Shall I move on or practice and try hard?

[Niraj]

Hi

Hello guys!

Shall I move on or try harder with her? I was ignorant with these pickup things when I met this girl.I realized my incompetencies and read this blog all over to be a perfectionist.By this time I only used to smile and greet her and did not moved her.
I certainly developed through this blog.I could not befriend that girl even though she knew me before any of the other guys she befriended after she met me. By befriend I mean she accepted their facebook friendship request.
She was with me at my workplace,never really my work required her interaction with me,felt short of luck and time than these guys who got to work with her and sitted close to her cubs.
Now several months passed, I learnt things from the blog and was very much trying to approach,deep dive and move her but she told me smilingly that dont talk to me ever.I ignored her for a month and dint used to greet 'hi' in the workplace while passsing by or when i used to get her glimpse or so.
Now that she is gone to some other work building,I dont know what I should be doing.I really liked her and dont want to lose her coz she is pretty and I like her a lot and I am unsure whether I will be getting to know a girl like her again in my life.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Niraj,

Shall I move on or try harder with her? I was ignorant with these pickup things when I met this girl.I realized my incompetencies and read this blog all over to be a perfectionist.By this time I only used to smile and greet her and did not moved her.
I certainly developed through this blog.I could not befriend that girl even though she knew me before any of the other guys she befriended after she met me. By befriend I mean she accepted their facebook friendship request.
She was with me at my workplace,never really my work required her interaction with me,felt short of luck and time than these guys who got to work with her and sitted close to her cubs.
Now several months passed, I learnt things from the blog and was very much trying to approach,deep dive and move her but she told me smilingly that dont talk to me ever.I ignored her for a month and dint used to greet 'hi' in the workplace while passsing by or when i used to get her glimpse or so.
Now that she is gone to some other work building,I dont know what I should be doing.I really liked her and dont want to lose her coz she is pretty and I like her a lot and I am unsure whether I will be getting to know a girl like her again in my life.

You did a good thing, you ignored her and you move on. Think in numbers, remember that. She already told you "don't talk to me ever". Use that as a springboard to show yourself you can get girls, even better ones.

Zac

 

[Niraj]

Hey thanks for replying Zac

I used to get a lot of signals before but now I am ready to do something and about to ask her out she told me never to talk to me again.I don't know she meant that coz she was flirting or being playful I dint replied her back I was kind of serious.I was trying to open her up but I asked too many questions my friend said.Am I getting it wrong or she meant that? I don't know!

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hey thanks for replying Zac

I used to get a lot of signals before but now I am ready to do something and about to ask her out she told me never to talk to me again.I don't know she meant that coz she was flirting or being playful I dint replied her back I was kind of serious.I was trying to open her up but I asked too many questions my friend said.Am I getting it wrong or she meant that? I don't know!

She went into auto rejection. Don't ask her why. Just move on.

Zac

 

[Niraj]

I know the law of attraction how it works.She know nothing abt me as of now or may know but she never asked me about myself.Only I asked her about her and she told me frankly .I don't know if she is a glib liar or she was honest with me.I never boasted about me to her coz if she was interested she cud have asked me.
But in this case Have I killed the attraction or she still feels attracted to me?
I did not hurt her by meeting or talking to new girls but she kept hurting me by befriending news guys in my work even she met me before them.
one more thing is that if she went into auto rejection she may also think that I went into auto rejection

 

[trashKENNUT]

I know the law of attraction how it works.She know nothing abt me as of now or may know but she never asked me about myself.Only I asked her about her and she told me frankly .I don't know if she is a glib liar or she was honest with me.I never boasted about me to her coz if she was interested she cud have asked me.
But in this case Have I killed the attraction or she still feels attracted to me?
I did not hurt her by meeting or talking to new girls but she kept hurting me by befriending news guys in my work even she met me before them.
one more thing is that if she went into auto rejection she may also think that I went into auto rejection

The thing with women, is that when she was giving you signals, she wanted you to make a move on her. and when you didn't, she went into auto-rejection because you didn't made a move on her. and likely she befriend new guys in your work place to make you jealous. Women are desirable creatures. They want to feel desired, and when she told you "don't talk to me anymore", she wasn't interested in you back then as a friend but rather as a guy, and you didn't make your move on her prior to that.

