She has a LDBF what to do? HELP!

[ESGSanders]

So I met this girl friday night. Amazing, beautiful (she's an estonian model). I am currently at uni in the uk so is she. She has a boyfriend who is 28 and works in norway. We danced etc and she gave off so much positive kino so we went back to my room. She seemed hesitant but I gave her a massage and escalated. She ended up topless and unbelievably turned on and really wanted to have sex but didn't because of her BF. She stayed over and remained really into me etc and said I was so beautiful and smelled so amazing etc etc. We went to the gym together the next day, then went and walked around the markets in town and she is a really nice girl.

When with me she gave off the impression that she wants to explore and experience things etc and is only with her bf because her family love him and she'd rather not be alone. She seemed to be willing to leave him for me. I asked her out for cocktails tonight last night but she hasn't even read the message on facebook.
How should I go ahead with this? I do not want to seem too keen yet I recognise that to get her to leave her BF I need to be more persistent than usual. HELP!

Thanks.

 

[Marty]

ESG:

Why are you Facebooking her if you've already had her top off alone in your room?

I know it's sometimes easy to forget in the heat of the moment, but you should always at least get a phone number. "Let me just grab your cell real quick so we don't forget later" usually does the trick.

-Marty

PS I like your taste. Baltic girls are the BEST.

 

[ESGSanders]

I know! I should have done. Slipped my mind. Already organised the meet up when we went on Saturday though on Facebook. I'm just thinking maybe she's having second thought because of boyfriend etc. she really seemed like she wanted to end it with him first etc before we had sex etc but I really don't want to miss my attraction window. What should I do as my next step if she doesn't reply to my messages?

 

[Marty]

Stay calm and do not chase. She may not even be checking her Facebook, especially if she's an in-demand girl with places to go and things to do. The worst thing you could do is have multiple Facebook messages sitting waiting for her when she does get to it.

There's a guy on this forum called NarrowJ who is possibly the most successful seducer I've ever heard about, aside from Chase Amante himself and his leadership team who write articles for the main site. If you read some of his lay-reports they are mind-blowing. Now, NarrowJ once kindly gave me personal advice that you should not worry about no-contact causing attraction to expire. Have a read of that link, I think it might help you.

You may find you want to take a deep breath and see what happens when she next incidentally runs into you in school... if she lights up like a Christmas tree, you'd better have a plan ready to move fast with her at that point.

 

[ESGSanders]

Yeah I won't send her another message for a while if she doesn't reply to the one I sent. Leave it in her court!
Thing is I'm very unlucky to bump into her as it's a big school and we're not on the same course. Her boyfriend is 28 and lives in Norway. He's coming to visit on Friday so hopefully she'll do as she said and break up. We shall see.

 

[ESGSanders]

Stay calm and do not chase. She may not even be checking her Facebook, especially if she's an in-demand girl with places to go and things to do. The worst thing you could do is have multiple Facebook messages sitting waiting for her when she does get to it.

There's a guy on this forum called NarrowJ who is possibly the most successful seducer I've ever heard about, aside from Chase Amante himself and his leadership team who write articles for the main site. If you read some of his lay-reports they are mind-blowing. Now, NarrowJ once kindly gave me personal advice that you should not worry about no-contact causing attraction to expire. Have a read of that link, I think it might help you.

You may find you want to take a deep breath and see what happens when she next incidentally runs into you in school... if she lights up like a Christmas tree, you'd better have a plan ready to move fast with her at that point.

How long do you think I should leave it if she doesn't reply to my messages before I send her another prompter? A week? Her Boyfriend is coming this weekend and I have definitely put the idea in her mind about breaking up with him... Should I wait until next monday if she doesn't reply? If she does should I wait to reply?

I thought I had played it perfectly. certainly did so on friday and on saturday we were chatting and getting on well, having a fun time. I teased her a bit and she was laughing about it. Plenty of playful kino I suppose. Sent her a message saying how I had enjoyed the day and thanks for lending me money at the market! She replied nicely to that. I suppose I should just wait and see. Now that I have planted the idea (inception-esque) maybe she'll break up with him then give me a call.

Learnt my lesson that I should have got her phone number not just facebook though! So much easier to call and I'm so much chattier that way.

 

[ESGSanders]

New development... She finally replied to my message but was suddenly very cold. Left it overnight then asked for her number and have a nonchalant response asking what she's up to etc etc. when she replies I'll wait a little bit then give her a call! Really caught me out how suddenly cld her response was.