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I’m trying to line up my next lay, and this girl i met off bumble named ocean seems to be my best bet. We get along well and she’s very flirty with me.
She’s already agreed to have sex with me. But she keeps delaying it:
- last thursday she said she couldnt meet the next day because she booked a spin class after work
- then i asked her if she could meet on the weekend, and she says shes working from home so she cant. and that it would be better to meet on a weekday cuz she could come straight from work because its closer than coming from home (13km)
- today she tells me next weekend will be better because she has to get her pussy waxed on thursday, and it will make her feel more confident
- and she cant meet tomorrow or the next day, because shes still swamped with work.
heres the convo between us today:
this is outside my experience level so i have no clue how to handle it effectively, especially with the precedent between us and all these objections. i have some ideas though.
she’s already denied me plenty of times (have i already lost complete value in her eyes?), and im worried about further pushing the boundaries of negative compliance and coming across as too needy and eager, if i continue to push to meet soon.
i could keep her warm till the weekend, but at the risk of any emotions dying off/saying the wrong thing.
i could take the pressure off, and ask her to meet for a friendly drink with no expectations. then when I'm in person with her, push for it then. but then she could shoot me down with the work thing again
get her on the phone/sext her and get her into a really emotional mood then try to get her over?
call out the flakiness and disqualify her over it? to get her chasing
she very flirty about the fact that i could be seeing other girls, which makes me think she's fucking a lot of other guys too. it makes me think that all this delaying could possibly be a screening process to DQ unsuitable guys.
hmmm, what to do...
She’s already agreed to have sex with me. But she keeps delaying it:
- last thursday she said she couldnt meet the next day because she booked a spin class after work
- then i asked her if she could meet on the weekend, and she says shes working from home so she cant. and that it would be better to meet on a weekday cuz she could come straight from work because its closer than coming from home (13km)
- today she tells me next weekend will be better because she has to get her pussy waxed on thursday, and it will make her feel more confident
- and she cant meet tomorrow or the next day, because shes still swamped with work.
heres the convo between us today:
fog: what’s your schedule like this week?
ocean: i work full time so I’m only free evenings and weekend but i think it’d be worth your while to wait till at least friday to schedule me in!I’m technically free next weekend but will probably go out for a friends birthday. just not sure when.
fog: is there any specific reason why its gonna be worth my while to wait until friday at least?
ocean: oh i just have my maintenance wax appointment thursday. *laughing face* and not its not for you or anyone, its honestly a personal preference
fog: thank goodness its not for me or anyone else. i was starting to get worried ;P personally i am impartial to hair and earlier this week works better for me. we should meet tomorrow evening. or tuesday evening
ocean: thats what everyone says but like i said its a personal preference. i like to keep sex as clean as i can. either way, id love to because I’m really in the mood for it but i really cant I’m afraid. my department at work is truly slammed, hence why i worked from home this weekend and we’re trying to clear the backlog
ocean: trust me, ill feel more confident post thursday and ill be able to bring my A game
this is outside my experience level so i have no clue how to handle it effectively, especially with the precedent between us and all these objections. i have some ideas though.
she’s already denied me plenty of times (have i already lost complete value in her eyes?), and im worried about further pushing the boundaries of negative compliance and coming across as too needy and eager, if i continue to push to meet soon.
i could keep her warm till the weekend, but at the risk of any emotions dying off/saying the wrong thing.
i could take the pressure off, and ask her to meet for a friendly drink with no expectations. then when I'm in person with her, push for it then. but then she could shoot me down with the work thing again
get her on the phone/sext her and get her into a really emotional mood then try to get her over?
call out the flakiness and disqualify her over it? to get her chasing
she very flirty about the fact that i could be seeing other girls, which makes me think she's fucking a lot of other guys too. it makes me think that all this delaying could possibly be a screening process to DQ unsuitable guys.
hmmm, what to do...