She didn't think you went into auto-rejection. She thinks you unattainable, because you didn't 'get' her, 'Get' her means buying into her signals and move things forward. Her attraction for you have drop. It is not that you did not talk to other girls and that's bad anyway because you already put her on a pedestal, and it is also a workplace. she befriending other guys might just be platonic and not because of you not 'buying' into her signals.

Zac

 

[Niraj]

hi

I was new and ignorant in these pickup things when I first met her.By nature I am a shy cute and quiet Guy.In India we have a conservative society and being from a middle class family I dint thought even to indulge in these things but I cudnt ressist myself falling in love with this girl and really went out of the way to get her but found myself short of practice and Even I have speak up tone and language problems.
I still get to see her everyday after this I avoid her now but still she shows up everytime.She hurts me and hurt me all this year by being in not in good terms with me.I always went up to her just to get hurt.
I actually have a good friend of mine who is engaged to his love and he knows everything about me.He is very friendly and good looking but engaged.He befriended this girl instantly and he introduced me to her.He knew that I had feelings for her but I dint know why he never tried to set me to her (I mean calling her on a breakfast or tea Cox he himself was set up like this)I dint asked her coz he was busy most time but initially we had lots of time.There is a reason I dint chase her coz my this friend told me she has a boyfriend before and I agreed then found that he was wrong so I went after her but could not instantly move after her coz I believed him.
can my friend has to be somewhat blamed?
being in a conservative society why do you think a girl can disregard a Guy quickly?

 

[diegoC]

Hey Niraj, my thoughts on this are pretty much like Zac and I guess pretty much everyone on this blog for sure.

I was new and ignorant in these pickup things when I first met her.By nature I am a shy cute and quiet Guy.In India we have a conservative society and being from a middle class family I dint thought even to indulge in these things …

Look this in a positive way. You are not longer blinded of what you can accomplish. You know what you can do to become better with women. You are no longer in a conservative place so don't think about that. Also, don't think that being on a conservative place changes your game that much. We read stories of Chase in his blog posts and he is living in Asia. Just read this blog, get the book, etc. and you'll improve.

I still get to see her everyday after this I avoid her now but still she shows up everytime.She hurts me and hurt me all this year by being in not in good terms with me.I always went up to her just to get hurt.

This happens because you are fixated with her. You are hooked like some teenage love. Like Bella was hooked with Edward in the Twilight Saga ( sorry with that comparison but I want you to hate that ). I've been here. I'm pretty sure almost everyone in his life has been here.

"So, what can I do to stop thinking about her" Meet girls. That is a fact. There are many pretty girls out there but in your known universe maybe you just like that one. Well, get out of your office at lunch and just start walking. While you walk look for girls you like. I'm sure you'll see lots and you will think to yourself: "Oh! She is pretty. God! That one too…" Just know there are way too much girls to even care.

If you think more about your fixation with that girl you hace to acknowledge that you don't even know her. You just like her because she is hot and you have just pictured that she must also be great in personality (because it would be perfect). The thing is you don't really know. What if I told you that i've known her for 8 years and she likes to eat shit out of the toilet and to kick puppies for fun? I'm pretty sure that would change your mind about her. You don't know her and that's why you should never think that hot/pretty girls are awesome just for being good looking: you don't know them.

Being that said, you just need to know girls. Just imagine this… You know a hot girl and you like her. You start dating with her and after 3 weeks she cuts you off. That sucks, sure. You are thinking: "What happen!? It was going great! I don't get it! Why?!!! Whyyyyy?!!!". Now, your other you in a parallel universe is dating 10 hot girls. What will happen? Well, for starts, he (your other you) has almost no time to date each girl and will have to organize it. By doing this, he can't see either girl to often, right? So the first girl you dated is wondering why he hasn't call/text her in 2 and a half weeks… He won't be able to think about that girl because you have 9 more in line. That is what Zac meant by thinking in numbers. Know a lot of girls so you just DON'T CARE. By doing this you are not going to get fixated with one girl and you will also practice a lot so you can improve in being a seducer, which will help you get the girls you want. And for sure, if you date 10 hot girls you have more chances that you will hit it off with, at least, one of them than if you just date 1. Simple science.

I actually have a good friend of mine who is engaged to his love and he knows everything about me.He is very friendly and good looking but engaged.He befriended this girl instantly and he introduced me to her.He knew that I had feelings for her but I dint know why he never tried to set me to her (I mean calling her on a breakfast or tea Cox he himself was set up like this)I dint asked her coz he was busy most time but initially we had lots of time.There is a reason I dint chase her coz my this friend told me she has a boyfriend before and I agreed then found that he was wrong so I went after her but could not instantly move after her coz I believed him.
can my friend has to be somewhat blamed?

