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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I know the topic's been poked at but never really addressed fully. I'm talking the overarching theme of varying sexualities in game such as "lesbian, gay, bi, etc."

So here's some things I wanted to discuss, hopefully in level of familiarity:

-Shit tests involving getting called "gay" or a "pussy"
-Using feminine traits to your advantage
-Using "homosexual" tactics to blow other guys out
-Using "homosexuality" as a way to leverage over other guys
-Coming in as "gay" or "bi" then switching that around
-Going after girls who are "lesbian" or "into girls", either using that as a shit test or really are

I know there was talk about a discussion on this but I never saw it, so here it is.

I'll post up some of my experiences with it later, got a meeting at work here soon so I gotta' jet.

Jake.
 
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Zoro

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I'm going to share with you a little about my childhood friends.

My childhood friends were all very good with women (I was the odd one out) and they all were very comfortable with their sexuality. They acted gay all the time. They would often break out into pretend gay orgies humping each other dramatically (I'm not kidding) while I just stood there confused. They would laugh their asses off about it and then go slay pussy.

The guy who was best with girls was very comfortable with sexuality in general. He'd slap everyone's ass (especially the girls he liked, who always were chasing him hard) and I remember he'd really lay on the sauce. Shit hurt. I doubt he slapped the girl's asses that hard, but it'd still be an audible smack.

A charmastic pretty boy, he was the definition of a natural. He was always popular but by the time he was in high school he had a reputation. He was known as the uber bad boy, throwing awesome parties when his parents were not home, doing drugs and illegally tattooed, as well as being a musician playing music with other cool kids. Even teachers (who weren't uptight) adored him and simply wagged a finger at his antics. I got an interesting view being one of his childhood best friends living a block away, and girls would often chase me just by being associated with him. Too bad I didn't have the balls to capitalize!

His ease with women was legendary though he went downhill after high school. He's with a mediocre girlfriend now and into some bad habits. The benefit of sucking with women is that when you learn to improve you often out do the naturals who stay static at their level. Anyway, during high school, he was unreal. I remember girls had no qualms about openly expressing their interest in him and hooking up with him. It was just what all the other girls did anyway. I remember one party, one of the most attractive good girls took a shower with him mid party. This happened more than once with several girls. Another time I had brought my girlfriend with me to a party only to have her disappear with him and "help him out because he was sick from drinking". I learned a lot those early years.

I bring this up because he had firm confidence in his sexuality and the years of positive experiences with sex no doubt had an influence. He knew within his bones he was a desired man and the girls would eat this up. Acting gay sometimes was just a playful extension of this confidence. Just be glad you weren't a nature who had it so easy that you didn't care to improve. :}

-JW
 

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Definitely can relate, Jwick!

A lot of my friends were similar in that aspect. Super, super questionable shit went down at one of my friend's houses. Far beyond the ole' "no homo" thing. But yeah, I was the one that couldn't get a girl to save my life, although the only difference is that my friends liked the long term relationship thing (and still do) a lot more.

It's actually weird how similar our experiences are - I'd say that my friends with girlfriends now, they are pretty average in looks. Figured it's march 2016, they would have that STONE COLD STUNNAH haha.

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I've had experiences with girls who say they're lesbian, but I end up making out with them at the end of the night. One of these I was at a warehouse rave and met this pretty cute girl. She was acting pretty drunk, most likely just tipsy. She kept yelling in my ear really loud which was annoying haha. But her girlfriend was there surprisingly. Anyways we were talking to them throughout the night, and we decided to afterparty at theirs. As we're leaving, we're talking logistics by their car and I'm talking to the cute one. I'm not really trying anything because her girlfriend is RIGHT THERE. Throughout this whole thing, she's calling me hoto and gay. I figure why not, yeah, tonight I'm gay and agree with her semi-sarcastically. She leans in to say something and bites my neck HARD. So I figure why not, let's try it. Get to theirs, her girlfriend isn't really leaving her side haha. So her girlfriend goes to the bathroom for a second and I lean in and make out with her. At this point she's probably called me gay about 7 times. After this she's like, "you're not totally gay are you?" LOL. So yeah, couldn't end up fucking her, we talked and drank till about 8 ish in the morning though, fun times.

Yeah, weird experiences on my end from this stuff, so sexually is a really interesting angle for me.

Jake.
 

Zoro

Cro-Magnon Man
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Jake,

Interesting, huh?

That sounds fun with the lesbian girl. You might want to hunt down one of Richard's LR in which he picks up a lesbian. I remember it starts out at a pool hall. Anyway, she tells him that she's lesbian because [most] guys can't satisfy her and she's sick of it. Richard comes along and communicates that won't be a problem. It's a great read and might help you understand what may have been going on with your lesbian encounter.
 

Smurf

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Been trying to find it, having no luck, do you know where I'd start - a forum or something?

Jake.
 

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Ohh word, I thought you said Ricardus not Richard, my bad.

Jake.
 
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