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Hey everyone, hope the seduction gods are treating you all well!
Here is an easy little SDL that occurred earlier in the week. Come to think of it, I'm not sure if I ever had any lays off day game until the past month, during which I've had two SDLs. I think momentum and my mind rewiring my risk/reward outlook have been in play a lot for me lately.
So I was in the middle of my city doing some Christmas shopping, keeping my eyes peeled for girls who look fun to approach. There was some trouble, I felt like the girls that I wanted to approach that day were all wearing earphones, etc. If anyone has some good, field tested ways of overcoming that particular obstacle, let me know. I didn't particularly feel in the zone or high energy or anything like that. I was feeling a little antisocial, if anything.
I took a break from my shopping to have a coffee at Starbucks. About a week ago I got a phone number off an unbelievably attractive Brazilian woman in Starbucks, so I get an excited feeling whenever I go there now. I got an Iced Caramel Macchiato and took a seat. I noticed someone's laptop on the table a few seats down from me. Of course, the seats in Starbucks are crammed super close to each other. I'd never thought that would come in handy.
A girl walked into the shop and I immediately noticed her perky ass and long black hair. She had that bubbly vibe girls have when they're very open to being approached. I gave a little smile to her across the shop. She came towards me and I discovered that it was her laptop that was near me. She asked me if she could move the chairs a little so we'd both have more legroom. I didn't say anything smooth, I was not in the right headspace straight away. I just remarked a little about how its crazy how they pack everyone so tight in this place and they could learn a few things from the local cafes. We make a little chit chat, and I ask what she's doing in the city. She is a naturopathy student of Filipino heritage which opens a lot of conversational doors. I say I've known a few people from the Philippines - mostly women for some reason - and that I find them to be beautiful and good natured, the Spanish influence I suppose. She loves this and says yes, Filipinas are beautiful and accommodating.
I tell her my grandfather was a naturopath after fighting in World War Two, so she's in good company. I tell her I think you need to be in touch with your spiritual side to do that kind of work. She says she is not religious but she considers herself quite spiritual. I ask if she has taken psychedelic drugs (jokingly) and she says yes, so this really lets us connect on a deep level as we both talk about our intense psychedelic experiences. She said when she took mushrooms, she felt like she was connected to everyone around her, the trees, the water, and the people. I tell her it sounds like a beautiful experience.
I try to find out what she's doing the rest of the day and she says she's going indoor rock climbing, and says that she would invite me but she's going with a friend. I give her a slight sceptical look and she says, no, not that kind of friend. This is promising. I ask when she finished and we decided to meet up afterwards for a cocktail.
So a few hours later we meet up and she looks even more sensational than when we met. She's wearing these tight black and white check trousers that make her ass pop. I order us both a drink and we keep talking like earlier. I introduce some very sexual topics into the conversation, and she reveals to me that she has had sexual experiences with women before (just not dated them). I ask her what the biggest difference is, and she tells me women are softer and know how to give oral sex better than men. I give her arm a soft squeeze, look her in the eyes deeply and say "I'm so glad you feel open to telling me these things. It's important to feel like you can express yourself fully, and don't feel judged about things like that." She blushes and says, "well you make it easy, I could tell you anything." I ask why that is, and she says I just have a zen-like calm about me.
We go for a walk and give her a piggyback. We sit by the river and look at the evening view of the city. We kiss a lot and talk about how nice it would be if one of us had cigarettes, and I say "We can go have some if you want, my place is within walking distance." She says okay.
After walking back to my place, we joke around a bit about how dodgy my lair is. It has character, but it is a bit of a crappy old student house. We smoke some cigarettes, and after a while I just get up and walk into my bedroom and wait for her to follow. She comes in, we play some guitar and then I grab her and start kissing. She starts unbuttoning my shirt. I take her clothes off, no dramas, and she has such a sexy little body. I eat her pussy out for a while and we have some really great sex. I can tell she is really comfortable around me and doesn't mind showing her whorish side.
Overall, an enjoyable connection and a really fun lay. I find the girl really cool and am getting a lot more confidence in my ability to pull of an SDL. Another big takeaway is how important it is to be soft with women, not hard and judgemental. Not set in your ways, highly opinionated or thuggish. Maybe those things can work sometimes, but it's so much better to just be tender, smile calmly at them and make them feel encouraged and appreciated when they tell you their dark secrets.