No. The fault is yours. If you like someone you do stuff so she knows. Your friend introduced you to her. So, it was up to you to do the work. What did you want? That your friend told her that you liked her? You are not in primary school and is kinda childish.



Niraj, fuck her. Really, fuck her. There are tons of pretty girls and to stop thinking about her you just need to know more girls. And really, think of numbers. This is crucial. If you go to a place and you meet someone hot please don't get again in the cycle of getting fixated with her. Know her, get a date, whatever, but push yourself to know many girls even though you just knew a girl you already like so this doesn't happen. I advice this because when you are not good at getting women is harder to get the really pretty/hot ones because they have a lot of options out there. So, at first it is best to think about getting better and better because you will fuck it up for sure with those pretty girls and if you are hooked like you are know, well, you are gonna eat your brains thinking too much about it. Not worth it.

One more thing. There are guys who are natural when interacting with girls (don't get nervous, relaxed, etc.). They were like this all their life when talking to girls or they just wanted to improve with girls (like we all want in this forum) and when they started they were able to seem natural (control themselves very well even though they were just starting to get better with them). I'm the latter one. I was never good with woman but when I talk to them I look pretty relax. I am not a seducer at all yet but at least I don't look nervous at all which gives me some edge. The vast majority is not like this. I'm sure you are not a natural for what you have said. When you get good at this, you will know you can get girls so your interactions with them will be more natural. You will be better with girls because, among other things, you are relax when talking to them: is no big deal.

Cheers!

 

[trashKENNUT]

Niraj,

hi

I was new and ignorant in these pickup things when I first met her.By nature I am a shy cute and quiet Guy.In India we have a conservative society and being from a middle class family I dint thought even to indulge in these things but I cudnt ressist myself falling in love with this girl and really went out of the way to get her but found myself short of practice and Even I have speak up tone and language problems.
I still get to see her everyday after this I avoid her now but still she shows up everytime.She hurts me and hurt me all this year by being in not in good terms with me.I always went up to her just to get hurt.
I actually have a good friend of mine who is engaged to his love and he knows everything about me.He is very friendly and good looking but engaged.He befriended this girl instantly and he introduced me to her.He knew that I had feelings for her but I dint know why he never tried to set me to her (I mean calling her on a breakfast or tea Cox he himself was set up like this)I dint asked her coz he was busy most time but initially we had lots of time.There is a reason I dint chase her coz my this friend told me she has a boyfriend before and I agreed then found that he was wrong so I went after her but could not instantly move after her coz I believed him.
can my friend has to be somewhat blamed?
being in a conservative society why do you think a girl can disregard a Guy quickly?

Perhaps you are new and in India, the conservative society didn't help you either. In conservative countries, it really depends on how the culture of attracting women. Family culture is another matter too. and perhaps Your friend can somewhat be blamed because he told you something that wasn't true. I guess we shall not do that.

Take your situation here, it as if

- you didn't go after her and move her when she gave you signals and now you can learn how to read signals from today.
- you didn't know that what she has given you was signals, and you have the opportunity to read and understand women better.
- you didn't know that even in a conservative society, women all over the world are slowly breaking out of the society norms, because women are desirable creatures that wants to feel good.

Take today as a first step understanding women. You can always feel free to ask questions and do reports on this blog. What are your goals? Maybe a new girl?. Everyone is different, You are different. and we try to offer the best advice, but ultimately, you need to know women generally first.

ZacAdamMorrison

 

[Niraj]

Guys,
I have read nearly everything on this blog and from that I got that I should be moving on.But now I am second considering my chances when I read Chase post on how to get a girl back where it is mentioned that girl may befriend other guys to make you jealouscoz girls are creatures who wants to feel desired which is exactly what she kept doing in my case regularly and still she keeps showing up when I am trying to get away from her. I am really ignoring her when she told me not to speak with her again.I don't know why she dint feel that I desired her all this time when I used to approach her at times.May be I was initially slow but as time passes why dint she feel that I am changed.
Chase mentioned to ask her out immediately to get her back but do you guys think that it is possible in my case.She dint know me well coz never asked about myself so may be a kind of curiosity may be holding her I don't know.
He also mentioned to avoid getting with new girls if you want to get her back.So even though I know some girls I stopping myself in this meantime.
I am still finding hard to assert I am.right with my approach.Just I want a final go to once again begin things with her. By doing so I am fearing loss of attraction and ending up as a backup and ultimately proving meyself weak person.
I am expecting her to make a move but I dontvthunk she is brave enough to muster up the courage

 

[Niraj]

Continued

But she keeps showing up,may be thinking that I should mbe making a move. I don't know what I shud be doing? ?

