live. I say 10, 15 minutes. She says it's quite a while away. I say we can get there very quick and if we leave soon we'll have plenty of time to chill before she gets her bus. She complies and we head out. We walk past another bar, and chooses to go to toilet there. She comes back out and we start walking. It's cold, she's walking slowly so i think "fuck it, let's get a taxi. 5 mins later we're at my place. Once inside i ask if she wants a glass of water. She takes it then we go upstairs. I put some chill out music on. then we're chilling on my bed. We talk for about a minute before I say "you smell nice". Didn't hear her reply because as soon as she opened her mouth we're making out. I grab her and she's on top of me and we're kissing. She feels my cock and I can tell she's hungry for my dick. So we undress. No LMR whatsoever and soon we're totally naked and she's sucking my dick and i'm fingering her pussy. Bit of foreply, i kiss her neck, lick and kiss her tits, licking and feeling her body and licking her pussy. She's turned on. I take my cock and put it inside giving her slow hard thrusts. The sight of seeing her naked in my bed, with her legs open, wet as fuck, moaning while I'm fucking her turns me on even more to fuck her even harder. She gets wetter and wetter and then she cums. Tried to make her squirt but had no success. We fuck in multiple positions, adapted missionary, doggie style. I'm fucking her so hard that i'm sweating and i pull a muscle in my leg. We fuck hard for more than an hour. I still cant cum, even though it's been more than 3 weeks of no masturbation or porn. I guess it must be because i'm wearing a condom. She then sucks my dick for the remainder of the session. then it's time for her to leave.
So that's it. 4th time i've had sex on first date since beginning of last year. Sex on first date just gets easier and easier. What before seemed very hard, fucking on first date, fucking hot blondes is no longer hard in my mind. All thanks to girlschase.com! I guess I've got the process down now. Every time I fuck on first date it always takes around 2 to 2 and a half hours. Pretty easy since I know what I'm doing now and the girl most likely senses it and since i'm leading strongly she goes along with it. Anyway, the lesson i've learnt is that all girls are the same, hair colour doesnt make any difference. If you think blondes are harder than anyone else then it's simply all in your head. True, you've got to have good fundamentals (like with any girl) but once you've got them down then you can seduce any girl. My fundamentals are a long way from perfect but I'm continuing to work hard on them. Now i've just got to seduce some latinas! What's even more motivating is looking back where i was a year and a half ago, then looking at what i've achieved since then. And what's more I know I can continue to improve and achieve so much more!
So I met her in town in early evening the day before new years eve. I wasn't dressed great seeing how my classy stylish clothes are a blazer and shirt I wear in the summer/spring and indoors. Dressed in that stupid michelin man black coat, I wasn't dressed great (i know, i still need to up my dress style for this winter, will get a nice coat and scarf tomorrow) but still I approached, as approach is better than no approach. So I see her walking towards me, looking sexy with high heels and very stylish furry coat and stopped her with my intent saying "excuse me, hey, you have the sexiest style I've seen on a girl in a long time, nice coat, body" something like that, i cant remember. She took to it well and we started talking. I find out she dances and does the tango, salsa. I say that's really sexy. Then get her number after a couple minutes conversation saying we should meet up for a drink sometime. She agrees then we go on with our days. I then send her the initial text a few hours later. She replies in the early hours of new years day saying it was good to meet me. We exchange some rapport over text but stops replying one text before I was going to ask her to meet up. I leave it and wait for her to get back to me, which she does 2 days later saying her phone broke over new years. Could have been true, could have been bullshit. Who knows, who cares. Anyway I then ask her if she wants to meet up but she says she cant at the moment because she's busy with work or something, can't remember what the situation was.
Anyway, I send her a text like a few days later telling her I was off to spain (which was true, but made it also seem like I had an exciting life) and that it would be good to meet her or something, cant remember the exact details, but she did bite and responded saying how it was cool I was going to spain and that she was on holiday until the 18th so we could meet before then. I said i'm not free before I go away but we can meet when i come back and then she can tell me all about her new job. I come back and she agrees to meet up. On the day of the date, i sent her a text saying:
Me: We still on for 7 tonight?
No reply. I think it's off. So don't bother getting ready. Then she texts me 6 minutes to 7 saying:
Girl: Hey I'm so sorry I forgot! I've been in Bristol training the past few days I'm just heading back to Cardiff now x
To which I replied saying something like it's cool, don't worry about it, these things happen
Girl: I'm exhausted it's been quite full on!
To which I replied something like "well good the weekend's arrived so you can have your marathon lie in
"Girl: Can't wait to chill out for a few days! Have you got much planned this weekend?
To which I replied something like "yeah going to write some music, going out tomorrow night, and sunday who knows
"Girl: Sounds awesome! Is that just something you enjoy doing or?
To which i replied that I really loved doing it but it's also something I'm aiming to do professionally and also a new business i'm working on
Girl: That's awesome!
