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She Shit Tests Me on The Dance Floor. Next Day She Invites Me Out. How to Behave?

Ronnie

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Met her at a wine tasting event. Talked to her one on one for quite some time. She was giving me various IoIs. Towards the end of the event, 4 of us decide to go for drinks. At the first bar we have mostly group conversation. On the way to the club, the two of us are talking alone. Again with the IoIs. We get into the club and start dancing. At one point we dance together but she puts boundaries to escalation beyond simple dancing, even when I just try to playfully kiss her on the cheek. I alternate talking/dancing with her and talking with the others in our group. Then I see she has no problem dancing with other guys (she was among the 3 hottest ones in the club so she was getting a lot of attention from guys).

So I do the same, I open some other chicks on the dance floor and talk or dance with them. At one point I am even dancing with 2 new chicks together. She looks at me but keeps dancing with other guys. After a while, we dance together again, but again with the resistance when I try to go beyond innocent playfulness. I go back to the other girls. She's dancing and talking with a bunch of guys. One of the guys in our group tells me that she's obviously trying to make me jealous. Anyway, at this point I don't care and I am seriously gaming other girls. At one point she comes to me to say bye because she's leaving.

At this point, I completely forget about this chick (I made it an objective to move on emotionally from failed sets as fast as possible).

On the next day she writes me on Facebook (we're both part of the same wine tasting group) and she tells me "great meeting you, we can grab a beer on Sunday if you want".

How do you think I should behave with this chick if I go out with her?


P.S. another girl I tried to game after this one left called me out right after the opener: "You are a pick up artist, aren't you?" LOL
 
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Skills

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Nothing to see here, this is totally normal, your escalation in the dance floor was uncalibrated, she likes you and yes she was shit testing dancing with other dudes, normal.... And the answer to the shit test was correct..... If you fail the escalation making the girl stop your escalation is cause your timing was off, the escalation was sloppy, or the escalation was not discreet or a combination.... The girls soft closes and you make a post on what to do? come on super silly....

Heyyy! Maria yes that was fun, nice to meet you too, sunday will work, is 9 pm ok?

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Ronnie

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Nothing to see here, this is totally normal, your escalation in the dance floor was uncalibrated, she likes you and yes she was shit testing dancing with other dudes, normal.... And the answer to the shit test was correct..... If you fail the escalation making the girl stop your escalation is cause your timing was off, the escalation was sloppy, or the escalation was not discreet or a combination.... The girls soft closes and you make a post on what to do? come on super silly....

Heyyy! Maria yes that was fun, nice to meet you too, sunday will work, is 9 pm ok?

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Yes, of course I set the date :D

My question was more about the date itself. Whether I should do something different given what happened in the club.

I guess I'll treat it like any other date.
 
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PeaceLovinSoul

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Nothing to see here, this is totally normal, your escalation in the dance floor was uncalibrated, she likes you and yes she was shit testing dancing with other dudes, normal.... And the answer to the shit test was correct..... If you fail the escalation making the girl stop your escalation is cause your timing was off, the escalation was sloppy, or the escalation was not discreet or a combination.... The girls soft closes and you make a post on what to do? come on super silly....

Heyyy! Maria yes that was fun, nice to meet you too, sunday will work, is 9 pm ok?

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Fuck Skills, The guy was asking for help, so Why SHOULDN'T He make a Post... Fuck, same ol' Fucking Skills
 
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