 

[trashKENNUT]

But she keeps showing up,may be thinking that I should mbe making a move. I don't know what I shud be doing? ?

Well, do ask her out. That's all you need to do. If she rejects you, it means you have been thinking about her too much, that's bad, but that's another matter altogether.

Zac

 

[diegoC]

I was gonna say exactly what Zac said. I you want a finale to this, just go straight up to her and tell her that you would really like to take her on a date and see how it plays out. If she flakes again, well, you know. If you actually go out, it's your chance.

Cheers!

 

[Tyme2k]

I would STRONGLY recommend NOT asking her out. Your vibe screams neediness and you will certainly get blown out. If she agrees to your date, what are your plans? Are you going to go into the date as a calm relaxed chill nonneedy icy motherfucking pimp? Or are you going to be needy, reaction seeking, not leading, timid, and say things like "I'm so glad you came" "are you ok?" "Are you glad you came?"

Asking and going on the date with your mindset will be completely suicide. If you want this girl you will need to get other girls, tons of them. You will want to feel that abundance and realise that you don't need or want her. You would like her in your life, but you can easily live without her and be completely indifferent. In my opinion this is the only way for you to ressurrect any type of attraction.

I just finished an article on Abundance that may help you get to the headspace you need to be in to get that girl you want.

Good luck sir

 

[Niraj]

Guys,

Really thanks for helping me out!

Hey tyme2k,
how do you get me as needy coz I am putting forward my feelings here ,like what I am feeling inside my heart for her.I have never shown this side to her like by chasing her or texting her or chatting with her it asking abt her a lot. I never do that I m bold enough to show her if she don't care I don't care too.Even on her birthday I dint wish her even if she may have a feeling that I knew and I knew.I have only approached her occassionally, never used to crowd on whatever she was doing just took out my time with her occassionally.
Now she has not shown up for 3-4 days. I have not tried to find her or tried to her information on how she is doing.
BUT I WOULD really like to mention this last meeting with her alongwith my friend(who she I always find friendly and comfy with).As I am now ignoring her I tried not to get into the lift but my friend persuaded me to get in.I just stood there ,not even tried to converse and listen to the
conversation,she just had a look at me coz only three of us were there.I then went my way and she went her way.Later my friend told be she acknowledged me by asking how was of me I stood still.I dont get why she is doing that when she told me not to talk with her and if she wants to talk with why wont she now begin.Its not that she cant do that much.Why is she waiting for me to speak up? Is she waiting or Am I getting it wrongly?
I dont know!
My friend suggested me to improve my voice tone.I read Chase's article on this but need to know how do I measure myself with improving my tone?
What do I do?
Ask her out?
By ask her out, do you guys mean asking to accompany for tea or breakfast? .. or asking outside my workplace?
Regarding neediness at my date ,I know I will not be feeling needy there but I may feel shaky at first until she speak out like she gives me some self confidence.Hoping she gives me that much little.If I get that,I will be great from then I know.
I am also want to ask whether I should be digging deep right at start at tea or being casual early and then when she is comfy ,dig deep.

 

[diegoC]

Look Niraj, is not like you are being needy because, as you mention, you haven't been constantly chasing her. Okay. But the thing is you are suffering over this girl and that is why you should start knowing others. You ask for many thinks right now, like voice tonality, dates advice. Look, just read the book/posts and you'll have a lot of theory to rely on.

I can't give you advice on voice tonality because I haven't actually changed mine. The only thing I'm working on is my talking speed. And for that, I just think, when talking, to do it in a very relaxed slow paced way.

On dates you should always go for intimate cheap ones. Like a cafe. Just to be with her and talk, no distractions. Going to a movie is no good because you will not know her like on a one on one cafe date. There is also the debate about paying for the date. Chase says that, in his experience, we shouldn't pay. I know this is difficult to do for many people. If you KNOW you will pay for the date, well, it's obvious that you should go to a cheap one.