Roundy
Here is an easy little SDL that occurred earlier in the week. Come to think of it, I'm not sure if I ever had any lays off day game until the past month, during which I've had two SDLs. I think momentum and my mind rewiring my risk/reward outlook have been in play a lot for me lately.
So I was in the middle of my city doing some Christmas shopping, keeping my eyes peeled for girls who look fun to approach. There was some trouble, I felt like the girls that I wanted to approach that day were all wearing earphones, etc. If anyone has some good, field tested ways of overcoming that particular obstacle, let me know. I didn't particularly feel in the zone or high energy or anything like that. I was feeling a little antisocial, if anything.
I took a break from my shopping to have a coffee at Starbucks. About a week ago I got a phone number off an unbelievably attractive Brazilian woman in Starbucks, so I get an excited feeling whenever I go there now. I got an Iced Caramel Macchiato and took a seat. I noticed someone's laptop on the table a few seats down from me. Of course, the seats in Starbucks are crammed super close to each other. I'd never thought that would come in handy.
A girl walked into the shop and I immediately noticed her perky ass and long black hair. She had that bubbly vibe girls have when they're very open to being approached. I gave a little smile to her across the shop. She came towards me and I discovered that it was her laptop that was near me. She asked me if she could move the chairs a little so we'd both have more legroom. I didn't say anything smooth, I was not in the right headspace straight away. I just remarked a little about how its crazy how they pack everyone so tight in this place and they could learn a few things from the local cafes. We make a little chit chat, and I ask what she's doing in the city. She is a naturopathy student of Filipino heritage which opens a lot of conversational doors. I say I've known a few people from the Philippines - mostly women for some reason - and that I find them to be beautiful and good natured, the Spanish influence I suppose. She loves this and says yes, Filipinas are beautiful and accommodating.
I tell her my grandfather was a naturopath after fighting in World War Two, so she's in good company. I tell her I think you need to be in touch with your spiritual side to do that kind of work. She says she is not religious but she considers herself quite spiritual. I ask if she has taken psychedelic drugs (jokingly) and she says yes, so this really lets us connect on a deep level as we both talk about our intense psychedelic experiences. She said when she took mushrooms, she felt like she was connected to everyone around her, the trees, the water, and the people. I tell her it sounds like a beautiful experience.
I try to find out what she's doing the rest of the day and she says she's going indoor rock climbing, and says that she would invite me but she's going with a friend. I give her a slight sceptical look and she says, no, not that kind of friend. This is promising. I ask when she finished and we decided to meet up afterwards for a cocktail.
So a few hours later we meet up and she looks even more sensational than when we met. She's wearing these tight black and white check trousers that make her ass pop. I order us both a drink and we keep talking like earlier. I introduce some very sexual topics into the conversation, and she reveals to me that she has had sexual experiences with women before (just not dated them). I ask her what the biggest difference is, and she tells me women are softer and know how to give oral sex better than men. I give her arm a soft squeeze, look her in the eyes deeply and say "I'm so glad you feel open to telling me these things. It's important to feel like you can express yourself fully, and don't feel judged about things like that." She blushes and says, "well you make it easy, I could tell you anything." I ask why that is, and she says I just have a zen-like calm about me.
We go for a walk and give her a piggyback. We sit by the river and look at the evening view of the city. We kiss a lot and talk about how nice it would be if one of us had cigarettes, and I say "We can go have some if you want, my place is within walking distance." She says okay.
After walking back to my place, we joke around a bit about how dodgy my lair is. It has character, but it is a bit of a crappy old student house. We smoke some cigarettes, and after a while I just get up and walk into my bedroom and wait for her to follow. She comes in, we play some guitar and then I grab her and start kissing. She starts unbuttoning my shirt. I take her clothes off, no dramas, and she has such a sexy little body. I eat her pussy out for a while and we have some really great sex. I can tell she is really comfortable around me and doesn't mind showing her whorish side.
Overall, an enjoyable connection and a really fun lay. I find the girl really cool and am getting a lot more confidence in my ability to pull of an SDL. Another big takeaway is how important it is to be soft with women, not hard and judgemental. Not set in your ways, highly opinionated or thuggish. Maybe those things can work sometimes, but it's so much better to just be tender, smile calmly at them and make them feel encouraged and appreciated when they tell you their dark secrets.
Roundy
