Sexually Objectifying Women

[carlitos2055]

Chase wrote an article on sexually objectifying women. He also mentions he noticed women seemed a lot more attracted to him. I would like to know how objectifying that cute girl sitting next to you would make her more attracted? Will someone elaborate?
Thanks in Advance,

-Carlos

 

[SaltyT]

You tell yourself (and believe it) that every woman in the room wants to hace sex with you, and they are horny for it, you that's exactly what women do with us when they are acting bitchy, so they put walls on you to escalate and open Windows depending on tour game

but that comes natural, Just think that she's horny and want to please herself with a Man like you, like an animal would do if it sees an Alpha Male.

in my experience this feeling and thought comes when your fundamentals are high and women notice it, so it makes it easier

Be a sexy guy and present yourself as a sexual object so they will to... Hope it helps

cheers, Sal

 

[Teevster]

I haven't read chases thread but here is how I see it.

It depends. I believe that it is right to threat any humans as subjects. YET! you can still threat her like a sex object.

Do women want to be treated like sex objects? The answer is YES and NO.

If a girl is attracted to you - in the sense that she is interested in you - then objectifying her sexually, can work great in order to increase her buying temparature and make her horny as it sets the right frame. This might no help you much to create interest, but to seal the deal and escalate - it is a good frame.

If she is an "object" to you, that means you can use her sexually and you are the boss. Dominance turns women on. Yet it can creep them out too, if you start treating her like a sex object, being sexually dominant and all that and she is not sexually attracted to you what-so-ever.

Here is the rule of thumb: start out slowly and and increase the pace according to her response. This way you play it carefully and smooth.

Still as a human being, treat her like a subject.

My 5 cents

Alek

 

[Parkour]

I think it's good/healthy to be able to do both objectifying and treating as an equal depending on the context. When it comes to sex, she wants/needs to know she gets you hard in a visceral way. That's connecting on raw attraction and in that case she should be the object of your sexual desire. That's just hot for her. Outside of attraction though, she wants the same respect any healthy person wants. The key is to frame the objectification as contextually constrained to your potential sexual relationship which is based on orgasm making and awesome sex. In this way you're not judging, degrading, or even bringing up/factoring in non-sexual qualities because those aren't the basis of the interaction.
The problem is when objectification is used in the context of qualifying someone's value anywhere outside of her "game" then it's just degrading