I know Tyme2k told you not to ask her out. And Zac and I told you to do it. I completely understand why Tyme2k says not to. My logic (and Zac's, I guess) is that if you are thinking too much over this girl, having a hard time not thinking about her, well… ask her out to finally end this. If she says no fuck it then. If she agrees you will have to be great on that cafe, play a direct game (so she really knows you are interested) and see if something happens (although, I must warn you: given all the time that has passed already, not doing something with her, is most likely you are no longer lover/boyfriend material).

Remember:

• Ask her out to end this and free your mind off of her or don't do anything and stop thinking about her
• Read the book (you should do this first because it is well structured with all you need to know at first, really)
• Read the post on Girlschase (also the forum posts)
• Know more girls
• Practice and practice to improve yourself

You will get better with girls and, when you have many, when you know you can know them with ease, when you know you can have them wanting you (for sex, seeing you, whatever) you will less likely be obsessed with one.

Cheers!

 

[Niraj]

Hi guys,

Back here after a month.Quite a long period!!Yeah I was trying to move on and get over my constant thinking about her.Sincerely I was really over and finding my old routines back into place yuntil one day this girl who is friends with her asked me if I like her on office communicator.I could not respond my feelings to this girl who is not even my friend and never talked to me before like this.I let her consider what she has to but doesn't reveal my feelings, but back into my mind I thought she got yes from me.
I asked her and she told me that now she is gone cold and not interested in me.I think she went into auto rejection. Am I right with this?
one more thing she mentioned not to waste my life over her.I would also like to tell you this girl is not that close friends with her and what shecould get frm her she told me and advised me against pursuing her.
There is a reason that she is doing this coz she could not stand she mocking and making joke abt all that has happened and we have talked between each other with the entire office team.She told me I am a good Guy and nice at these things and she is too. I am not able to understand is she really nice and what is with her she is making joke out of this? What kind of girl does this ? What happened that she is doing that?
One more thing I told her friend that I wasn't really interested all that into her right from the start and kept my distance from her all the time.I said I dint ask for her number and busy back then.so I dint know how you people jumped to the conclusion I like her and I dint do anything for her and nor she has.I told her I checked her to see if she isn't feeling bad abt all these things.I really meant the last line.
Back in mind I always knew I was slow and dint felt a bit I am gonna get her but coz she seemed interested I tried and I gave her ammo to make mockery of me.That's what happenned.
I found girlschase late so I understand what may be happenning and what should I be doing so that's why I behaved like this?
What do you think the girl got and was I right in dealing that way?

 

[trashKENNUT]

I asked her and she told me that now she is gone cold and not interested in me.I think she went into auto rejection. Am I right with this?
one more thing she mentioned not to waste my life over her.I would also like to tell you this girl is not that close friends with her and what shecould get frm her she told me and advised me against pursuing her.

Yea, she likely went into auto-rejection. But maybe seeing you with a body language and still looking at her like she likes you, might make her tell you off, that she doesn't want anything to do with you anymore.

There is a reason that she is doing this coz she could not stand she mocking and making joke abt all that has happened and we have talked between each other with the entire office team.She told me I am a good Guy and nice at these things and she is too. I am not able to understand is she really nice and what is with her she is making joke out of this? What kind of girl does this ? What happened that she is doing that?

I assume you were really needy?, Luckily you got your grip better by the days. She's telling you that everyone knows you like her, and she making fun of you with the entire office team.

Yeap, she really did that.

One more thing I told her friend that I wasn't really interested all that into her right from the start and kept my distance from her all the time.I said I dint ask for her number and busy back then.so I dint know how you people jumped to the conclusion I like her and I dint do anything for her and nor she has.I told her I checked her to see if she isn't feeling bad abt all these things.I really meant the last line.

Women don't really care about what you say, It's what you do. You have feelings for her, and when you checked on her at times to see if she isn't feeling bad, it shows you care. I know it is stupid, and i know you really care, but women think this way.

Back in mind I always knew I was slow and dint felt a bit I am gonna get her but coz she seemed interested I tried and I gave her ammo to make mockery of me.That's what happenned.

Err, if you actually tried to move things forward, then to know she making a mockery out of you, i feel that she is not even a girl you would consider dating long term or quality material. Cut her out. JUst cut her out.