Didn't bother rescheduling there because as Chase said in one of his articles, it's better to leave it to later so they have a chance to relax instead of stressing about the next meet so instead I texted her 2 days after the flake on the sunday. In the text I said something like "hey! hope you've had a great weekend and had a good rest after an exhausting week! fancy meeting up sometime this week? Then she texted me back saying
Girl: Hey! I've had a great weekend thanks, it's been good to relax! That sounds great, I finish work at 5pm all week so anytime is great
We arrange the time place. Then she flakes a second time saying:
Girl: I'm gonna have to be a pain in the ass and ask if we can do tomorrow instead? I'm a nightmare i'm so sorry!
Once again, I say it's ok and i totally understand. Remember, girls dont want a guy who gets angry or reactive as it's a sign of insecurity.I said I couldnt do tomorrow (trying to not come across as too available is always a good thing) but proposed thursday or friday. She says thursday is good and that she can meet me at 6. Then on the day of the date she tries to push it back to 7. I say it's fine as a) you must make it easy for the girl to accept b) it's convenient for me anyway and it gives me more time to do more of what i want.
So we meet up, she apologises for flaking and I shrug it off as no big deal. We arrive at the bar and there are no couches, only chairs, so we sit opposite each other. We chat and talk about a variety of things. I make sure to deep dive and relate to her as much as i can. She says she wants to move down to Cardiff bay. I say that's cool, good opportunity to sunbathe in the summer in her bikini. Trying to be sexual here, getting sexual in conversations is one of my weaknesses due to lack of imagination but i'm working on it. We have one drink then head to the next bar as I know there are ALWAYS couches there so i can get physical very quickly. On the way there we talk about how cold it is at the minute and i respond by saying it'll be better during the summer, the less layers to wear the better with a smirk and change of tone of voice
(another of my attempts to get sexual but i think she got the point. We get to the venue, i make her pay for the next round and we get on the couches. I start doing kino on her, touching her shoulders then working down to her thighs, caressing her thigs, then talk about her hair, i ask if she's a natural blond while i caress and stroke her hair. Then i ask about her earings and whether there's a story behind it. She says no. then she says how "her last bus is at 11pm" This was it, escalation window. It was a massive 2 hours away so a clear invitation to fuck. She says she wants to go to the toilet so goes to find a toilet in the bar. Comes back and tells me they're out of order. I say how about we go to my place and we can chill there for next 2 hours and she can also use the toilets there. She asks me how far away i live. I say 10, 15 minutes. She says it's quite a while away. I say we can get there very quick and if we leave soon we'll have plenty of time to chill before she gets her bus. She complies and we head out. We walk past another bar, and chooses to go to toilet there. She comes back out and we start walking. It's cold, she's walking slowly so i think "fuck it, let's get a taxi. 5 mins later we're at my place. Once inside i ask if she wants a glass of water. She takes it then we go upstairs. I put some chill out music on. then we're chilling on my bed. We talk for about a minute before I say "you smell nice". Didn't hear her reply because as soon as she opened her mouth we're making out. I grab her and she's on top of me and we're kissing. She feels my cock and I can tell she's hungry for my dick. So we undress. No LMR whatsoever and soon we're totally naked and she's sucking my dick and i'm fingering her pussy. Bit of foreply, i kiss her neck, lick and kiss her tits, licking and feeling her body and licking her pussy. She's turned on. I take my cock and put it inside giving her slow hard thrusts. The sight of seeing her naked in my bed, with her legs open, wet as fuck, moaning while I'm fucking her turns me on even more to fuck her even harder. She gets wetter and wetter and then she cums. Tried to make her squirt but had no success. We fuck in multiple positions, adapted missionary, doggie style. I'm fucking her so hard that i'm sweating and i pull a muscle in my leg. We fuck hard for more than an hour. I still cant cum, even though it's been more than 3 weeks of no masturbation or porn. I guess it must be because i'm wearing a condom. She then sucks my dick for the remainder of the session. then it's time for her to leave.
So that's it. 4th time i've had sex on first date since beginning of last year. Sex on first date just gets easier and easier. What before seemed very hard, fucking on first date, fucking hot blondes is no longer hard in my mind. All thanks to girlschase.com! I guess I've got the process down now. Every time I fuck on first date it always takes around 2 to 2 and a half hours. Pretty easy since I know what I'm doing now and the girl most likely senses it and since i'm leading strongly she goes along with it. Anyway, the lesson i've learnt is that all girls are the same, hair colour doesnt make any difference. If you think blondes are harder than anyone else then it's simply all in your head. True, you've got to have good fundamentals (like with any girl) but once you've got them down then you can seduce any girl. My fundamentals are a long way from perfect but I'm continuing to work hard on them. Now i've just got to seduce some latinas! What's even more motivating is looking back where i was a year and a half ago, then looking at what i've achieved since then. And what's more I know I can continue to improve and achieve so much more!
