Hello Girlschasers!
I would like to know what you can try out if the girls says that she prefers to move slowly...
This is the story:
I met her in a bar night club here in Argentina (I am from Europe) - she was with a friend. I saw that she was talking but also a lot on her phone so I said to my friend that she is probably very bored.
So I went to talk to her in (broken) Spanish and although she was a little bit cold at first - she warmed fast.
She told me it was her birthday, so I said congratulations and invited her and her friend to join us at the table.
Then I decided which girl I would go for, chooses and asked her number if she would like to meet up during the day some time and although she gave some resistance ("But it will be difficult to understand each other!", "Don' t worry about that, there' s always Google translate - you will learn me Spanish and I teach you English")
So then we drunk a bit and she offered a sip of her drink.
After about 10 minutes of talking about what she studies and why she wanted to dance so we danced together.
Then I took her hands, cut space, cut space even more and was holding some eye contact.
I wanted to et alone with her - I thought if I kiss her well that friend might cockblock.
But after some minutes of dancing that friend smiled to us and with her hand she showed a hart which made me think - now is the time to act!
So I gazed in to her eyes, looked at her lips manhandeled when she broke the eye contact and kissed her for like 20 mins (a bit too long - I know)
Then she had to go back to her friend and they went to the toilet - I waited a few minutes and left afterwards and wrote her a message that I was happy with the encounter
2 days later we met again - first we talked a bit while deep diving - she would like to travel and as I travel at the moment I could react on it.
I said that in life you have to be crazy - Cause life would be boring otherwise and she said she was a little bit crazy too the I kissed her and continued the conversation while kissing more times.
I also touched her a lot: The only parts I couldn't touch was her public area and her breasts but her butt and the inside of her legs were all okay - stroking and grabbing was okay too for these areas.
Afterwards I decided to move her so we took an ice cream first she thought I wanted to take her to my hotel but I said we would see afterwards.
After the ice cream I told her that in the park there would be too many people and wanted to go to the hotel.
She didn't want to - she said if I go, we will only kiss if it becomes more she would leave.
And I didn't really know how to react to this so I said if it happens than it happens.
She told me she was still a virgin and that she wanted to move slowly - I told her I am here only for 2 months though and she said I know but I think it is better.
I tried to address this issue but I just couldn't make her think otherwise so I told her that either we continue this way but with sex or either we do not see each other any more and gave her 2 weeks to think about it
During those weeks we agreed that we can flirt with other people and that I could even have intercourse without her becoming jealous (first she didn't agree but though) and afterwards I will force her to accept or reject it but no gray area between yes and no. I also said if she would said yes I would be okay with it to not go see any other girls (and I don' t know why I said that but are okay with it for those 2 months)
I guess I am in some kind of twisted boy friend zone - Twisted because she knows I' ll leave and that I am not a candidate for boyfriend girlfriend stuff. She probably doesn't know that a sexual relationship is something that is possible as she is a virgin (Although she said she didn't want that). I don' t know what to tell her. I just said I wanted to make her happy and that sometimes you need to experiment a bit to know more.
She really likes me a lot, when I kiss her she makes some sexy groaning sounds and she even said "Wow" after I kissed her on the most extreme way I ever kissed a girl (until your tongue can't go further and that your mouth almost hurts). Also I tease her while kissing, like breaking the kiss and gazing in her eyes with a big smile.
So that will be 2 weeks of dating I guess and afterwards we will see what the forced decision will be able to do.
I told her that living in the present is always better because she said for you it is easier after the 2 months than for her
Or is there something better to do?
I would like to know what you can try out if the girls says that she prefers to move slowly...
This is the story:
I met her in a bar night club here in Argentina (I am from Europe) - she was with a friend. I saw that she was talking but also a lot on her phone so I said to my friend that she is probably very bored.
So I went to talk to her in (broken) Spanish and although she was a little bit cold at first - she warmed fast.
She told me it was her birthday, so I said congratulations and invited her and her friend to join us at the table.
Then I decided which girl I would go for, chooses and asked her number if she would like to meet up during the day some time and although she gave some resistance ("But it will be difficult to understand each other!", "Don' t worry about that, there' s always Google translate - you will learn me Spanish and I teach you English")
So then we drunk a bit and she offered a sip of her drink.
After about 10 minutes of talking about what she studies and why she wanted to dance so we danced together.
Then I took her hands, cut space, cut space even more and was holding some eye contact.
I wanted to et alone with her - I thought if I kiss her well that friend might cockblock.
But after some minutes of dancing that friend smiled to us and with her hand she showed a hart which made me think - now is the time to act!
So I gazed in to her eyes, looked at her lips manhandeled when she broke the eye contact and kissed her for like 20 mins (a bit too long - I know)
Then she had to go back to her friend and they went to the toilet - I waited a few minutes and left afterwards and wrote her a message that I was happy with the encounter
2 days later we met again - first we talked a bit while deep diving - she would like to travel and as I travel at the moment I could react on it.
I said that in life you have to be crazy - Cause life would be boring otherwise and she said she was a little bit crazy too the I kissed her and continued the conversation while kissing more times.
I also touched her a lot: The only parts I couldn't touch was her public area and her breasts but her butt and the inside of her legs were all okay - stroking and grabbing was okay too for these areas.
Afterwards I decided to move her so we took an ice cream first she thought I wanted to take her to my hotel but I said we would see afterwards.
After the ice cream I told her that in the park there would be too many people and wanted to go to the hotel.
She didn't want to - she said if I go, we will only kiss if it becomes more she would leave.
And I didn't really know how to react to this so I said if it happens than it happens.
She told me she was still a virgin and that she wanted to move slowly - I told her I am here only for 2 months though and she said I know but I think it is better.
I tried to address this issue but I just couldn't make her think otherwise so I told her that either we continue this way but with sex or either we do not see each other any more and gave her 2 weeks to think about it
During those weeks we agreed that we can flirt with other people and that I could even have intercourse without her becoming jealous (first she didn't agree but though) and afterwards I will force her to accept or reject it but no gray area between yes and no. I also said if she would said yes I would be okay with it to not go see any other girls (and I don' t know why I said that but are okay with it for those 2 months)
I guess I am in some kind of twisted boy friend zone - Twisted because she knows I' ll leave and that I am not a candidate for boyfriend girlfriend stuff. She probably doesn't know that a sexual relationship is something that is possible as she is a virgin (Although she said she didn't want that). I don' t know what to tell her. I just said I wanted to make her happy and that sometimes you need to experiment a bit to know more.
She really likes me a lot, when I kiss her she makes some sexy groaning sounds and she even said "Wow" after I kissed her on the most extreme way I ever kissed a girl (until your tongue can't go further and that your mouth almost hurts). Also I tease her while kissing, like breaking the kiss and gazing in her eyes with a big smile.
So that will be 2 weeks of dating I guess and afterwards we will see what the forced decision will be able to do.
I told her that living in the present is always better because she said for you it is easier after the 2 months than for her
Or is there something better to do?