Zac

 

[Niraj]

Hey thanks Zac.
Do you think she was completely crazy in love with me because she started making jokes and leaking everything to the office team since she went into auto-rejection.
Actually I wasn't needy and dint even chased her nor I acted to get her attention in front of the team.
I am no good friends with any girl in my life. I found myself very scarce in terms of girls and I don't know may be this might be the reason I fall for her.I constantly thought about her coz I knew she liked me that put me into thought why should not I give her a try? I tried but found myself very weak in such pickup and courtship things.I started knowing more girls even took their numbers but I dint move forward with them only coz I am very obssessed now with this girl which means I fell for her eventually.I don't find any girl as attractive as her now in my company.This girl with whom I want to move things has gone cold now and I dint know what to do when she shows up coz we have mutual friends between us.I don't know how to behave when I said I don't use to like her but still I like her.
This girl who told me the things about her now sits into my cub and asks me everything about me.I don't know where all of a sudden these things come from.
In such circumstances,shall I expect more of a friendship kind of thing with her or cut this girl out of my life and never ever ask about her or care about her which I am finding hard coz I can't let go a person out of my life after knowing such person for a year.This is not the way I behaved with anyone in my entire life.
Please can you explain me how it makes things better for me or her by not keeping any contact with her so that I can relax and let go my emotions of her.
I also sometimes think whether she can forgive me as time passes or will she just remain hostile?
why do some beautiful girls(the primary reason was caste ) can't take rejection really well?
If she forgives me or be normal once again what does it tells of her or it's not even possible for girls?

 

[trashKENNUT]

Niraj,

Do you think she was completely crazy in love with me because she started making jokes and leaking everything to the office team since she went into auto-rejection.
Actually I wasn't needy and dint even chased her nor I acted to get her attention in front of the team.

A girl can like a guy, and send whole lots of different signals, and the guy won't catch anything.The ones who are good with women won't bother, while some guys genuinely don't know she is sending it, and some guys don't know how to respond to it, and you notice women will tend to get all "angry" or say something irrelevant when you meet her later, even girl friends too. Well, the thing here is that she went into auto-rejection, and just maybe that her colleagues see that you didn't bite it, and she might have send a lot of signals anyway, She decided that "Hey, this guy is not "into" me, and i kind of humiliated anyway, so why not make stories of him? It will at least make me feel better."

I would like to note women are emotional creatures, and auto rejection is something you can't confront. Because when someone rejects you, "Why would i want to talk to you anyway? YOu rejected me." seems to be in the mind of the "rejected" person.

I am no good friends with any girl in my life. I found myself very scarce in terms of girls and I don't know may be this might be the reason I fall for her.I constantly thought about her coz I knew she liked me that put me into thought why should not I give her a try? I tried but found myself very weak in such pickup and courtship things.I started knowing more girls even took their numbers but I dint move forward with them only coz I am very obssessed now with this girl which means I fell for her eventually.I don't find any girl as attractive as her now in my company.This girl with whom I want to move things has gone cold now and I dint know what to do when she shows up coz we have mutual friends between us.I don't know how to behave when I said I don't use to like her but still I like her.

I found that it is great that you are in no good friends with any girl in your life, but do find yourself some to get yourself along with women, generally.

This girl who told me the things about her now sits into my cub and asks me everything about me.I don't know where all of a sudden these things come from.
In such circumstances,shall I expect more of a friendship kind of thing with her or cut this girl out of my life and never ever ask about her or care about her which I am finding hard coz I can't let go a person out of my life after knowing such person for a year.This is not the way I behaved with anyone in my entire life.
Please can you explain me how it makes things better for me or her by not keeping any contact with her so that I can relax and let go my emotions of her.
I also sometimes think whether she can forgive me as time passes or will she just remain hostile?
why do some beautiful girls(the primary reason was caste ) can't take rejection really well?
If she forgives me or be normal once again what does it tells of her or it's not even possible for girls?

well you really need to cut her off, because she's making a Soap Opera out of liking you, and then when you reject her unintentionally, she wasn't happy, and when you came back, she make a fool out of you.

Listen, It's not her that must forgive you. IT's you, Do you want to forgive her?

If a girl likes you, and you reject her unintentionally, and every girl who is auto-rejected, definitely feels bad, but i have also get girls who auto-rejected. It takes awhile, but your situation is, she's making a SOAP OPERA out of everything. That's a no no. especially when other girls come to you and ask you "stupid" things. But then again, i had one friend who got the same thing happen to him. and i believe you have a needy vibe, because he got it, too.


Anyway, like i said, Are you willing to go with this kind of girl? I mean she only likes you, and i mean LIKE! and she already start some drama by involving other people. CUt her off. People won't respect you, especially if you allow this BS to go on.


Respect yourself, man. My advice
Zac