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I met Frothy Gothy this summer and she gave me LMR when we met up. I made a ton of mistakes and I'm certain she thinks I'm a player but I'm wondering if this is salvageable. Here's the full story:
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I was walking by a girl wearing earphones at a bus stop. We were making eye contact so I opened her. While we're talking a bus comes, slows down, and goes by. She says, "that was my bus."
The next day, I go over to her place and we are sitting at her kitchen table chatting. She says that she is adopting a dog tonight and that the owner will be around at 8:00PM to drop off the dog. She starts telling me that she tried killing herself and that she went celibate for a year. I also posed this question:
To my surprise she chooses the former option.
Eventually she gives me a tour around her apartment building. Up until now, she's mentioned it twice about how I should come back sometime.
We go back upstairs - the dog and his owner haven't arrived yet - and we go in her room. We are sitting on her bed. I lean in to kiss her. She turns her head and says:
I was unphased and continued the conversation from before. She started being a little bit more touchy with me.
The dog's owner arrives. We go down to the lobby to get the dog, then we go back up to her apartment. I start looking at bus times and figuring out when I'm gonna leave, and tell her the time I'm leaving. She opens the door to her bedroom and invites me in. She gets under the covers and lays down and I am on top of the covers. Then I get under the covers with her. We ended up having a conversation about women and sex and society. (...escalation window missed probably. -.-) I used the opportunity to tell her it sucks that society thinks that sex is not normal for women, and that women shouldn't be considered a slut just because they like sex. She throws out a test:
I start rubbing her arm. Then I pull out my phone and I'm finding out when the bus comes, I tell her that I gotta go in 40 minutes. She says:
We start kissing. When I start rubbing her boobs from over top of her shirt, she throws out some resistance and tells me to stop. I bring out an escalation ladder. I sucked on her tits and rubbed her pussy over her pants but that was the farthest I was able to get. Eventually I stopped escalating... I started lying there, sorta ignoring her and she started cuddling me.
Then I left and she tried to make out with me again before I left, but I teased her and didn't kiss her.
The next day I text her:
Looking back on this text exchange I almost vomit hysterically. By thanking her I'm practically implying she offered me something. Then she replies with indifference. Ouch.
A month later (July 20th) I send her this:
It was uncalibrated given the circumstances.
What should I do next? I was thinking about texting her and going full beta.
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I was walking by a girl wearing earphones at a bus stop. We were making eye contact so I opened her. While we're talking a bus comes, slows down, and goes by. She says, "that was my bus."
The next day, I go over to her place and we are sitting at her kitchen table chatting. She says that she is adopting a dog tonight and that the owner will be around at 8:00PM to drop off the dog. She starts telling me that she tried killing herself and that she went celibate for a year. I also posed this question:
To my surprise she chooses the former option.
Eventually she gives me a tour around her apartment building. Up until now, she's mentioned it twice about how I should come back sometime.
We go back upstairs - the dog and his owner haven't arrived yet - and we go in her room. We are sitting on her bed. I lean in to kiss her. She turns her head and says:
I was unphased and continued the conversation from before. She started being a little bit more touchy with me.
The dog's owner arrives. We go down to the lobby to get the dog, then we go back up to her apartment. I start looking at bus times and figuring out when I'm gonna leave, and tell her the time I'm leaving. She opens the door to her bedroom and invites me in. She gets under the covers and lays down and I am on top of the covers. Then I get under the covers with her. We ended up having a conversation about women and sex and society. (...escalation window missed probably. -.-) I used the opportunity to tell her it sucks that society thinks that sex is not normal for women, and that women shouldn't be considered a slut just because they like sex. She throws out a test:
I start rubbing her arm. Then I pull out my phone and I'm finding out when the bus comes, I tell her that I gotta go in 40 minutes. She says:
We start kissing. When I start rubbing her boobs from over top of her shirt, she throws out some resistance and tells me to stop. I bring out an escalation ladder. I sucked on her tits and rubbed her pussy over her pants but that was the farthest I was able to get. Eventually I stopped escalating... I started lying there, sorta ignoring her and she started cuddling me.
Then I left and she tried to make out with me again before I left, but I teased her and didn't kiss her.
The next day I text her:
backstory: thanks for the fun time last night
frothy gothy: np backstory
Looking back on this text exchange I almost vomit hysterically. By thanking her I'm practically implying she offered me something. Then she replies with indifference. Ouch.
A month later (July 20th) I send her this:
It was uncalibrated given the circumstances.
What should I do next? I was thinking about texting her and going full beta.
