Sexy, nice guy???

[Sub-Zero]

Im kind of lost when it comes to describing myself as sexy or nice guy. Girls say im a nice guy all of the time, but i sleep with them fast like a sexy lover bad boy. Most girls think im a nice dude, but i never get called sexy or bad boy.

Im asking because i read girls like bad boys and since they call me a nice guy i must be doing something wrong, but yet i get fast sex?????

 

[Whizzy]

Which girls are saying you are a nice guy: all of them, just the ones you haven't slept with, or just the ones you've slept with. Just because they say you're "nice" doesn't mean that you are doing something wrong, the fact that you still sleep with them fast proves that. You more than likely have some type of unique "game" that works well with being nice. For instance I used to be labeled a nice guy all the time, but was mysterious enough that girls still slept with me fast and fell for me just as fast. One way to figure things out is to ask girls once you sleep with them what initially drew them to you, just don't ask too soon after first having sex of course otherwise it might easily come off as insecure.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Which girls are saying you are a nice guy: all of them, just the ones you haven't slept with, or just the ones you've slept with. Just because they say you're "nice" doesn't mean that you are doing something wrong, the fact that you still sleep with them fast proves that. You more than likely have some type of unique "game" that works well with being nice. For instance I used to be labeled a nice guy all the time, but was mysterious enough that girls still slept with me fast and fell for me just as fast. One way to figure things out is to ask girls once you sleep with them what initially drew them to you, just don't ask too soon after first having sex of course otherwise it might easily come off as insecure.

Pretty much all girls. They say that's the reason they like me because im nice, im different. But it sucks because i don't want the nice guy vibe, makes me feel weak. I don't try to be nice.

 

[Lotus]

Since you are getting frequent lays I wouldn't be overly concerned with what they are saying . Actions are speaking louder then words.....Unless you think you are missing out on girls that think you are nice?

If you are really concerned about it go through your fundamentals. Make a list and evaluate yourself. The reasons for being called nice should pop out if your honest in your evaluations.

I have a friend from school who i have since realize was an artist. Everyone always said he was nice but he would get lay after lay and it actually worked to preserve his repuation and allow him to keep plowing.


-brum